How should we deal with conflicts between kindergarten rules and house rules?

We often say that there are no rules, so there will be house rules in a family, and there will be garden rules in kindergarten. Different families have different rules, which may conflict with the rules in the kindergarten, which will make the baby very confused. Babies don't know whether to follow the rules in kindergarten or at home, and they don't know what to choose.

At this time, parents need to come forward, and parents can tell their children the correct way to deal with it. So what should parents do? How should my baby cope?

At this time, parents must be careful and patient, tell the baby that the rules in the kindergarten and the rules in the family do not conflict, the baby can abide by the rules in the kindergarten in the kindergarten, and abide by the rules in the family. After all, there are many children in the kindergarten, and the kindergarten needs to formulate some rules, otherwise so many children will be chaotic, and the teacher will not be able to control it. Therefore, in kindergarten, the baby should abide by the rules of the kindergarten with other children, such as listening to the teacher, keeping quiet during class, and not moving.

In the family, you must listen to your parents, if you don't let your baby do something, your baby will not be able to do it.

If parents find that the rules in the kindergarten are completely different from the family rules, the conflict between the two sides is very large, at this time parents can contact the kindergarten and negotiate with the kindergarten to solve it. But parents can not force the kindergarten to change the rules, after all, there are many children in the kindergarten, their rules are very suitable for managing children, if you change at will, then the children will lose the motivation to abide by the rules, everything will be messed up. In general, parents must be calm and have a good amount of communication, so that they can solve the problem.

It should be dealt with scientifically, and the core concept of education should also be clarified. The distinction between schooling and homeschooling should also be clarified, and attention should also be paid to the arrangement of the curriculum. Attention should also be paid to the direction and goals of education.

When we are in school, we should follow the rules of kindergarten, and at home, we should follow the rules of the family, but we also need to figure out which rules are correct. You can analyze it well and face this problem with the right attitude.

At this time, it is necessary to seek common ground while reserving differences, find a balance, or find the most reasonable way to comply.

To respond rationally, according to the specific situation of the specific analysis, timely adjustment of rules and regulations, parents must do a good job of coordination, to actively cooperate with the teacher's work.

When there is a conflict, you need to set a standard, you should analyze the pros and cons, and choose the most favorable rule for the child.

6 years old is the school age for Chinese children, many children will go to the first grade when they are 6 years old, and children can go to kindergarten before the age of 6. Children are more ignorant before the age of 6, they are full of curiosity about the world, at this time parents and kindergarten teachers should cultivate some good habits in children. However, some parents find that there is a conflict between the rules of the kindergarten and the family rules, how should they deal with it at this time?

If there is a conflict between the rules of the kindergarten and the family rules, parents can not one-sidedly think that the rules of the kindergarten must be under the rules of the family, which is an incorrect approach. Therefore, if parents find that there is a conflict between the rules of the kindergarten and the house rules, they can understand the whole rules from the kindergarten teachers and their children, and then deal with them. For example, if the kindergarten teacher says that you can't talk when eating, but you can have a short conversation when you eat in the house rules, then parents can tell the baby to abide by the rules of the kindergarten in the kindergarten, and to follow the rules of the noisy and sullen home at home.

We want to tell the baby that kindergarten and family are two different places, it is completely normal for the rules of these two places to differ, the baby can abide by the rules of the kindergarten in the kindergarten, and at home you can not abide by the rules of the kindergarten and abide by the house rules. Therefore, parents should let the baby understand the difference between kindergarten and family, and let him understand that there are two rules that need to be followed in the two places of upgrading. As long as the baby understands these two rules, then he will not feel lost in later life and can follow different rules in different places.

Parents must be a reasonable person, can not blindly blame the child, because the child's three views are not completely established, he will listen to the parents and teachers, parents must explain the truth to the baby clearly and clearly.

Children should be given the right education, and they should also establish a correct view of the three rolls. Children should learn to understand the rules of young children correctly. Big Orange Lu should also interact with the teacher. Conduct ideological education on a regular basis.

If there is a conflict, I can take a look at what the problem is, you can abide by the rules of the kindergarten in the kindergarten, and abide by the rules of the family after returning home.

At this time, you should find a balance, listen to the house rules when you are at home, and follow the rules of the kindergarten when you are in kindergarten.

First of all, we need to take a closer look at the whole story, see whose fault it is, educate the child according to not taking different measures, if it is someone else's fault, educate the child, and deal with it when other children are hurt! For example, find a teacher to solve the problem, avoid the ambush and avoid head-on conflict. As a parent, don't see an adult child fighting.

There's more of a game element between them, just a game. During the game, the children gradually learn how to get along with the children around them. For them, there is no concept of loss, and there is no concept of loss.

When a child has a conflict with his peers in kindergarten, parents should first understand the causes and consequences of the conflict between their children, and then look at the problem and solve the problem from the child's point of view, so as to benefit the child's future growth. It is the nature of children to be disobedient and disobedient, which has brought a lot of problems to many parents, however, in the face of children's lack of bridges to make evil and evil, teachers and parents should be limited and <>

I know I'm not going to go to the kindergarten teacher's school, wait! It seems that the profession of teacher is really sad and not easy. Children who play in kindergarten will only find it interesting or express their preferred ways.

If we find that our children are behaving too much, we should give them a slap and tell them what they can and can't do.

There is no restriction on innocuous fights, and timely measures are taken to combat quality, this kind of education is very conducive to the growth of children, "fighting" has a certain limit, if children hit others, we must pay attention. It is also normal for children to fight. When adults recognize frustration, it is helpful to increase the experience through frustration for a child's development.

It is normal for kindergarten to have many children and many conflicts. As long as we treat such issues with a normal attitude, fighting and fighting are not the same! Fighting is an aggressive, subjective act.

There's definitely a reason for that. It doesn't matter who moves his hand first! Hitting someone must be wrong!

Whether it is someone else's child or our own child, we must take them to faith and correct their deviant behavior in a timely manner.

First of all, we should let the child gradually adapt to the rules of the kindergarten, and secondly, tell the child the difference between the two, and then give the child a certain sense of security and boundaries after the beam is broken, so that it can be solved.

In fact, both of these are for the sake of the child's collapse to consider, so the two can be combined, in the kindergarten can be done according to the standards of the kindergarten, and when you get home, you should complete the various group loss tasks in accordance with the family rules.

I think that in such a situation, we should communicate with the school in a timely manner, and then summarize a better way to educate the child perfectly.

I should communicate with the school and then summarize what is best for the child, and then start to implement the corresponding policy.

You can adjust some house rules, so that children may not be so entangled and know the right and wrong of some things.

The development and progress of society can only be said to be the soundness of the law, the progress of society, and the civilization of mankind, so that judicial evaluation and notarization, the desire of the people, the single-minded economic construction, without a complete legal system, and the harmonious development of social theory, everything that does not work, can only be exhausted and aging, the country is not peaceful, and the people are not able to make a living. The law does not melt into feelings, and reason is born from feelings. The law acts according to the rules, acts according to the provisions, and exercises power within the rules.

Reason should be based on consensus, people's hearts should be handled, and it should be dealt with within the scope of feelings. If the law is greater than reason, it will be arbitrary, and the opportunity to improve and fill the gaps will be lost. If the law is biased towards reason, it will indulge people's hearts, lose their restraint on human nature, and eliminate the shackles of sin.

It depends! The law is dead, the reason is alive, the law violates the law, it is not called the law, the reason violates the law, from the perspective of public order and good customs, it should be dealt with according to reason, crooked reason is against the law and against reason, if it is crooked, it should be dealt with in accordance with the law, just a personal opinion, don't spray if you don't like it! Thank you!

Sometimes there is a conflict between law and reason, as it was said in the past, "righteousness destroys relatives and eliminates harm for the people," which is generally supported by reason and morality, but reason cannot be greater than the law, and their illegal acts must also be punished by law. In this case, the general harm to society is less serious, and the impact on society is smaller.

In such cases, a good judge will be flexible in enforcing the judgment. That is, it will be measured by the law, and it will also take into account the influence of reason on its own matter. In order to minimize the adverse reaction of the matter itself to society.

It would also reduce the risk of the parties being subject to the law that is no longer sufficiently appropriate. When there is a conflict between reason and law, reason is the talent, and the law is the soldier. Xiucai meets Bing, what can you do?

I can't beat it, I can't run it, I can't run it, I can only be a hero who doesn't suffer the loss in front of him.

The principle is the law, the reason is the reason, and the law is greater than the reason. However, the law is inseparable from reason, and there are two provisions in the Civil Code, one is that the law must respect "public order and good customs". The second is that all cases that have been handled by public order and good customs will not be supported in the litigation.

This brings us to the issue of law and reason.

It is still necessary to focus on the rules of the kindergarten, because most of the children's growth environment is in the kindergarten, so the children should be allowed to develop such good habits.

There should be some fusion, taking out the strengths of these two rules, offsetting the shortcomings, and then making a new house rule, so that this conflict can be resolved.

I think the rules of the kindergarten should prevail, and parents should cooperate with the kindergarten to establish rules for their children. Cooperate with the school to educate the child, and have your own house rules to implement at home.

You can follow the rules of the kindergarten to make a rectification. If there is a conflict between the two rules, it will hinder the baby's ability to accept. So to choose a compromise, you can keep up with the pace of his kindergarten. This improves your baby's receptivity.

Parents should communicate with the principal, if you feel that the concept of kindergarten and parents are not convinced, you must change the child's first spine to a kindergarten, you can change a family education concept with the same family, so that Zhiqinna will better educate the child, parents will not be embarrassed, the kindergarten will not be embarrassed, so that the child can grow up excellently.

We should promptly inform the baby that the rules of the kindergarten and the family rules are not in conflict, the baby in the kindergarten can be hidden to abide by the rules in the kindergarten, in the family should also be done to abide by the family rules, to let the child recognize two different rules.

The family rules should be changed, and the combination of kindergarten rules and family rules should be paid attention to, and the children should be trained in the right way to understand the knowledge of this cracking, and the head of the family should understand the situation with the kindergarten teacher.

Why do children follow the rules in kindergarten and school, and act unscrupulously at home? How do you make rules?

If parents find that their child has this situation, they should communicate with their child's teacher to see if the child's teacher has a solution. Parents should communicate with their children's teachers to understand their children's phenomena at school, and help their children solve problems if they encounter difficulties at school. When looking at children's education, parents do not need to be cautious, but it will make parents more and more timid, and they do not know how to educate their children.

Parents should never spoil their children too much, a kind mother usually makes many mistakes in her children. When a child makes a mistake, parents should stop the child from making mistakes in time, and do not need to be too pampered with the child. Some children can only cry and make trouble at home, and when they go to school, they will listen carefully to the lectures, and parents must recognize whether there is a problem with their own teaching methods, and whether this kind of education method is suitable for children.

If a parent doesn't know how to teach their child, they need to say no to their child.

If parents want their children to have well-behaved personal behavior, they should take their children out for fitness and exercise, so that children can know how to get along with others. Parents should cultivate their children's concept of obedience when they interact with their children, and do not let children be self-centered. Children are very obedient at school because they like to communicate with their friends and listen to other people's opinions.

Parents should know how to apply their children's strengths, so that their children will get a better development trend. If a child has a conflict with a friend, parents must immediately apply appropriate instruction to the child.

When formulating rules, I want children to work together in them, especially after children enter kindergarten, they have a certain grasp of the formulation of rules, such as standard requirements, foul punishments, etc. Some studies have found that getting children to participate in the rules can be very helpful when children are disciplined. When the standard is set, it is changed from a standard set by the parents to a standard that is beneficial to her, and the parents make the rules together.