Two people, do they owe each other nothing, and the debt will be exhausted when the debt is repaid?

I think it's like this, when fate is over, we should go our own way, just like two crossed lines, and we will go farther and farther in the future! Follow-up: I mean:

I don't know if there is fate, it's not over, it's just a little confused: fate is in providence, and the share is artificial. As long as you work hard, there will definitely be a chance.

Even if you work hard and there is no result, you will not regret it when the time comes, because you have worked hard to catch it. Treat it with a grateful heart and think more about the beauty you used to have together, that is your motivation!

One day, Plato asked his teacher what love was, and he told him to go into the wheat field and pick the largest and most golden ear of wheat in the whole wheat field. It can only be picked once during this period, and it can only be walked forward, not back. Plato did as his teacher said.

As a result, he walked out of the wheat field empty-handed. The teacher asked him why he couldn't pick it, and he said, "Because I can only pick it once, and I can't go back, even if I see a big and golden tree, I don't know if it's better in front of me, so I don't pick it; When I walked to the front, I found that it was not as good as what I had seen before, and the largest and most golden ears of wheat in the wheat field had long been missed; So, I couldn't pick anything.

The teacher said, "This is love." To seek love is to seek one's own happiness.

The relationship between people is not all a relationship of interests.

There are also beautiful feelings.

Two people who have a good relationship will pour good feelings into each other, will care for and help each other, and there is no such thing as who owes whom.

Baby face, also known as childlike face, is a kind of human facial features, is the juvenile continuation of adolescence and adulthood, baby face has the following characteristics: round face, full forehead, low facial features, small and straight nose, short and smooth chin, soft facial features. People with baby faces will have delicate facial features, just like ceramic dolls, which are easy to arouse people's desire to protect.

It depends on your relationship.

If it's a relationship of lovers.

Actually, it doesn't exist.

What is owed and not owed.

Do you always owe each other two months? This is impossible, because in the feelings that everyone pays, there are also those who pay more and pay less, so it is not possible to owe each other, but some have, because I pay too much, you owe me and there is a feeling, I don't pay, then there is no need to owe, so when two people get along, everyone tries to think together, feel that everyone is suitable to be together, not suitable for everyone, and don't pester each other, or hurt each other, so that there is no good result for anyone, Because you hurt the other person, you hurt yourself at the same time, and some people often feel dissatisfied, so they hurt the other person, but what do you get? So I hope that everyone will pass sometimes, and don't feel that it is not interesting to be together?

In Buddhism, debt is a kind of cause and effect, and repaying debts with affection is a very silly act.

The starting point is not sincerity, but the mentality of repaying debts. This kind of behavior is worse than repaying debts, at least the latter will be paid off in two, but there are inextricable links with the possibility of repaying debts with affection. Because one cause leads to another, debt on debt, and it becomes a causal cycle.

When it comes to affection, there is no such thing as who owes anyone. If you are sure that you are subjectively getting along with the mentality of repaying your debts, it is better to leave early. Don't do anything that forces you, and don't do to others what you would not do to yourself.

Don't cling to it, don't climb it. If you repay your debts with love, you are still clinging to love, or you are still in greed. Go with the flow, pay with true and pure heart, just to repay others, return with the fate, there must be a reward, and the debt will be eliminated!

This may be different from the understanding of some friends. Most of our friends here may explain the karma of past lives and this life. I don't think there's any such thing as a debt to be repaid.

In other words, it is these causes and conditions of past lives that do not really form everything that you encounter and do in this life.

The people and things you love are not made in a past life, but mainly rely on the insights of this life. If you have the heart, you can see people and things in need everywhere, and if you don't have the heart, you will never know the wishes and prayers of others. The insights of this life are based on the continuation of karma in previous lives, and the understanding gained from living and studying in this life.

So, when you love someone, it's out of the greed of the desires that have accumulated in previous lives and in this life, and it's the thoughts of the self that are in charge, not because you lacked others in your previous life. To love or not to love is also a change in one's mind and state of mind, not to repay virtue and resentment.

If all good and evil actions are a process of repayment, then everything is taken for granted, and we do good in order to get a balance between the past and the future, then isn't doing evil also the same reason? What's the point of us not practicing? Have you ever wondered if it's a debt, then what if it's paid off?

This is too speculative.

In short, it's all about the present. The past is gone, and you can't make up for what you owe. Jokes aside, was there any inflation in the past?

Twenty years ago, the value of ten yuan has doubled twenty years later, not to mention the past. Good and evil, or past debts, you can never be finished, and all our so-called definitions of good or bad, favor or resentment, cannot fully conform to the understanding of the past and the future.

All cause and effect seem to begin in the past, but the reverse can also end in the present. Receiving what you deserve, doing what you ought to do, bearing what you don't have in your heart, and not having anything to do is liberation.

This is obviously asking for troubles Buddhism talks about repaying debts in order to let everyone stop paying off debts endlessly, rather than persistently Everything should be looked down on in moderation Not to mention that a hundred years of life are like passing by each other in a hurry A love word fascinates how many red dust men and women In the end, he still can't see him and her figure empty-handed.

Send me a poem I hope you will understand the meaning of it.

There is no need to fight for the world, and the heart field needs to be cultivated diligently without taxes.

The back waves of the Yangtze River push the front waves, and in a blink of an eye, I heard the sound of falling leaves.

Buddhism talks about cultivating the next life, which is all about the next life, and it is not more serious.

Two people living together should not be 1+1=2, but should be. Married life is based on two people trusting each other, tolerating each other, understanding each other and growing together, and finally combining into a complete whole. However, in marriage, many couples often have problems, and in the end, the fate is over, and the marriage collapses.

1. There is nothing to say.

When you find that two people have become speechless and relatively speechless in their married life. At this time you no longer have common interests, common goals. Then there is no possibility of continuing such a life.

Second, there are constant quarrels.

A good married life should be happy and warm, if two people quarrel constantly and dislike each other in married life. There is even a time when there is domestic violence, and there is no possibility of continuing such a married life.

3. No longer intimacy.

As the saying goes, the state of two people sleeping best expresses the state of marriage, although this sentence is very vulgar, but it is true. If two people are not intimate, it becomes a different dream in the same bed. There will be no common interest in life, and such a marriage will really come to an end.

Fourth, stay away.

If in married life, as long as two people dislike each other and expose each other as soon as they meet, then such a life will lead to two people staying away from each other, and even lead to a state of running away from home, then such a marriage will really come to an end.

Marriage needs to be maintained by two people, and only when two people bear and grow together will they break the difficulties in married life and create a harmonious and happy family. On the contrary, the problems mentioned above arise, and the fate of the two people ends here.

First, as soon as there is a quarrel, it is said that divorce. Second, husbands and wives often sleep in separate beds. Third, always look at the other person unpleasantly. Fourth, always worry about money. Fifth, if you have a new love outside, if the above phenomenon occurs in your marriage, then you should pay attention.

Husband and wife will have these 6 major performances.

Only if they can withstand the test of blandness, can two people finally grow old together, life and death together, but marriages that go against reality and defeat are everywhere.

The real fate of husband and wife is manifested in 1: they are too lazy to talk to each other! 2: Do not interfere with each other's lives, 3: The life and death of the other party has nothing to do with you! These performances prove that the husband and wife are doomed! I hope it can help you, I hope to adopt, thank you.

There is no common language.

Long-term separation, no contact with each other.

Each fights for itself and does not interfere with each other.

Forgotten in name only. Just wait for a certificate.

End the life of a scoundrel and helpless couple!

If you don't have a verbal conversation, you don't want to say a word to the other person, or you just talk to the other person like a stranger. I don't want to have too many intersections.

Unwilling to pay for each other, looking at each other's appearance is disgusting. Treat each other's relatives and friends as strangers. It won't cost the other party a penny. Won't eat each other's cooking.

During the holidays, I would rather party with friends, sing K, drink, go shopping, and play cards than go home and stay with my spouse. Or it's more intimate to chat with friends. Even if two people are in the same room, they play with their own mobile phones, and they don't talk more than five sentences a day.

Couples in love, no matter who loses their temper, there will always be another party to tolerate. But now, the two will only quarrel with each other, refuse to accept each other, and don't care if the two are reconciled, the two have no feelings, of course they don't care if they hurt each other, and of course they don't care if the two can still reconcile. The biggest damage to the relationship between husband and wife is because of extramarital affairs.

No one wants to give their other half of their love to others. If it's a stolen love, then sooner or later it will have to be returned. A person's heart can only belong to one person.

If you do it with two things, you can only bring about your own destruction. If you cut your heart, you will also cut off your love.

I don't feel for you anymore, I don't want to see you, and I don't want to say a word to you.

Chickens and ducks talk.

A word of disagreement, a big fight.

If you don't agree with each other, you will be dealt with coldly and violently.

I didn't agree and ran away from home.

Look at each other and hate each other.

When I see each other, I am disgusted, and I am reluctant to spend a penny for each other.

My heart became more and more flat, and finally I became cold.

Your wife may tell you that Dalang has drunk medicine.

In marriage, if you win these rules, then divorce is a matter of time!

Love is a matter of two people, and everyone has good expectations for love, but after getting married for a long time, many people's feelings gradually fade, and the relationship between husband and wife is only superficial. It's not hard to fall in love with someone, but it's hard to walk through life hand in hand. The most taboo thing between husband and wife is the cold war, and the damage caused by the cold war to the relationship cannot be eliminated.

After some couples quarrel, they can reflect on their own shortcomings, take the initiative to give in, apologize to each other, and give their lover a step.

If two people do not live together for a long time, it is easy to get divorcedThere is love and sex between husband and wife at the same time, and there can be no love without sex, and love and sex are not opposites, but together constitute a happy marriage. If two people don't live together, there will be no sex, there will be no love between them, and the marriage will not last very long. The relationship between men and women begins with sex, occurs in love, and ends in love, love and sex coexist and help together, so that the life of the husband and wife is constituted, so that the relationship is more durable, understand each other better, and get used to it.

If both parties don't like each other, they don't appreciate each otherIn a really good marriage, husband and wife often have a heart of gratitude, tolerance, know how to appreciate each other's goodness, and know how to understand each other's difficulties. Husband and wife must know how to respect each other, accept each other as they are, and accept each other, which is the best state of married life. If husband and wife begin to dislike and dislike each other, the final result will not be good, and it will only be divorce.

The two of them were in the cold war of time, and they didn't speak to each other, when a couple quarrels, says nothing, and enters a state of cold war. This state is particularly emotionally hurtful, because they no longer communicate, they no longer communicate, they don't admit their mistakes to each other, they don't like each other. Both people no longer care about each other's lives, each other's work, and treat each other completely as air.

The beginning of every love is beautiful, the beginning of every marriage is sweet, but the fate of every marriage is not a day's cold. So what happens between husband and wife is the end of fate, and divorce is a matter of time? As a senior in marriage, Lemon has something to say.

Point 1: Make your own money and spend it yourself

This is how many couples get alongLemon actually disagrees with this, because it is a manifestation of selfishness to make money and spend it by itself, and does not regard the small family of two people as a "collective", and when the two members of the collective do not work together, the meaning of the collective existence is not great.

Point 2: Cold War when things happen

In married life, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts between the husband and wife. Especially in the first two years of marriage, two people with different personalities, growth environments, and educational backgrounds will definitely collide with considerable sparks when they are in the same pot. Because the two people are different from each other in terms of self-worth, world view, consumption outlook and how to behave.

If two people have a cold war when they disagree, the only bit of love that remains over time will be consumed.

Point 3: Learning will not tolerate each other, seek common ground while reserving differences

When there is a conflict between two people, they must sit down and talk deeply, talk about their thoughts and understanding, it is a miracle that two strangers walk together, and it is even rarer to be able to tolerate each other and seek common ground while reserving differences. So we often see those young couples who have been married for less than two years go to divorce, and the reasons for the divorce are so ridiculous that people are speechless. It's all trivial, bits and pieces of family chores.

The above 3 points are things that can easily lead to fate and divorce between husband and wife, and newlyweds must take caution and not be too willful.