The girls who married the boys they didn t like in those years, are they living well now?

Everyone wants to marry the person they like, but not all of them can do so.

My cousin didn't go to high school after finishing school, because it was really not the material for studying, and then she went to Guangzhou to work alone and fell in love three years later, and the aunt and uncle resolutely disagreed, because the man was from Guangzhou, and the family was too far away, and the aunt and uncle must have thought about raising a girl and ended up marrying so far, and in case of a quarrel, the cousin couldn't come back.

So the aunt and uncle definitely disagreed, and the cousin loved to death at that time, and the aunt and uncle even went to Guangzhou in person to bring the cousin back, but the cousin died and didn't come back, and the aunt and uncle were half dead in anger, saying that there should be no her daughter.

But two years later, my cousin came back alone, yes, she broke up with the man, and the aunt and uncle-in-law must be very happy, hurry up and let the cousin go on a blind date, the cousin will definitely not be happy, but the cousin who has broken the hearts of her parents is unwilling to let them down again.

The aunt is very satisfied with a blind date man, the man is very diligent and always comes to the aunt's house to clean up or brings a lot of things every time he comes, his attitude is also sincere, he is also down-to-earth, and the most important thing is that he likes his cousin.

So the aunt and uncle forcibly made the decision to let the cousin marry the man, and the cousin just fell out of love and didn't want to hurt her parents anymore, so she agreed! But at that time my cousin didn't love him at all!

I know you want to hear the results, the result is that the two of them are now super happy, and have a pair of children, the cousin was finally moved by the cousin-in-law, as the saying goes, the golden stone caused by the golden city is open, the cousin finally found the cousin-in-law who paid silently, and now the relationship between the two is still very good.

I think my cousin is in a very good state now, like a little woman, and a pair of lovely children, who love his husband! Fortunately, my cousin married her cousin-in-law who she didn't love at the time!

In my own heart, I always feel that if I choose marriage, I must marry love, and if it is someone I don't like, then I would rather not marry. People who don't like it, people's lives are not long, but not short.

Two people don't like each other together, isn't that torture together, what's the point? Can life be imagined? That is, when I went back to my hometown this year, I used to listen to a junior high school classmate in our junior high school group, and now he is getting married for the third time.

At that time, I was shocked, I didn't get married here, I was about to be thirty people, and everyone is now married three times. I was also drunk, and when I returned to my hometown, my neighbor came to our house to play with me and asked me when I was going to get married, so I briefly talked to him about my own affairs, and he began to tell me about my junior high school classmate.

Because we were all classmates in the same class before, and we were in a village in our hometown, but when I went to college, they got married immediately after the snow.

What's going on with the classmate who got married for the third time, he got out of school before finishing junior high school, and the parents of the family gave him a blind date directly, and found a home, and he didn't know what kind of temperament and temperament the other man's temperament was.

got married, and after getting married, it may be that as he gets older, he gave birth to a son, and he divorced within two years. The second marriage also did not last for a year and was divorced directly.

When we went back to our hometown this year and learned that he was married again, it was already a third marriage. Thinking about it, I feel like I want to sigh, since the two of them don't know each other, they got married in a hurry, and they were really speechless if they didn't go to the end.

Well, how to say it, a girl who marries a guy she doesn't like, maybe it's because that guy likes her very much, and then they retreat. They may be living well, because the boy loves him very much, and then slowly fall in love with him, and then they are happy now, or it may be because the next situation is that they are not happy at all, because the person who is with him is not the person she likes, but I think this is less likely.

Their current life is like a hazy sky, because they don't love their husbands, they are like resentful women every day, except for complaining or complaining.

I don't think their marriage will be happy, although the relationship can be cultivated, but it is almost rare.

I had a friend who married a boy introduced by my family, and we fell in love with each other and now have two children.

It is often said that no matter how late you are, you should marry love, which shows the importance of love in marriage. But there are also people who are forced by the pressure of their parents, or their own reasons of one kind or another, and marry someone they don't like, what happened to them later, are they happy, sad, or lukewarm with each other?

1. I got married after a blind date with my husband, and I felt like that after marriage, he had a lot of family, and I didn't like it at first, but now I'm used to it. He was very nice to me, he couldn't speak, but he was quick to act.

2. Married a person I didn't love, because my parents died suddenly, and I wanted to find someone to rely on, so I found a man with good character to marry. Now that several years have passed, there is family affection, I don't know if there is love, and I have children, he will not divorce without major faults!

3. After breaking up with my ex, I married him under pressure from my parents, he said that I don't know if I love me, but I hate him playing mahjong, and today he went again, and I threw his clothes on the ground. Scold him and ignore you, my in-laws are good to me.

4. When I married him, I didn't love him much, so I just thought it would be good for me. Since I was pregnant and gave birth, I have become more and more inseparable from him, and he has given me everything he can give me.

5. When I first got married to my husband, I also felt that I had some shortcomings, I didn't love him enough, and I doubted his love for me. After getting married, I went to Jiuzhaigou for my honeymoon**, he pulled me out of the bath and ran together, took the food and water to me, and said that even if the building collapsed, I also had food and water, and when he carried the suitcase, he felt that the feeling was found, and now he loves him more and more.

6. Marrying someone you love him, but he doesn't love you is pain. It's always been a one-way giving, and I'm in love hard, until one day I finally can't hold it anymore, I don't want to deceive myself anymore, and I get divorced. Don't have to please people anymore, it's good to be alone.

Love is very simple, it is the ordinary appearance of ordinary life.

A woman will marry the right person for a lifetime, which will make you believe in love again.

Answer hello, no one can say for sure about love, if you marry someone you don't like, but he is good to himself, two people live together well, and there may be feelings for a long time, and there is also a situation where there is no hope for marriage. Then it is possible to get a divorce.

When a woman marries a man who doesn't love her, she is very painful in her heart, and the experience is not particularly good, because she feels that there is no happiness with each other, and there are many times when she is with him, there will be no common language, and you will feel that life is really messy.

It is a very bad experience, because such a marriage will not be happy, and it is very aggrieved, because I don't have any feelings for him, which is particularly sad.

It's definitely not a particularly good experience, having no feelings with each other, just like being with a stranger, you will feel particularly helpless, and you will feel that life is not interesting.

It can be a particularly painful experience. After all, if you marry a man who doesn't love you, you will be very unhappy if you don't get the other party's care and understanding.

How are the girls who are married to boys who love but are not very good?

Although it is said that poor couples mourn everything, but there are still relatively few poor couples now, even if the conditions are not good, you can create conditions, at least you can live your own small life. Therefore, girls who marry love generally do not have a particularly bad life.

Let's talk about a real girl who is married to love, let's call her Fanfan. When she was in college, she fell in love with a boy whose family conditions were not very good. Of course, the boy loved her too.

As for the girl, the family conditions are okay, and she is a well-off family, and she is the only child in the family, so the burden on the whole family is not heavy, and there is a little savings.

As for the boys, although the family conditions are not bad in their own rural areas, they are still much worse than the woman's family. What's more, there are two boys in the man's family, and he is still the eldest, so the family burden is still quite heavy.

At the beginning, the woman's parents were resolutely opposed to this marriage, pitying the hearts of parents all over the world, they didn't want their daughter to suffer in the future. But he really couldn't resist his daughter, so he could only reluctantly agree to their marriage.

The marriage of the two people is not in accordance with the customs of the woman's family, because the bride price and other aspects are too much for the man, so everything is simple.

Naturally, they got married and didn't have a lot of savings, in addition to the hundreds of thousands of dollars given by the woman to buy a car, the man gave 20,000 yuan, although it may be a little little, but they are very satisfied, after all, they are walking together.

They work hard outside together, earn their own money, and live their own small life. Because my boyfriend feels that he owes something to Fanfan, he is twice as good for Fanfan after marriage, and he usually takes care of the housework and doesn't want to make Fanfan too tired.

Every morning before going out to work, I would take a bite of food, and then pampered and said: Little fool, I'll go to work. Every night, I would leave work early, and then cook dinner for Fanfan, and even be careful enough to cut the fruit for Fanfan. Wait a minute.

These things, Fanfan sees them in her eyes, and she is happy in her heart, she has always felt the full love from her husband, for Fanfan, this is more precious than anything. Therefore, she has never regretted her decision to marry love.

I belong to the one in question, who has a very loving but condition.

Not a good boy, we love each other very much, and after a sweet love, we have now entered a happy marriage.

I'm not a person who fancies hardware conditions, I pay more attention to character, only a good character can ensure that he can give you a sense of security in the future, a sense of security is what every woman needs, although you can't rely too much on a person, but after marriage, you will still rely on each other. Therefore, a man with a sense of responsibility and responsibility will feel solid and happy when you are by your side.

Before the two of us confirmed the relationship, my husband looked at me and said: My family is not like a rich family, there is not much money, but I will work hard to earn money for you, and I will be good to you for a lifetime, okay, are you still willing to be with me? I looked at him earnestly and nodded vigorously:

There is not much money to earn again, in case a person's character cannot be guaranteed, then it will be broken, I am willing. That's how we are together, because I take into account his family conditions, every time I meet, I will find a way to spend less, a boy especially needs dignity in front of girls, I can't pay, I'm afraid of hurting his self-esteem, he tries to please me every time, I'm afraid I'm not happy, that's it, I think about him, he thinks about me, although we don't live a lot of money like other couples, but we are still very happy under our careful budget.

When I was 26 years old, I got married, married to a boy like me, and when I married him, there was nothing, but I saw that he was working hard for me and our little family, and I was very happy.

Money, it's really nothing, no, two people can earn it together, it doesn't matter if the money is not much, we can be careful and still be able to live a delicate life, as long as two people love each other and have a person who can rely on them for a lifetime, the days will be rushed.

I still remember attending my sister's wedding and asking her, why did you choose my brother-in-law after so many people? She said that one day she received a bouquet of flowers for her birthday, and she later asked someone who gave the flowers, because no boy remembered her birthday that year except for her parents, and then they contacted more and ended up together.

In fact, what girls want is not a man, but life, romance, and mood. My sister and my brother-in-law live happily because my sister's family is rich, and they will not be embarrassed with the help of their parents.

But I think that if a girl marries someone who has no money and is not motivated, she will eventually be ground beyond recognition by firewood, rice, oil and salt, and it will be a joke to have such a persistent relationship at the beginning.

However, I also have a romantic idea, that is, if I want to find a boyfriend in the future, I want to run a business with him, work together, and advance and retreat together.

It will be a particularly contradictory feeling, after all, I love each other very much, I have always wanted to marry each other, and now I have my wish, I should be happy, but the other party does not love me, and I will be very sad.

If you marry a woman who doesn't love you, the experience will definitely not be particularly bad, the other party doesn't like you to be with him at all, you will definitely not be happy, and there are many times when you feel particularly helpless.

It must be a very bad experience, because there is no feeling with each other, and the other party does not love themselves, and there will be no common words to talk about with her.