How can I persevere? I feel so uncomfortable, I really live like a year

I took the college entrance examination as a repeater this year. Last year, like you, I was forced to stay and repeat because of volunteering. Said to be forced, it can't be counted, because I didn't do very well in the exam last year, only a few points higher than the first line, teachers and parents suggested that I repeat, I also felt that I was very unwilling to go to an ordinary school like this, so I filled in all the good schools, and the results can be imagined.

Isn't it just 10 months to start being full of confidence, and it's over after a while. But when I saw my classmates happily holding the notice while I was gnawing on my high school textbook, I felt very uncomfortable at that moment. I also used to go home and make trouble, and I didn't go to self-study or class.

My mom said, "It's your own choice, you made it when you filled out the application, and since you repeated, don't regret it!" "My former friends also advised me not to go home and not study. It's right for me to think about it myself, I can't blame others, since I chose to stay, I can't regret it!

In our area, there is widespread discrimination against repeaters, and I am a girl studying science, so there is a lot of pressure. But I gradually adjusted, and gradually entered the state of learning. Then I found that rereading was not as terrible as I imagined, and there were bitter and sweet.

There are new friends, new collectives. One more feeling, one more harvest. But there are also bad things about the repetition process, especially with each exam.

When I didn't repeat, I liked the exam very much, because the exam meant a holiday, but after repeating, I was most afraid of the exam, even if it was a small exam, I was very worried. The pressure of the senior year of high school is very high, and the teacher also talks to me for a long time, especially before the college entrance examination, I am very nervous, what if I don't do well in the exam this year? Isn't my year's hard work in vain?

My classmates in cram school all said, your grades are so good, what are you worried about? Say so, but how is it possible not to be nervous? I did well in the college entrance examination this year, and I was admitted to an ideal university.

But I'm a strong person, even if I do well in the exam this year, I always have a pimple in my heart, after all, I am a repeat student, it took me one more year than others, and I have never been able to pass this hurdle psychologically. But I'm glad I stayed. It was this year's hard work that allowed me to get to the university of my dreams.

I don't regret my choice. So, I hope you don't regret it, no matter how hard and tired it is, it will be 10 months. I think it's hard at first, but after getting used to it, you will find that time flies quickly, and in the blink of an eye, you will take next year's college entrance examination!!

Keep working hard, with your family and friends supporting you, what are you afraid of? Adjust your mindset and hope you can achieve good results next year.

You should learn to combine work and rest, and you should also know how to relieve stress behind the intense study, listen to your favorite ** when your mind is confused, or read some extracurricular books (I recommend a few to you: readers, aphorisms, Yilin. Maybe after this, your mind will slowly shift to studying, come on, I believe you will be able to pass it smoothly!

Repeating is really painful and stressful.

Repetition is called tutoring. Because of disqualification or dissatisfaction, it is necessary to re-learn the knowledge that has been learned, so as to reach a certain state.

The proportion of repeaters in junior high school and senior high school is high. Among them, the repetition of the college entrance examination has a particularly great impact on life. It is another summary of 12 years of student career.

The same high complex two results

Although so many students pinned their hopes on repeating, the results were not satisfactory for everyone, and they also repeated the study for a year. One of the students in the college entrance examination increased by more than 70 points to 480 points, and successfully entered the second line.

The relevant person in charge of the autonomous region's recruitment office pointed out that every year after the college entrance examination, some students choose to repeat their studies, and there are many candidates who have succeeded in the college entrance examination after a year, but there are also many people who still fail after repeating their studies. The main reason for the loss is that the original foundation is too poor or the psychological pressure is too great.

Repetition is not as painful as imagined, as long as there is the motivation to learn, there is a desire to move upward, then repetition is like repeating a happy thing, the key is to control your mentality, so that you can repeat well.

It's a very painful thing to face the gap between yourself and your former classmates, who have gone on to university and started a new life, and you are still stuck on a very difficult path, but if you get through this stage of pain, I believe you will succeed.

You have to be mentally prepared to repeat it, and have the perseverance and determination to devote yourself, so that there will be no time to suffer.

Summary. Hello, dear, there are three ways to regret repeating your studies: one is to get your graduation certificate, find a relevant vocational college or university admission certificate, and report it, it is best to report within a month or regret it within a month, and it will be too late to regret it after a long time.

Second, if you regret it, then give up, find a class, and learn a craft; The third is to communicate with parents and class teachers in time, say your thoughts on the content, see if there are any measures to save it, continue to study, and strive to get into a good university. Choose your own life, parents just suggest, you can't force you anything.

I regret repeating it, I'm tired, and I don't want to stick to it.

Hello, dear, there are three ways to regret repeating your studies: one is to get your graduation certificate, find a relevant vocational college or university admission certificate, and report it, it is best to report within a month or regret it within a month, and it will be too late to regret it after a long time. Second, if you regret it, then give up, find a class, and learn a craft; The third is to communicate with parents and class teachers in time, say your thoughts on the content, see if there are any measures to save it, continue to study, and strive to get into a good university.

Choose your own life, parents just suggest, you can't force you anything.

But I'm having a hard time, I'm under a lot of pressure right now.

Dear, I understand the pressure of repeating. But since you have chosen, you have to move forward as always.

You have to understand that there are only a few months left, hold on.

I have a hard time every day, the environment, the crowd puts a lot of pressure on me.

I can't take it anymore.

It's really uncomfortable to die.

Then do you want to go home and review, and take the college entrance examination as a social candidate next year.

But when I go home, there is a gap in learning.

So, I still need to talk to the teacher more at school.

There is definitely this pressure, and I can relate to the pressure of repeating high school. Stress needs to be overcome by yourself, you still want to get into a good university, and you still want to be stress-free, that's not possible.

If you are stressed, you can talk to the teachers at school. With the company's company and encouragement, there will be no such pressure.

And the pressure is the same for every student council, and they are in the same situation as you.

But I just had a lot of pressure.

Your stress is nothing more than academic performance. If the exam is not ideal, then study hard, and you can only study hard.

Nothing, don't put too much pressure on yourself, learn to release pressure, the worst is to go to a university that is not very good, your performance in the university will also affect your future employment, there are many opportunities in life (a choice, meet nobles), not only one way (good schools also have bad students).

Re-reading is a difficult process, and re-reading is not only the accumulation of knowledge, but also the improvement of the mind. In the last 200 days, you take the daily study as a small goal, do not look at your own scores, but see the problems you study, master the knowledge every day, and improve the ability to do problems, the knowledge of high school is originally a process of accumulation. It is impossible to be so obvious to be able to see the improvement of your grades, as long as you work hard and persist in this year, when you have a clear conscience, what are your grades, you will be satisfied, repeating this year can help you a lot, and it will be of great help to you in the future.

<><Looking back on the year of repeating, I spent it like this:

First of all, make clear whether you are suitable for repeaters: you didn't study hard in the third year of high school, or you feel that you haven't put in 100% effort, you are unwilling to be in your third year of high school, and you regret it, and you feel that if you work hard for a year, you will make up for a lot of loopholes. The most important thing is that you are ready to "listen to what is going on outside the window with both ears and concentrate on reading only the books of the sages".

Your obsession can beat all the difficulties of the year.

1.Dogskin plaster learning

Like many of my classmates, I was eager to go to a new environment, but I didn't adapt to the new teacher's teaching style. When it was difficult to see progress under various high-intensity trainings, I became overstressed and had self-doubts about some subjects, and I felt that the teacher didn't seem to care about me that much. The more you don't understand and the more you reject yourself, the more you have to learn to understand.

2.Minimize repetition socialization as much as possible

Don't believe too much in the saying that human beings are social relationships, quality solitude is far better than tedious and laborious social interactions. What's more, for repeating, it's good to maintain an ordinary relationship with classmates. In the liberal arts class, I have always been worried about my image in the minds of others, but in fact, no one cares, people will not remember what kind of person you are, whether you are cheerful and lively, which friends you have, whether you will handle interpersonal relationships, everyone will only care about which university you go to in the end.

3.Don't believe too much in the existing achievements, there are people outside of people

Sometimes I'm complacent about what I've accomplished, but remember not to stop until the college entrance exam is over. Many students have maintained a score of about 115 in mathematics for a long time before the college entrance examination. I thought it was enough, so I stopped studying other question types, such as thinking about choosing questions and doing what I would do, but in the end, mathematics did not maintain the original level in the college entrance examination.

We can set a basic score maintenance line for ourselves, but don't limit ourselves to that score once we reach it.

4.Really find your own way to learn

It's a hard process. We can often see all kinds of learning methods on the Internet, but the more many methods, the more we must have the ability to sift through the mess of information. When we learn to use various methods, we must stop losses in time after using them seriously for a period of time and finding that they are ineffective.

I remember that when I was re-studying, I was obsessed with Zhihu, and insisted on working hard with the very popular mathematics teaching assistants, and even before the college entrance examination, I was blindly following the teaching assistants, but I didn't really keep up with the teacher's teaching, so my mathematics was not improved in essence. I use the lesson of blood to exhort everyone to be mainly taught by the teacher, supplemented by their own learning methods and teaching aids!