Has a stranger chased you? What does it feel like?

Updated on society 2024-04-20
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I've had a sudden confession from a stranger I've only known for two hours.

    It started with a conversation at the top of the staircase. I was in a hurry to take the exam in the classroom, and I met a boy at the top of the stairs and asked me if I was a student of the Faculty of Economics. I said that I was from the business school, and he asked me for the ** of the accounting teacher in the college, because he wanted to study for the CPA exam by himself.

    Then I was in a hurry to go to the exam, so I left WeChat and said that if there was any problem, I would contact you later. After the exam, he sent a WeChat message to ask me how I did and whether it went well, and after I politely replied a few words, he suddenly asked me if I had a boyfriend. I said no, and he said he wanted to pursue me.

    My instinctive reaction, of course, was to say no. A guy who'd only known him for two hours suddenly said he wanted to pursue me, which was really hasty. Later, when I told my classmates about it, they said that maybe it was really love at first sight.

    But not to mention the chances of this, we only know each other by name, and out of responsibility for myself and the other person, I politely refused.

    Even if you really fall in love with someone at first sight, it's time to start with a friend and get to know each other slowly. From strange to familiar to love, sweet or sad experiences along the way can become precious memories for two people. Instead of looking back on the love process of the two in the future, there are only short "I want to pursue you" and "I do".

    After all, if he doesn't even want to spend time with you and being friends, then it's hard for me to judge his motives. So I think that directly and blindly confessing to a stranger not only does not give the other person a chance to get to know you, but also self-defeatingly cuts off future contact. The time that should be spent should be spent, the path that should be taken should not be avoided, feelings need time to cultivate, and one-sided love at first sight may be very embarrassing for each other.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, it feels very inexplicable, and the most important thing is that after seeing it, I didn't fall in love at first sight, but slowly began to hate it, and I felt that this person was really a little fake. <>

    One year, during the summer vacation, I went to my grandparents' house for a few days, and when I came back, I took the bus alone. There weren't many people in the car, and there were a lot of empty seats, so I found a window seat and sat there by myself. The bus seemed to stop halfway, and I looked out the window at the scenery, but I didn't notice that there was an extra person next to me.

    Feeling a little sleepy in my neck, I twisted my head, turned around and found a boy sitting next to me, and smiled politely. Keep your head down and continue playing with your phone. In fact, I didn't feel anything special, I would inevitably meet strangers in the car, but I felt that someone was looking at me all the time while playing with my mobile phone, I looked back at him strangely, and he put his mobile phone in front of me.

    I don't know why, he said he wanted me to enter my mobile phone number, I hesitated to say a mistake, but in the end I didn't do that. He dialed my number once and was relieved to find that my phone was ringing. After asking me a few words, I was reluctant, and I didn't know what to say, so I finally looked forward to getting out of the car.

    When I got home, when I was about to forget about it, I received a text message on my phone for some reason, which seemed to be reminiscing, saying that I missed the time when I rode in the car together. I thought about it for a long time before I thought of such a person.

    I think he's really funny, he didn't say a few words, he didn't know each other, I couldn't even remember what he looked like, and he could still say love words. It really doesn't feel very reliable, and I kind of hate the text messages he sends from time to time. I ignored him, and he slowly stopped talking.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, something sudden, a little caught off guard, I remember when I was in high school, a little brother said: I've been paying attention to you for a month or two, I like you, be my girlfriend! Suddenly I feel so excited, so excited!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't, but my girlfriend does, and she told me that it's really annoying! You can't hide if you want to!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This shows that your appearance or speech and behavior give people the first feeling is not bad, and the Chinese are very enthusiastic, just meet early in the morning and say, Have you eaten? Go out for a walk, and the woman will say that she is looking for a partner, how old is the child, it's just a habit of talking, nothing to care about, and it has nothing to do with whether you have anyone chasing you at the bottom, so it's good if these people like you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you are beautiful, many people will think that you have a lot of people to follow. But maybe you're beautiful, and you won't dare to chase after you, thinking that such a beautiful guy has already had a boyfriend, and there must be a lot of people chasing you, and it's your turn to chase it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You must be an excellent person in the eyes of others, either you grow up outstanding, or you study well, or you have a good career and family background.

    Causing others to think that you won't be without a girlfriend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe you're a little tall and want to ask if you're doing well.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe that person is interested in you and wants to pursue you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    <> "I, an ordinary little girl, doesn't look very good, and I'm not the kind of interesting and cute girl, maybe because of my personality, there are a lot of boys around me chasing me, and then I'm the kind of person you are interested in me and I don't feel for you, the strange characteristics of Taurus.

    There's a boy, we all call him Black Egg, he's black and tall, and then, the family is very rich, but it's very deductible, so everyone doesn't like to play with him very much. I belong to the kind of good old man, I see that he has no one to play, I am afraid that he will just turn lonely and go to him to play when he is fine, now I think about it, I was stupid back then, and I always have to take care of others. Slowly, I got to know him better, and I felt that he was not very bad, but also very good, and he was very good to me, and when he was fine, he stuffed me with a lot of food.

    Originally, I also thought that it didn't matter if good pot friends gave each other something to eat.

    Until one day, my table mate said, "Have you noticed, he always gives you something to eat, and we don't give it to us, he must like you." As soon as I heard this, I was very helpless, and instantly felt as if I had been fed up, and I had been far away from him since someone else said this. I never say hello when we meet again.

    Maybe there is something really wrong with my personality, as long as someone says he likes me, I feel in my heart that he will definitely not last long, just like the saying "someone likes me, but if he knows the real me, who will like me".

    The most impressive thing is another boy, he is still my good friend now, and we have long made it clear that we are still friends. He, how to say it, during the time when I played with him, he talked a lot about people, and I was used to it, and suddenly one day I told me that he was going to chase me, and he was serious, and he said, you are the second girl I really like.

    Then he began to pursue the mode, every day at noon ran to Building 3 to find me, must bring a cup of milk tea, a box of sugar, two pieces of chocolate, really every day the most afraid of noon, every day the most afraid of meeting him, I feel that I really owe him a lot, I keep all the things he sent very well, and plan to find a good time to return all to him.

    One day he came to me again, and I thought my time had come, so I hurried back to the classroom and brought him everything, and he looked at me and said, "Since I gave you something, I didn't think about coming back." I felt sorry for him when I threw all those things in the trash, but what could I say? comforting a lot gave him hope, it was better to be more ruthless than to directly hurt him at one time.

    How to say it, the person you don't like chases you, sometimes it's really annoying, you can only hurt him fiercely, but you can't be soft-hearted, I'm afraid that a little soft-heartedness will give others hope, and give others hope to make people desperate and more painful.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Pursued by people who don't like it

    It's like eating something you don't really like

    A bit of a nauseous feeling

    Because they don't like it, no matter what they do, they can't look at it, and it's annoying to see it.

    In some cases, you may feel harassed.

    If someone doesn't like to send flowers, it must be ugly to look at the flowers.

    Bringing you food, I think he's doing it too much.

    Hitting ** is harassment.

    If it's ugly, it's sexual harassment.

    Hate is hate.

    If you don't like it, you don't like it

    It is useless to do anything.

    If you like someone, you feel that he has ulterior motives when you send a card.

    A small flower came on the road, and they all thought he was romantic.

    In fact, everything is done the same, but what is different is the state of mind of the pursued.

    If it's an inconsequential person who pursues himself, it's okay, if he likes it, he will face each other with all kinds of cold noodles, and he will dare to say all kinds of serious words.

    It's embarrassing that a friend next to you suddenly says that he likes you and pursues you, and then you don't like him, just as a good friend or an ordinary friend.

    At this time, the feeling is that it is embarrassing to capitalize.

    At this time, refuse, and must be tactful.

    Don't refuse, it's against your will.

    I'm afraid, this friend still can't understand your euphemism, thinking that it is a chance.

    This is even more embarrassing, plus he may ask friends around him to help him pursue you, as if you are a crime not to be with him.

    To borrow an advertising slogan for pharyngitis,I can't cough it out and I can't swallow it

    Then you refuse and tell him that you really don't have feelings for him, then you will most likely lose a friend and have to put up with the comments of other friends for a while.

    So, if you're going to pursue someone, chase that one who likes you even the slightest.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I guess he looks at your beauty and thinks it's incredible that you have no one to chase you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Dirty man, don't have the same knowledge as him, go your own way, so that others have no way out, it is estimated that you have no one to chase, he wants to chase you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    He's obviously interested in you, and he thinks you're good-looking.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Your image is so good, he feels that there should be a lot of people chasing him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Different people have different opinions, I will talk about most of them, some people want to fall in love, sometimes they are very lacking in love, they will be very envious when they see other people or couples around them, and they will think day and night that they are not in love and no one loves, and life will be more boring; Some people are busy and don't have time to fall in love, but they want to fall in love but are afraid of falling in love, a complex emotion; Some people are not busy and don't want to fall in love, because they think that they are enough, and it is boring to fall in love or something; Some people are very busy and don't want to be in love, their work comes first, and love is not very important.

    My own words,No object.,I've never been chased.,Sometimes I yearn for love occasionally.,But it's very realistic that I don't believe in love.,I still prefer to make a light bulb occasionally.。 Satisfied.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It should be a feeling of happiness.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you don't like him either, it should be a nasty feeling. If you don't say it explicitly, it means that you still enjoy him chasing you.

    Feel. If you don't like him and find him annoying, here's some advice for you:

    1. Tell him bluntly, so as not to fall deeper and deeper. When you encounter something like this, don't tell the other party tactfully that you don't like him anymore, you should say it directly. If he's stubbornly trying to chase you, that's his problem.

    2. Let him find out that you are not what he likes. When a boy you don't like keeps pursuing you, you must let him know, don't judge her as the girl you like just because you know about girls, when he finds out that you are really good, but you are not the kind he wants, he will give up himself.

    3. Tell the other party that you have your own sweetheart. The sentence that can hurt others the most is that I have a sweetheart, you think, you have a heart, who wants to find a person whose heart is not in their body? Therefore, tell the other party that you have a sweetheart, even if it is to lie to him, you have to make him believe that you have a sweetheart, so that he will not pester you anymore.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    How would you feel if someone you didn't like chasing?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's going to be annoying.,Rejected the other party but the other party still posted it, which makes me feel very disliked.。

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Nothing was felt. Being chased by someone I don't like, I feel like he's wasting his time, and if he refuses to make it clear that he's still chasing, I'll find him annoying.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I would find this kind of behavior annoying and would disturb my life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    will wonder what he has done to make him blind and like himself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think it's nice to be replaced by people, but it's very annoying and uncomfortable to be chased by people you don't like.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It will be very uncomfortable because I don't like him, so everything he does is wrong, and even think he is disgusting.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Being chased by someone you don't like, this feeling is actually very complicated. You can't simply say happy or unhappy, like or dislike. Be specific and listen to me tell you in detail:

    In fact, someone likes you and chases you, from a certain point of view, it means that your personal charm is recognized. It is inevitable to be a little happy to be appreciated, and if this person you don't like chases you, it is to pursue you on the premise of considering your feelings and not violating your life. You will feel respected and even a little complacent, but if you look at it for a long time, you will still be distressed.

    I feel sorry and I can't respond to the other person's liking.

    There is also a kind of pursuit that is stalked by people who don't like it, and the other party has a kind of pursuit that does not stop until the goal is reached. That is, it will bother more, and this kind of person is terrible. They are already immersed in their emotions and do not know it.

    Not realizing that love is mutual, not taking into account each other's feelings.

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