What should I do if my child can t handle the relationship with his classmates?

This is that the child's emotional intelligence is not high enough!

The best thing to do is to do it for two things:

The first is to let them learn more about how to get along with others.

The second is to take him to communicate with others more and experience the way to get along!

Some children have a strong personality and are not easy to get along with in the process of interacting with others, as parents, they should try to teach by example, tell children to learn to share with others, and at the same time let children know the happiness that sharing brings.

Encourage children to care about and help others, let children experience the joy of helping others and caring for others, and let them understand that as long as they take the initiative to think about others and help others in life, then others will respect themselves and be willing to make friends with them. Children often care about others, and naturally when they encounter difficulties, they are also easy to get the attention of others, and once classmates care for each other, the relationship will become closer.

Parents can teach their children to take the initiative to communicate with their classmates around them, and help them more in their study and life. Tell your child to be polite when getting along with classmates, share happy things with classmates, encourage your child more, and increase your child's self-confidence.

First of all, parents should know the reasons why their children do not handle the relationship well, and secondly, they can solve the problem in a targeted manner.

Find an opportunity to talk to your child, believing that communication is also one of the best ways to solve problems.

1. Teach children to analyze the root cause of the problem. When there is a conflict between children, they all think that they are very reasonable, and when they are deadlocked, they most hope to get help from their parents. At this time, parents must carefully understand the reasons for the conflict between their children, help them realize where the problem is, and then let the child find a way to solve it by himself.

2. Inspire children to find a way to solve it. If, after finding out the cause, the child is still confused about how to deal with and solve this contradiction, or has come up with some wrong solutions, parents should guide the child to deal with it correctly in time. Only by guiding children from a fair and responsible position can we help children develop the ability to deal with problems correctly.

3. Tell the children that when conflicts occur, they should take it step by step, consider the problem from the standpoint of their classmates, and pay more attention to the advantages and strengths of their classmates. Parents should also actively contact the parents of their classmates to guide and cooperate with their children to resolve conflicts in a timely manner.

4. Let the children face the contradictions of dismantling and arguing by themselves. When there is a conflict between classmates, most children are reluctant to face and solve this conflict, some children hope that adults and teachers will help solve it, and some children choose to escape. At this time, parents should encourage their children to face it bravely, let them know that they have the right and responsibility to think about how to solve their own problems, and by solving conflicts with classmates, they will make their children more confident.

Teaching children to correctly handle conflicts with classmates and friends is essential for children's growth, exercise and improve children's ability to deal with interpersonal relationships. In the process of dealing with conflicts, parents are both teachers and role models.

There is an ancient Chinese saying: harmony increases wealth, harmony is precious, gentlemen are harmonious but different, villains are the same but not harmonious.

Meaning: Ask others to be the same as you, you will be very painful, respect, understand that others are different from you, and tolerate all this, your relationship will be very harmonious, and all the pain in interpersonal relationships is to ask others to be the same as us.

Treat Yi Ci: If you are a class leader in the class, you are the class leader or a member of the study committee or something, you must first stand in the teacher's dimension to help your classmates and improve them.

So what should parents do if their children have problems with their classmates? I have the following three suggestions:

The first piece of advice: stand on the child's side.

Even if your child is his own fault, he doesn't want you to say that he is wrong, and when he has conflicts outside, he wants someone to understand him and trust him from his point of view.

The second piece of advice: give your child strength.

If your child comes back to you and complains about the mistakes of others, especially the louder he is, the more panicked he will be, and he will not have the courage and strength to face the mistakes he has made, and then he needs your help. You have to guide your child: if you do something wrong, apologize sincerely and let your classmates feel your attitude.

The third suggestion: When something happens, take your children to review it.

As the saying goes: only by eating a trench can you grow a wisdom.

I will share a story with you: there was a boy who had a conflict with the female classmate in the class, and the female classmate also brought several classmates to attack him, and the male classmate was particularly frustrated. Then the mother communicated with her son, who was standing in the school office, and said to her son:

Son, are you in a depressed mood today? Mom also knows that you didn't mean it, you must have been careless, but since this incident happened, let's think about how to face and solve it, Mom believes that you are a man who dares to act. If you need help, mom rushes to school right away to help you.

As a result, by the end of school in the afternoon, the child is already talking and laughing, because when he dares to face this problem, his heart will become calm. Then when I got home, my mother and son made a summary of this matter for a few minutes, thinking about how to solve this kind of thing in the future. So when something happens, it's the best opportunity to learn.

Summary. Good morning, my dear! My child can't handle the relationship with his classmates, how old is my child now?

Good morning, my dear! My child can't handle the relationship with his classmates, how old is my child now?

If the child does not handle the relationship with his classmates at school, then see if he can handle the relationship with family members in the family?

At home, it is advisable to simulate strangers among family members, so that children can learn to interact with strangers. This will be a good help in cultivating children's interpersonal skills.

Summer vacation is just here, and there are many opportunities for children to participate in activities. Even if you go swimming with your child, this activity will give your child a lot of opportunities to practice and socialize with strangers in the world. You tell me? and numbers.