Do you mind if your child wears clothes that have been used by others?

Updated on parenting 2024-04-22
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    <> don't mind, the person who can give the child clothes must be an acquaintance with whom he has a relationship. Nowadays, people's living conditions are generally better, and the clothes that can be given to others are not as good as that.

    Last year, I also received clothes from my eldest sister's children, some of which were brand new. Children grow up fast, and a lot of the clothes I bought will soon be unwearable, and it is useless to put them there, so give them to me, and I will save a lot of money.

    Children are small, just dress clean and tidy, there is no need to buy new clothes for every piece of clothing, the clothes given by others can be worn to make do, and it is the same to buy new clothes when they grow up.

    We have children born to wear handmade small padded jackets, many are used by others, they buy two small ones, many times in the winter may not be able to wear, at this time, if the neighbors know that your child has no clothes to wear, will be very enthusiastic to take out their children's clothes, how can you refuse such kindness.

    The clothes sent by others, I will wash them first, put them in the sun, let the ultraviolet rays disinfect the clothes, although the clothes are nothing, after all, the clothes that have been put for a long time still have a smell, which also makes children more comfortable to wear.

    It's always hard to refuse the kindness of others when they send clothes, and after receiving those clothes, I pick out what I like, and send those I don't like to send them to the donation wardrobe, and I can also help children in poor mountainous areas, which I think is very good.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't mind, in fact, many of the clothes my baby wears were sent by others, and most of them were worn by their children. I gladly accepted, rearranged, washed, and chose the right one for my child.

    Wear clothes that others have worn, of course this"others"There is a choice, generally given these clothes, are relatives, friends, colleagues, etc., very assured, strangers of the clothes we will definitely not accept.

    After my baby was born, a colleague in the office gave me a lot of things, including clothes, sleeping bags, waist stools, etc., some of which were used and some of which were new. These are no longer used by her children, and it is a pity to throw them away, so they are just right for me to use to the fullest, and I don't have to buy them again, which is environmentally friendly and economical for both parties.

    Later, relatives, friends, etc., and at various stages of the successive delivery of some clothes, in fact, when they send, it is also selected, clean, valuable, and the size is suitable for children to wear, people will send it. If it is not suitable, it will not be given away.

    Because children grow up very fast, some clothes may not be worn a few times before they are small, so every time the season changes, almost all of them need to be larger than the original size to wear, if all of them are bought, and they can't be worn a few times, in fact, it is a waste.

    Some people are reluctant to wear clothes that have been used by others for their children, perhaps out of face, or they want to give their children the best, and they don't care about financial expenditures, so it can only be said that there is a reason for each choice.

    Of course, wearing other people's clothes, first, the child is small, and he has no sense of opposition. The second is that the child is older, but acceptable. If the child has a sense of autonomy and refuses to wear other people's clothes, then I will not give my child other clothes anymore.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course I mind my kids wearing clothes that other people have used.

    If it were my child, I would want to give him the best things in the world, and I would try to satisfy him whatever he wanted.

    I will not only support him unconditionally financially, but also give him the best material conditions and material life.

    Therefore, I will never give it to her again after someone else has used it, even if the dress has only been worn once and looks brand new.

    It's not just about my self-esteem, it's about my children's self-esteem.

    Growing up, I never wore clothes that other people used because I felt that they were not wanted.

    If I accept clothes that others don't want, I will have the thought in my heart that I am a beggar! So when I was a child, I was determined not to wear clothes that other people used.

    And if there are other people's clothes in the house, I am also very disgusted and resistant.

    I remember one time my mom took a dress that my aunt's daughter was my sister.

    My aunt said that the dress had not been worn a few times and looked new, and that it was a pity to throw it away and let my mom take it back for me to wear.

    When I saw the dress, I immediately became angry again, and I immediately jumped up and told my mom that I didn't want it, and asked her to throw it away for me.

    I said I had clothes to wear, why should I wear someone else's? I'm not a beggar, and even if she's my sister, I won't wear it.

    Do I have self-esteem too? Don't always be like a beggar and accept handouts.

    I also know that my thinking is extreme, but I also agree with this extreme of mine.

    Personally, I'm reluctant to wear clothes that other people have used. As my child, I would never let him wear clothes that other people had used.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't mind, the clothes worn are softer than before, the child is more comfortable to wear, and the child will get less sick when wearing the clothes used by others, and save a lot of money.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't mind, as long as it is familiar with the children of relatives and friends, you can wear it, and now that the conditions are good, the clothes given by others are not too old, but better than new clothes.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't mind, the old people here say that babies will be more obedient when they wear clothes worn by others.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Although it is said that for those of us parents who often wear other people's clothes when they are young, especially at that time, there are several children in the family, and the clothes of the general sister or elder brother are worn for a few years, and they are left for their younger brothers and sisters to wear after they are small, but now after all, the economic conditions in the family are much better than in the past, generally if the economic conditions of the family allow, I personally think that it is not necessary to let the children wear other people's clothes when they are young.

    On the one hand, when the child is young and wears the old clothes worn by others, the child will have some loss in his heart, after all, the vast majority of children like to wear new clothes, as long as the conditions in the home allow, then as a parent, it is better to buy new clothes for the child to wear. Of course, we do not advocate buying particularly expensive clothes for children, because buying particularly expensive clothes for children is easy to cause children to compare with each other, which is very bad for children's growth.

    Because for children, if they wear old clothes worn by others, some children will have an inferiority complex in their hearts, and even some children will think that their parents do not love them very much, and will have some negative emotions, and even affect the child's learning and daily life, which is not very beneficial to the child's growth.

    Of course, for those clothes that are not very old and have only been worn by other children a few times, they can also be worn by their own children, but even so, they should communicate with their children well, and explain to their children that the reason why they wear such clothes is mainly to avoid waste, not because their parents do not love themselves, or because the economic conditions in the family are not good. By wearing such old clothes, the saved money can be used in more meaningful ways, so that the child will gradually understand the thoughts of his parents.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Actually, is it okay to wear other people's clothes when you are a child? When the child was a child, it was okay to wear other people's clothes, many of our sisters wore the clothes of their brothers and sisters, at that time we were very sleepy in the family, so if the child now wears other people's clothes, it will let him develop a hard and simple style, will let him know that life is not easy, and develop the habit of not being picky about his clothes, which is of great benefit to the growth of the child, so it is still possible to wear other people's clothes when he is a child.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It is certainly okay for a child to wear other people's clothes when he is a child, but there must be certain restrictions when he is a child, and it is best not to wear clothes worn by others after the child is 6 years old. After the child reaches the age of 6, the mind will slowly mature, and then there will be ideas, and the things that he wants to get are the only things that belong to him, rather than picking up things that others don't want to use or clothes to wear, which is not good for the child. If family conditions allow, try not to dress your child in other people's clothes after the age of 6.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Children can wear other people's clothes when they are young, because children generally do not have any infectious diseases when they are young, so they generally do not have to worry about wearing other people's children's clothes will cause infectious diseases, of course, wearing other people's children's clothes is a thrifty behavior, which is a commonplace phenomenon in the past.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course, you can, because now there are fewer children, sister, children grow faster, clothes can't be worn for a long time, if there is the right age, you can give or be given by others to wear children's clothes to wear, pay attention to other people's old clothes must be disinfected, eliminate bacteria and viruses, so as not to bring diseases to children, which not only reduces the economic burden, but also improves the use value of items.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course, it is okay for children to wear other people's clothes when they are young, this is nothing, and we ourselves often wear other people's clothes when we are young, which is a virtue of frugality.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There's nothing you can't do, depending on your family conditions or whether you pay attention to these things. In the past, everyone was poor, and there were several children in the family, and the clothes were all worn by the big ones and the small ones, and then passed down after the small ones were worn. Now the living conditions are better than before, but it is not excluded that there are also poor people, so it depends on whether the conditions at home allow it.

    There are also families who pay attention to wearing other people's clothes or something, which depends on his personal and family customs. So the answer is not yes, you decide.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When children are young, they can wear other people's clothes, and we all grew up picking up other people's clothes when we were young. There will be no explanation for this, and when they grow up, the child will pay attention, and if you put someone else's clothes on him, they will not be happy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yes, generally speaking, there is nothing to mind about this, because children grow up fast, we often buy clothes, and it will also waste resources, and the clothes that other people's children give you are also her clothes.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When children are young, they wear other people's clothes, adults say that they are good to feed, no disasters, safe and sound, pick up and wear very casually, so that they can grow up healthily, no need to be too deliberate and too careful, not only very tired but also easy to have problems, so when children are young, wearing other people's clothes is very conducive to growth.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Yes, because the trend between children is comparable, the heart is not so serious, don't let the child develop some bad habits of vanity, let him know that life is not easy, it's good.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When the child is young, he can wear other people's clothes, if other people's clothes are new, they can be worn, if they are old, it is better not to wear them.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Of course, after all, children grow when they are young, if they buy too many clothes, it will only cause unnecessary waste, if there are relatives who have better clothes, of course, you can give them to the child, and you can throw them away directly after wearing.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's actually okay for children to wear other people's clothes when they are young. After all, when children grow up quickly, some clothes can't be worn long after they are bought, and sometimes it's okay to wear other people's clothes.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Yes, it is good to advocate low-carbon environmental protection, it is good to wear other people's clothes, and diligence and thrift are fine traditional virtues.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When the child is young, of course, it is okay to wear other people's clothes, as long as these clothes can be cleaned, and when the child wears them, ensure that she has no damage and does not affect the child's appearance.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    When the child is young, it is okay to wear other people's clothes, in fact, now the children of every family are basically only children, and they buy a lot of clothes, but they don't wear much and they are small, and it is a pity to throw them away.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It must be possible to wear other people's clothes directly, because children don't need to wear good clothes when they are young, and children's clothes are also very expensive, so you can wear other people's clothes for children, which can also save money.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's okay for a child to wear other people's clothes when they're young, but don't wear close-fitting clothes.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Hello friend, it is okay for a child to wear other people's clothes when he is a child, and in general, the clothes of his brother, sister's cousin, and cousin are generally worn when he is a child. All and can be worn.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Of course, it is okay for children to wear other people's clothes when they are young, after all, some families are more difficult, and the clothes worn by children are worn by other people's children, in fact, this is very normal.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In fact, the baby can wear clothes worn by others, as long as the clothes are clean, but they should be washed and exposed to the sun before wearing, and ultraviolet disinfection can be carried out if necessary. Old clothes actually have their own advantages:

    1.Old clothes are soft and comfortable, which is safer than new clothes; 2.Used clothes are low-carbon and environmentally friendly, which can save economic expenses.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think it's actually a good habit, that is, don't deliberately wear all other people's old clothes, but if others occasionally give you a few old clothes to wear, it's okay, including your own in addition to saving on clothing, you still have to spend the money, occasionally buy yourself some new clothes, you can also let your heart have some freshness.

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