What do you think of the Chinese turning around and talking ?

This is the influence of some political ideas in ancient China, just like the negotiation between the two countries in ancient China, they will not say what conditions they say, that is, they will express their opinions to the other party through some suggestive actions, or he will express his requirements, and then the other party will respond to him in this way, which has given rise to the code words of negotiation in the shopping mall or communication between people, so foreigners will feel that Chinese is particularly roundabout in speaking.

I think this is an art of language, when others have something to ask for and they are embarrassed to refuse, they can only use some clichés to express their refusal, and it will be more cruel to refuse directly, and it is easier to accept the other party if they say it euphemistically.

This is a polite Chinese, many times the effect of euphemistic expression is better than directly piercing the window paper, and everyone will not be in an embarrassing situation.

I think this is a historical characteristic of the Chinese. Chinese since ancient times are more subtle, restrained, pay attention to a golden mean, speak to know is recommended by the Chinese tradition to this day, if it is too ugly, not good, in China will affect a lot of things are not good to do safely, but I myself like to have something to say, of course, I don't like to say too much, this is the advantage and disadvantage of the Chinese.

I think this is a habit that has been passed down from the past, because the previous teaching idea was to be humble and tactful, so we don't directly say a person's problem, too straightforward will seem a little abrupt, and we are used to "talking around the corner".

The biggest difference between Chinese and Westerners in the way they speak is that Chinese like to talk around the corner, while foreigners prefer to go straight, I feel that I still like the straightforward speaking style of foreigners, and putting more of my mind into action will make life happier and more fulfilling.

Although most Chinese have no religious beliefs, but in the process of growing up, the influence of the way of Confucius and Mengmeng is the greatest, and the way of Confucius and Mengmeng believes in Taoism, and Taoism pays the most attention to the golden mean, so in the inheritance from generation to generation, the Chinese will leave this idea, do things and speak will not be too direct, will take a tactful way to let both sides leave face, if there is something in the future, it is easy to speak.