Do things follow your feelings or do you think rationally?

As an engineering student, I think it is better to think rationally, and it is free and easy to follow feelings, but if you lack thinking, making decisions directly will inevitably be very hasty sometimes, so I think that when doing things, we should focus on rationality, supplemented by emotion. Emotions are often the dominant people in life, and it is easy to become slaves to emotions or emotions, and things are just there and will not change, but they will end differently or progress differently depending on the way you do it.

A lack of rational way of doing things is prone to many hidden dangers, such as some small details are likely to be overlooked. And the details often determine success or failure, follow the feeling, the feeling will inevitably make mistakes, so you should still follow the reason. But if everything follows rationality, it's too tiring, so small things are casual, do as you like, and when you encounter big things, you still have to start from a rational point of view.

The combination of sensibility and rationality is neither too persistent, persistent to the point of death, nor casual and lazy, organized, and able to do things like this.

In doing anything, we are more rational to think about it, to judge what kind of result I will get if I do it. Or in the process of doing this, can I bravely face or solve the problems encountered in the process? After all, there is a relative effort when doing anything, and it depends on whether the effort is worth it.

Of course, not everything has to be considered rationally, once some things are considered rationally, in exchange for the consequences of not practicing this matter.

Especially for things mixed with feelings, sometimes it is not possible to carry out this matter with rational consideration, and some things are more sudden, and this situation does not allow us to consider rationally.

For example, if you are walking on the road now and see an elderly grandmother crossing the road, and you are just in time to go to work, if you are still rationally considering whether I should help this grandmother cross the road, then you may be late for work, and you will be deducted from the full attendance award, and you are worried that it is not safe for the grandmother to cross the road.

This situation cannot be considered rationally, and you can only follow your feelings, and let your behavior follow the first feeling is the most real.

And most of the time we do things rationally, we have to have the ability to distinguish things, if we all rely on feelings, not all are correct, and there are times when feelings go wrong.

Whether it is to follow your feelings or consider it rationally, you must be willing to do it, so that this thing can have a good result.

To remember one thing, rational thinking may not make things perfect, and following the feeling may lead to another village, no matter which one you are in, it is right to be able to do things well.

Of course, it is a little more rational, because we have passed that era of youth and flamboyance, and as we get older, we will think more and more, and thus we will become more and more rational. It feels like it's no longer a lifesaver for you to do things! Let me tell you two examples, maybe you will understand a lot!

When I was at home during the eleventh holiday, my sister came back at twelve o'clock one night, and she could get through but no one answered her by calling ** before, and then turned off the phone directly. At that moment, my parents and I were almost crazy, and we were really worried about what would happen to her, and I was anxious at home like ants on a hot pot.

Later, she came back at twelve o'clock, and my dad beat her angrily and asked her why she didn't pick up ** and turn off the phone, but she just didn't say anything. At that moment, I suddenly remembered that I went to travel alone after graduating from the college entrance examination, I didn't tell my parents, and my parents were also in a hurry and almost called the police.

Suddenly, I felt that my sister at this time was like me at that time, very irrational, and now I will definitely not do anything that my parents worry about, because I am rational enough now! But my sister is different, she is now in the rebellious period, and she always follows her feelings! Often do things without thinking about the consequences, and such consequences are often painful!

As the age increases, more and more people do things to consider the consequences, will face anything rationally, I have a boy I like at school, which boy also likes me and confesses to me, but he is a southerner, so I refused, many people don't understand, why not follow the feeling and be with that boy?

Because my parents have said countless times that I am not allowed to marry too far, and I don't have to think about it outside the province! So in order to avoid more pain later, I had to refuse. Many people say that my reason is terrible, but I just don't dare to bear the result of that heartache!

If you want to follow your feelings, you need to have enough social experience, and rich social experience will subtly change your view of dealing with things, and the perspective of dealing with problems will also be different.

Personally, I think that if you don't have rich social experience, you need to think rationally first in dealing with things, and the real ability is to be able to quickly find out the necessary knowledge when necessary, and think rationally about the knowledge that can be considered.

In the normal environment, there will be many personal factors, such as: excitement, anger, etc., and you need to cut off the excess emotions during rational thinking. Rational, calm and objective thinking, jumping out of unnecessary excitement, sadness, fear and other emotions, can reduce your energy consumption, help yourself improve your concentration, so as to focus more on the problem you want to think about.

When considering most of the issues, rationality is a necessary step to make choices and decisions, when people are still hesitating about what to choose, do not make a rash decision because of the momentary speed, we should think more rationally, so as to make the most suitable choice for ourselves.

Here, I would like to remind everyone that the evening is the most fragile time for everyone's emotions, during the evening, we are not suitable for making any decisions, the emotional fluctuations at night are relatively large, and it is also a more pessimistic time, and the decisions made at this time are very likely to be irrational behavior, if something bothers you, it is better to record this matter on the memo, and wait for yourself to rest, adjust your state and then make a decision after rational thinking.

I prefer to walk by feeling, but when something is really serious, I tend to think rationally.

It is said that a woman's sixth sense.

It's accurate, so I like to follow my own ideas when making trivial decisions. The future is made up of countless surprises, and these small decisions I make are undoubtedly introductions, and sooner or later surprises will bloom in front of me. Then I prefer that these surprises are made up of things that I like.

Usually when we take exams, the teacher always tells us that when you are unsure about an answer, stick to the answer you like at first sight. I do this every time, and when I do multiple-choice questions, I always go over and over again, and I get rid of repeated thinking, and my efficiency has improved a lot. Of course, this is only for small exams, and I still have to think about big decisions.

You can't just follow your feelings, and that's too irresponsible for yourself. If you like two people, and you have to make a choice about who you live with, do you turn around and click whoever you want? This is so arbitrary that you have to think about it repeatedly.

I have lived a happy life all my life, and I can't make hasty decisions.

We will encounter a lot of things, and we need to apply different ways to deal with these things.

Think rationally about problems and deal with things, don't mix personal feelings, personal emotions will only affect our judgment ability, objectify the problem and then deal with it, and choose an answer that is recognized by the public.

At the very least, there must be a principle, and the things taught by my parents must be used.

In fact, the feeling is that the experience occupies the majority, and many times the feeling of lack of experience will be inaccurate.

Prove that you are a more rational person.

Is it a feeling of liking? If so, consider it.

I think the first thing is that you think he is not suitable for you, and then whether he is someone you are worthy of entrusting your life. If that's the case, you can think about it, after all, you're not very small.

Grasp what is worth it, and maybe regret it when you lose it! Ask your own heart, do you need him?

If you are less than 30 years old, you can follow the feelings, people live a lifetime and pass quickly, people need to do something they want to do, make themselves happy, so, you can follow the feelings, as long as you are happy, but after the age of 30, please be sensible, because you need to plan for your future, what you need must be able to stay with you for a lifetime.

You probably already know this question yourself! Dealing with feelings In the world of feelings, how much sanity do you think you have? People who are too rational are not suitable for love.

It's better to be sensible in your feelings, otherwise both of you will be hurt, are you willing?

Decisiveness is not reckless, frivolous, hasty!

Sloppiness and recklessness are the root causes of suffering and failure, because they are irrational, a process of judgment and choice that "follows the feelings"! They also make judgments and reactions in a short period of time, but because it is an irrational and non-thinking process, it is more likely to lead to the worst outcome! (The result of pain and failure).

Conceptually speaking, decisiveness is the use of reason to make judgments and choices quickly and neatly! Dedecisiveness is also a rational, thoughtful judgment, and its results are often easier to meet one's own expectations and requirements! (Seize the opportunity).

Therefore, decisiveness is also a rational judgment, but the result is often better than the behavior represented by the word "prudent", because prudence is also rational, but the efficiency of the judgment process is lower than that of decisiveness. That is, the landlord said "think seriously"! And by seriously thinking about such a delay and missing the opportunity!

Better than reckless, but worse than decisive)

After clarifying these, the landlord's question is easy to understand and answer: choice and judgment must be based on rational thinking, maturity and stability are necessary, although sloppiness can also lead to a good result, but in terms of probability, this is tantamount to hitting luck! But the agility of reason does vary from person to person, some people think quickly, so his choice is decisive, and some people are not shrewd enough but mature and steady, then his choice is prudent, which will also lead to success!

Of course, the worst thing is the kind of people who are sloppy and reckless, they do things without thinking and arbitrarily and hastily, and the result is undoubtedly painful failure!

The landlord can handle it now, right? It should also be clear: of course, you must be decisive in doing things! If your thinking is not mature enough, it is better to make a prudent choice than to be reckless!

What is one plus one? You can decisively say it's two. That's right. What's the point of saying such a stupid thing?

Actually, decisiveness has little to do with rationality. Decisiveness is to quickly select one of several options; Reason, on the other hand, is a multifaceted analysis of a problem and several more correct solutions are derived. A wise person can choose the safest one from several options, and those who are not wise can only waver.

I think it's hard to connect decisiveness and rationality. Reason can find the right way, naturally decisive. Be decisive but not necessarily find the right path. You've thought about paragraphs, but how can you be decisive.

To solve the problem, we must first find several ways rationally, and then compare and find a more stable way to implement it immediately. That is, decisive and rational. Isn't it?

It should be emotional and rational, right? Decidenty is a positive word, decisiveness refers to a calm quick and accurate decision, which has a rational component in it. Therefore, the meaning of the landlord should be arbitrary and decisive, or emotional and rational.

There is no one absolute answer in the world, and it is entirely up to the individual circumstances to decide which one is more suitable. For some more serious and formal issues, of course, we must deal with them rationally. However, being too rational can make people feel tired, so it is not impossible to solve problems that are not so serious and formal.

Decisive or arbitrary, more of a person's personality problem, some people are indecisive, some people are neat, this is often determined by a person's character, but it is not unchangeable, it can be improved through exercise. In most cases, it is good to be decisive (note that decisiveness already includes rationality).

To prescribe the right medicine, it is best not to be too rational about the problems that should be solved with emotion, and if you use emotion to solve problems that should be treated rationally, it will often go wrong.

Practice brings true knowledge, and more social experience helps a person to solve problems decisively and solve problems in the right way. There is no quick fix, and there is no absolute answer, the answer changes as things change.

Rationality refers to the ability to identify, judge, evaluate actual reasons, and make a person's behavior fit for a specific purpose. Reason discovers truth through arguments and persuasive arguments, and derives conclusions, opinions, and reasons for action through logical reasoning rather than appearances.

Therefore, rational experience must be a prerequisite for decisiveness. And this result must be desirable, correct, and even beneficial.

In layman's terms, it is decisive to be rational, only decisive will not be more painful, only decisive can have new opportunities, and only decisive can achieve the final victory.