What happened to the people around you who have not had children all their lives?

<> I just want to say that the people around me who have not had children all their lives end up miserable, at least in my opinion. Those were distant relatives of our family. I don't know what the reason is, my aunt and uncle just don't have children.

It is said that he once adopted a child and recognized a goddaughter, but in the end he stopped visiting. It is said that two people are very good at living, and they have lived to a very harsh level, as if they hurt people to eat and wear, etc., so can the relationship get better in this case? It wasn't born in the first place, and everyone knew that they didn't treat it well, so they didn't come later.

When you are old, you will be the old couple as companions and take care of each other. In fact, the physical strength is not up to it, and it has become a problem to move things or clean up. Later, when I heard that my uncle had passed away, my aunt went to a nearby nursing home.

Later, I also got sick, and I was taken care of by people in nursing homes, but in fact, who would do my best to treat you and take care of you? When people are old, they need people. If you don't even have someone close to you at that time, then your old life is really miserable.

Even if you have children and daughters, they may not care about you. People are old and need people, and they can't create value for children, especially those who are sick, like being rolled into a ball. I've heard a lot about that kind of thing.

In the end, there are many old people who commit suicide directly. I was pregnant for ten months, and I raised a handful of and urine, and I never disliked you. When you get older, you will dislike your parents.

I have a sickness, I drag it around, and I don't show my parents if I have money. Later, my eldest lady died, and it is said that there is still an inheritance, so that the relative who often walks around is swept away.

No family is complete without children. Raising children to prevent old age. It sounds very sad.

If you don't have children, who cares about you with the current pension mechanism? The caregiver dislikes you for incontinence, and the welfare home thinks you eat too much and will be violent to you. But in that case, you don't have the ability to take care of yourself, and if you don't rely on others, you'll really fend for yourself.

Some elderly people who live alone do not know how many days they have died at home.

If you don't get married and have children at that age, you will be gossiped about by outsiders, and others will laugh at the family and say something unpleasant.

They will also feel that if the girl gets older, the more difficult it will be to marry, when she is young, she chooses carefully, and when she is older, someone else will choose you, so you don't have to choose, you can only marry honestly, and it would be good to be able to marry. When you're older, don't pick and choose.

However, now society, both men and women, have their own ideas, after all, society is progressing, and everyone's thinking is also progressing.

I think in today's society, everyone wants their lives to be natural and casual, and it is not an important thing to get married or not.

If you are not happy when you are married, it is better not to get married. If you can't meet the right person, you are also responsible for yourself not to get married.

And this society is becoming more and more open, and the tolerance for everyone is also increasing, and more and more people choose not to marry and become unmarried Zheng Liang sedan chair ists.

So today we are going to discuss what life is really like for a person who chooses to be an unmarried person in their old age? Won't it feel desolate? Will it be lonely?

Xiaoma, 59 years old, has never been married, never regretted it, and feels that this is the life he wants.

Pony is a girl I met on a trip to Africa, and we were all very fond of walking around the world, and a group of young people were very speculative.

When she told us she was 59 years old, we were all shocked, she didn't look like someone who was about to 60, she was very well maintained, and she was very good at fit.

It turns out that she usually likes running, fitness, yoga and other sports, and she maintains her figure very well, and she is very energetic, sometimes more energetic than us young people.

You must know that people are more open-minded now, and many times they will be a little different from what they used to think。For example, in the matter of having children, there are many young people who choose not to have children, and they are Dink, but if they are left in the past, this is not allowed, I remember that there was a saying in the past: there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is the greatest, which can be seen how much people attached importance to children in the past.

And in the past, people not only valued children, but also valued sons over daughters, so they felt that they had to have sons to inherit the lineage, and they looked down on women。But now we have always paid attention to the equality of men and women, of course, I also know that there will still be some differences in the attitude towards men and women in this era, but compared with before, the social status of women has been relatively improved, and they will no longer be as humble at home as before. <>

As for having children, in fact, I think everyone has their own considerations, some people may really not want children, as for the reason, I think none of us know, so we are not qualified to evaluate that other people's practices are wrongAfter all, it's all our own choice, and we can't force our own ideas onto others。However, I personally still think that it is better to have children, because in my opinion, after having children, I feel that the family is complete, and of course, I also know that it is really not easy to raise a child to grow up, so this is just my personal opinion. <>

As for those who choose not to have children, in fact, it does not necessarily mean that their lives must be a mess, after all, they have not raised their children to grow up, their living standards may be better in comparison, as for the future pension problem, I think this problem is not particularly big, after all, there are so many nursing homes now, although the other party may not be so dedicated to their own care, but it will not be particularly bad. But I think there must be a bit of a bad thing that is that when you get older, you will be very lonely, and those who have children will be very lively in the whole family, and those who do not have children will be sad when they are old and see other people's homes lively and their own homes are deserted.

There are good and bad. The worse case is to be gossiped about by others, and the better case is to enjoy your own life and not be tied up by family trivialities such as raising children.

I don't think having a baby is a process that a person or a family has to go through, and even if you skip this step, they won't have much to lose, because you may not have a sense of gain in this link, but you will definitely get something from other aspects.

Later, they all lived a relatively ordinary life. Whether you have children or not, you will face the hardships of life, and at the same time, you will enjoy happiness.

These people later regretted it, because when they were old, they would be more lonely, they felt that there was no one to accompany them, and they regretted not having their own children.

Maybe they didn't feel it when they were young, and when they got old, they would feel that there was no one to accompany them, and it seemed that there was some possibility of loneliness, and there was more or less a little regret, but everyone has their own way of life, and they should be able to have no regrets.

Those who did not have children still did not have children, and the couple lived happily ever after.

Those who do not have children will regret it when they are old because they feel lonely and have no one to accompany them.

Those who don't have children go to nursing homes when they get older, because they don't have children to take care of themselves when they are at home, and it is particularly unsafe to be alone.

I don't think I should regret it, one of my cousins is congenital infertile, in the countryside, a woman's infertility is an extremely serious matter, when it comes to marriage age, no one says matchmaking, and more neighbors say irresponsible things, my cousin's family is very poor, four brothers, a broken tile house, a family with this condition, either marrying a fool, or being an old bachelor. When my aunt married my cousin, the people in the village laughed at her, and the implication was that if I married someone who was infertile, it was better to be a bachelor, and my cousin ignored others and was very good to my aunt.

I don't think I regret it.

I built a new house, set up a small handicraft workshop, relied on my aunt's craftsmanship, adopted two children, and now they have graduated from college, although my cousins and brothers know that my aunt is not my own mother, they say: "My parents gave us a body, it is my current parents who raised me and taught me to be a man, I must be filial to them".

Maybe they don't have their own children in this life, but they have experienced the hardships of raising a child, and they are also a competent mother.

Maybe they don't have their own children in this life, but they have experienced the hardships of raising a child, and they are also a competent mother.

There is no way to regret it, can regret change this fact? Instead of regretting it, it is better to accept it calmly and live your life in the moment.

There is no way to regret it, can regret change this fact? Instead of regretting it, it is better to accept it calmly and live your life in the moment.

Now that people who do not have children have adopted a baby, the family can also live happily, although the child is not biological, but it is better than the biological child.

Although the child is not biological, it is better than the biological child.

After my mother's aunt and sister got married, they found that they couldn't get pregnant, they went to a lot of places to see a doctor and tried a lot of home remedies, and worshiped a lot of gods, after a few years of tossing, people didn't say that they spent a lot of money, and their stomachs still didn't move, and finally my aunt and uncle also gave up, because they couldn't get pregnant, my aunt has always felt ashamed of my uncle, and she took the initiative to file for divorce, but my uncle disagreed, saying that she couldn't have children and raised a child, and then they raised a girl.

The husband and wife regard this child as their own, the child is healthy and thriving under the loving care of my uncle and aunt, after graduating from key universities, he is now working in the ** department, and after getting married, he lives with my aunt and uncle, and the old couple brings them children, my cousin later also knew that he was adopted, and there was a period of various crying, unwillingness, and so on, and now they also accept this fact, my cousin and my aunt and they believe to each other that although they are not biological mother and daughter, they are better than biological mother and daughter, agreed to be a mother and daughter in the next life.

So, although my aunt can't have children, she doesn't regret it.

So, although my aunt can't have children, she doesn't regret it.

Not having children in your life is a way of life. Even though I have children, I respect them.

First, a woman who has no children will stay young, her figure will be good, and her eyes will be clear. Because it's so hard to take care of children. The worries of children when they are sick, the tutoring and busyness after school, and the worries about children's nutrition and growth will consume a woman's youth.

Although we can also say that this is also a mature beauty.

Second, if you don't have children, you have to have the courage to face it, after all, China is very traditional, your neighbors are different, and you are very different.

Third, if you don't have children, the older you get, the more lonely you will be, envy others, and have a good child who looks like you and speaks like yourself.

Fourth, without children, you will be romantic, because without pots and pans, children can eat, drink, and lazar, and you can have more time and money to do what you want to do.

Fifth, not having children should increase the probability of ** disease, after all, the evolution of human beings requires normal laws.

Clause. 6. A woman does not live for her family in her life, but for herself.

Many people think that girls are all their lives to be married and teach their children, and live for this family, but I want to say that girls also have their own dreams and ambitions, not only families. So in my opinion, a woman lives her whole life for herself, not for other people. I don't deny that many women are very happy in the family and take care of the whole family in an orderly manner, but everyone must also allow those strong women, those women who give their lives for their careers and hobbies, to exist.

Women do undertake the mission of having children and continuing their offspring, but this does not mean that women can only be housewives, nor does it mean that a woman's life is incomplete if she does not have children.