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No, I'm optimistic, and I have a certain determination in the face of things. First of all, the matter is not subdued. But for the complex psychological feelings of feelings, when I first came into contact, I was somewhat confused.
I don't know how to properly express my love to a person, and I don't know how to balance love and life. often brings a variety of feelings in life into love, and also brings the joys, sorrows and sorrows of love into life. Confusion is not there, but confusion is there.
As for bowing to reality, everyone has experienced this kind of thing, okay? Because reality is a complex system, it is an objective and subjective world composed of multiple things. What we do requires a compromise with reality, not a single person's decision.
Even if it's just for a delicious meal, you need to check to see if the ingredients for your favorite dish are sold at home or at the market, and whether your own cooking skills are good at making your favorite flavors. It's like you want to eat sea bream, but the best raw material is not in China, you need to go abroad to collect it, and if you don't have enough money, you can only eat it in your dreams. So there are some realistic things, if you want to achieve it, it's really difficult and you need to pay a great price.
We bow to reality all the time, but there are some things that you care about and some things that you can easily compromise. Whether it's in love or money, you need to bow to the threshold of reality. Maybe it's more modest to keep your head down.
While maintaining one's original intention, it is also a good thing to be able to compromise with reality and achieve a kind of unity. After all, no one can resist reality. The so-called go with the flow and act when the opportunity arises.
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Yes, all normal people do, and it's a process. <>First of all, being confused by love, this love can be between boyfriend and girlfriend, between husband and wife, between children and parents, or between friends. Some people go to live in a strange city for their other half, helpless and confused, but the future seems to be in the person they love.
Some people give up their dreams in order to stay with their parents, and they don't know what the future will hold and they are confused. But when you see your parents happy, you are happy. So I found a stable job and lived an ordinary life.
Then we will begin to step into the road of marriage, the person that some people like is not qualified in the eyes of the family, the family is afraid that you will suffer with him, forcing you to give up, you have struggled, you have resisted, but in the end, you are still with the person who has a good family and a good job in the eyes of your parents. We ......Yielded by matter.
You live with that person without being salty, you have your own children, and one day you see a group of channel singers, watching them pursue their dreams, you seem to be back to twenty years old in an instant, and suddenly want to rush. So you go home and tell your family. They all say how can someone as old as you still act like a child?
Do things without thinking about the consequences? But you don't care what they say, you resolutely embark on the journey of chasing your dreams, and you find that everything is different, the world has changed, and people have changed. The things that people look at are money, interests, relationships.
It didn't take long for you to get tired and come home with the ash on the south wall on your head. Your family is helpless with you, and your neighbors are always watching you and whispering that you don't have a job. You start to become suspicious and suspicious of your lover's loyalty.
Ha! It's ridiculous, there is no love, and you still want to be loyal. In the end, life is a mess and you can only bow to reality.
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