What is the reason for a poor son and a rich daughter?

Raising a son in poverty is to train his son, after all, a man in this society still has to be able to endure hardships, and raising his daughter richly is to prevent his daughter from losing herself because of a little profit.

Raising a poor son is about investing in a boy's life. Raising a daughter is an investment in cultural literacy, and the coexistence between the two lies in nurturing the child to be self-reliant, confident and intelligent.

The purpose of raising a son in poverty is to let the boy learn to take responsibility at a very young age, and he cannot get used to the boy, otherwise the boy will be easily overwhelmed. The purpose of raising a rich daughter is to make the girl rational and happy, so that she will not be deceived by a little bit of goodness from others when she grows up.

Because everyone believes that sons should be self-reliant and self-reliant, and should not be corrupted by extravagant life, and daughters should see more of the world, so that they will not be dazzled in the future.

It is to cultivate the ability of the son and exercise the knowledge of the daughter, but I think the child should be educated well, and blindly raising the poor and the rich will only make the child bear the psychological pressure that he should not have.

I think this can let my son know how to struggle, and also prevent my daughter from being deceived in the future.

This kind of folk custom is coarse and coarse, and it is all specious!

Whatever you say, it makes sense. Rock Raid.

But the specifics are to look at the actual situation and analyze it specifically.

You can't just think that your son should be poor; The key is to give children a correct outlook on life and the world!

Children born with a golden key in their mouths seem to be able to succeed in life without much effort, because their grandparents or parents have helped them accumulate funds or connections, they have the capital of continuous trial and error, grow up in the attempt, and finally win!

And the children of middle-class families also have the cost of trial and error, and if they fail once or twice, the whole family works hard together, accumulates capital, and can start again in a few years.

Only as children of poor families, they have no capital for trial and error, and they do not have the courage to try and make mistakes, because they know that once they fail, it is impossible to turn over again in this life, and it is the whole family that drags them down, and it is the hard work of their generations!

The words that children from poor families heard the most when they were young were: you have to be sensible, your family is poor, don't spend money outside, our family is not as good as others.

On the one hand, let you take care of your body, eat and drink well, pay attention to nutrition, and tell you not to spend money lavishly, poor parents at home are also a kind of contradictory mentality, they love their children, for fear that their children will be wronged outside, hungry to their own cold, but on the other hand, they feel that they are not able to provide a better life for their children, and they are also afraid that their children will be contaminated with a bad social atmosphere outside, forming a psychology of admiration for vanity and comparison, so we must always remind you that the family is poor, and we are no better than other families. You have to be self-aware!

Don't compare ourselves to others, our family is poor! Children who have grown up under the influence of these words for more than ten years are inferior and fragile in their hearts, even if they make money later, they are high-spirited on the surface, but in fact they are submissive in their hearts, and they do not have the free and open-minded nature of children who grow up in rich families.

The deep-rooted idea of poverty also makes them not hesitate to spend a lot of money, but they are careful about spending a small amount of money!

The most powerless thing for children from poor families is to understand their parents in turn, and even to forgive them, at any age, because you know that they have given you the best of their best!

I've read such a sentence before, if you don't work hard now, your parents and your children will have to work hard for you in the future, so since we don't have the cost of trial and error, then we don't try and make mistakes, live in the moment with our feet down-to-earth, step by step, as long as we are willing to work hard and struggle, we must always believe that the days will definitely get better and better!

Boys are poor, girls are rich is a familiar saying, many parents take it for granted, and always follow it in the process of parenting. My friend Chu Hong is such a mother, she really doesn't treat her daughter too well, and she tries her best to meet her daughter's requirements. The people around her persuaded her not to spoil her children too much, but she said, "What if you don't give my daughter good conditions, what if you are deceived by a scumbag in the future?"

I don't agree with Chu Hong's statement, it's right to raise a rich daughter, but at the same time of being rich, if you don't understand what the purpose of richness is, it will be easy to treat richness as doting. Girls who grow up in an environment like Jisen will indeed not be deceived by scumbags, but ask yourself, will their marriage really be happy? Therefore, in the enrichment of their daughters, parents should first understand what is the purpose?

1. Cultivate your daughter's self-confidence. As the saying goes, money is heroic courage, although this saying is extreme and helpless, but it does make sense.

I used to know a girl, although the conditions were very good in all aspects, but I just lacked self-confidence, and I didn't dare to pursue many things, and I missed a lot of opportunities in vain. When I asked, I found out that although her family conditions were very good, her parents favored her younger brother, so she hadn't eaten or worn many good things since she was a child. When I grow up, although I can make my own money, the "hamster" character I have developed since childhood can no longer be changed.

Therefore, it is not wrong to have a rich daughter, parents should always buy their daughters some beautiful clothes, increase their self-confidence, and encourage them to have the courage to pursue beauty. ）

2. Enhance your daughter's knowledge. What is insight? Insight is pattern.

At a time when you are paying more and more attention to the pattern, if your daughter has a broad career, it will definitely help her career a lot. Therefore, raising a rich daughter is not only to give her a good living environment, but also to increase her knowledge. Parents can often take their daughters out for travel and outdoor activities, which is very helpful for them to improve their knowledge.

3. Enhance the knowledge of the daughter of the chain.

Raising a daughter is not only materially rich, but also spiritual. And if you want your daughter to be spiritually rich, how can you have less books. Some people say that buying books is the most cost-effective business in the world, and you can buy someone else's lifetime accumulation just a few dozen dollars ago.

Since there is such a good posture, parents don't hurry up.

Some people think that they want to raise their daughters and sons poorly, but in fact, this approach will have great drawbacks. For sons and daughters, the palms and backs of their hands are meat, so when raising children, we must be fair and just, so that children can realize that their parents are fair. Whether it is a son or a daughter, the poverty and wealth between each other cannot be measured by money, most of them are because there will be a big gap in material satisfaction.

As a result, the son thinks in his heart that both parents are partial. <>

Due to the fact that there are fewer women in the life of rich daughters, the status of women has now surpassed that of men. In family life, as long as you see a daughter born in the family, you will feel very arrogant, most of them consider that their daughters need to be rich. And this kind of enrichment is the spiritual enrichment, not the economic enrichment.

Most people regard their daughters as being financially rich, so much so that when it comes to raising daughters, they will pamper girls to do whatever they want. <>

Even if a poor son has a son and a daughter in his family life, most people will have partiality in the treatment of two children. Especially for the father in the family, he will be particularly partial to his daughter, mostly because the daughter is a little padded jacket for his parents, and the son is a leather jacket. Because of such differential treatment, the son will also feel very angry in his heart.

Even if it's a boy, he shouldn't be treated differently by his parents, and he always treats two children differently, and he will complain about his son in his heart. <>

The palms of the hands and the backs of the hands are full of meat, and at any time there are two children in the family, you will find that it is difficult to level a bowl of water. Even if parents say that they will not be partial to both children, but in fact it is difficult to achieve the satisfaction of both children, and children should be considerate of their parents. It's not that parents are unwilling to give more for their children, it's because they consider that it will be difficult for two children to achieve the satisfaction of the other one.

Whether it is a rich daughter or a poor son, the most important thing is to achieve the spiritual prosperity of the child.

First, it will make girls develop the habit of being extravagant, and it will also make boys feel that they are not valued, resulting in inferiority complex; Second, it will make girls only enjoy life from an early age and lack the habit of struggle.