How can I help my family through difficult times?

Well, daughters should do more encouragement in their hearts to let them cheer up again. Remember, what could be more serious than the destruction of the earth and the fall of the heavens?

Can't you tell your parents and eldest brother to find something to do......You can't be the only one carrying it.

No matter how difficult life is, you still have to live. If you are idle like this, what will you do in the future.

If you have the ability, borrow money to do some business. If you can't afford it, go and work for others. It's not a thing to be idle all the time and still have a loan on you?

I don't know what to do. But I want you to be happy! Don't worry too much, everything will be fine.

Now in the state of your family, I don't think you should quit until you get a job. Also, you don't have to change the money your dad borrowed (on a legal level).

Among family members, everyone is not only a family living together, but also everyone has their own living status. ......Therefore, when one party encounters difficulties between family members, the other party should handle the relationship with each other based on the three principles of helping to the best of their ability, helping according to their ability, and being transparent about their responsibilities.

1. When family members encounter difficulties, they should do their best to help. Family relationships are the most intimate, so when family members are in trouble, you should do your best to help in any way. ......From this point of view, a family should be able to help each other ......This not only reflects the feelings between the family, but also their own responsibility, and they should and must do this.

2. When helping your family solve difficulties, you should do what you can. When a family member is in trouble, you should do your best to help. ......However, when it comes to specific help, you should do what you can.

The reason why I say this is because different people have different specific situations, and there is a limit to what they can contribute to helping others, so we must do what we can, otherwise it will be very detrimental to others and ourselves.

3. Family members should be clear about their responsibilities when helping each other and be open and transparent. Family members should live in harmony and help each other, but when it comes to specific actions, they should be more clear about their responsibilities and be open and transparent. ......The reason why I say this is because it is not gratuitous for family members to help each other, at least at the emotional level, they should be grateful for each other's help, and not indifferent.

Therefore, when family members encounter difficulties, for the help provided by family members, Hongsou himself must know how to be grateful and repay in time, so as to make the relationship between family members more harmonious and make family life happier.

I think that a family should still be able to help if they have the conditions and the ability to do so, and the reason why I hold this view is mainly based on the following reasons. First of all, their family is the most intimate person with their own blood relationship and emotional relationship, when their family encounters difficulties, they should still try their best to help each other get out of trouble, because in their own growth process, their family members also give themselves a lot of care and help, even if they don't take these into account, but as long as they have the ability to attack themselves, we should also help if we can, because only in this way can we make our hearts truly down-to-earth and calm. Of course, for the family, although it is possible to help, but there are certain conditions and premises, first of all, they really have the ability to help their families get out of trouble, if they do not have this condition and ability, then they will not only not be able to help each other, but will make their family more worried, and on the other hand, for some family members, especially their peers or juniors, if they do not develop to rely on themselves, but always count on relying on the help of others to survive, So in this kind of situation, I personally think that we should not help them, but should cultivate their self-reliance, because it is impossible for anyone to rely on others to survive for a lifetime, and they have no obligation to help each other for a lifetime, even if the other party is their own family.

A family should help each other, and when they have the conditions and the ability to do so, it is natural to help if they can. I hold this view, mainly based on the following considerations.

First of all, I want to say that if you can help, you can help, not necessarily to help, for some family members (especially their own siblings or juniors), if they have not developed their own ability to rely on their own ability to solve problems, they always expect to rely on the help of others to survive. Well, in this case, I don't think we should help them. Because it is impossible for anyone to live by relying on others, they must first be self-reliant to survive for a lifetime, and they have no obligation to help each other for a lifetime, even if the other party is their own family.

Secondly, I think the reason to help is because family members are the people with whom they have the closest relationship and the closest emotional relationship, and when their family members are in trouble, they should help them as much as possible. Because in the process of growing up, one's family is the one who helps me the most. Therefore, as long as we have the ability, we should also do what we can to help.

Third, you should really have the ability to help your family get out of trouble, if you don't have the conditions and ability, then not only can you not help the other party, but will make your family more sad.

Hello, friend.

Personally, I think that a family should be able to help if they have the conditions and capabilities, and the reason why I hold this view is mainly based on the following reasons.

First of all, your family is the most intimate person with your own blood relationship and emotional relationship, when your family encounters difficulties, you should still try your best to help each other get out of trouble, because in the process of your own growth, your family also gives you a lot of care and help, even if you don't take these into account, but as long as you have the ability to be a virtual god, we should also be able to help, because only in this way can we make our hearts truly down-to-earth and calm.

Of course, for the family, although it is possible to help, but there are certain conditions and premises, first of all, they really have the ability to help their families get out of trouble, if they do not have this condition and ability, then they will not only not be able to help each other, but will make their family more worried, and on the other hand, for some family members, especially their peers or juniors, if they do not develop to rely on themselves, but always count on relying on the help of others to survive, So in this case, I personally think that we should not help them, but should cultivate their self-reliance, because it is impossible for anyone to rely on others to survive for a lifetime, and I have no obligation to help the other party for a lifetime, even if the other party is my own family. Between people, treat each other with sincerity, sincere pay has a good return, some people will say, pay may not necessarily have a good return, I believe, sincere pay, how much will influence people, for the family to dedicate more, ask for less, each other with a grateful heart, each other are happy. For the help of the family, if it is within one's own ability, within the scope of the law, of course, to help.

I think that's what my dad and his siblings did, and they set a good example for me, and I should learn from them. My dad has five siblings, and my dad always says that because we are siblings, we should help each other. I think yes, their parents gave them the same life, so that they can become brothers and sisters, it already shows their relationship, in addition to their parents, they are the closest family, if even the closest people are not willing to help, then who will be willing to help them!

The only person they can trust should be the person closest to them. So my family is like this, when someone needs help, everyone will give their own money to help, no matter what they encounter, they should understand that there are their relatives by their side, they have never been alone.

I think that the family should be able to help if they have the conditions and can do it, and the reason why I hold this view is mainly based on the following reasons. First of all, his family is the person who is closest to his blood relationship and emotional relationship.

When your family encounters difficulties, you should still try your best to help the other party get out of trouble, because in the process of growing up with regret, your family members also give you a lot of care and help.

Even if we don't take these into account, as long as we have the ability, we should help as much as we can, because only in this way can we make our hearts truly down-to-earth and calm. Of course, for the family, although it is possible to help.

But there are also certain conditions and prerequisites, first of all, you really have the ability to help your family get out of trouble, if you don't have this condition and ability.

On the other hand, for some family members, if they do not develop the habit of relying on themselves, but always count on relying on the help of others to survive, then in this case, I personally think that they should not help them, or should cultivate their self-reliance, because no one can survive for a lifetime, and they have no obligation to help each other for a lifetime, even if the other party is their own family.

If a family has the conditions and can do it, they should still be able to help, and how can I hold such a view, mainly based on the following reasons.

First of all, their family is the most intimate person with their own blood relationship and emotional relationship, when their family encounters difficulties, they should still try their best to help each other get out of trouble, because in their own growth process, their family members also give themselves a lot of care and help, even if they do not take these into account, but as long as they have this ability, we should also be able to help, because only in this way can we make our hearts truly down-to-earth and calm.

Of course, for the family, although it is possible to help, but there are certain conditions and premises, first of all, they really have the ability to help their families get out of trouble, if they do not have the conditions and the ability to be cautious, then they not only can not help each other, but will make their families more sad, and on the other hand, for some family members, especially their peers or juniors, if they do not develop to rely on themselves, but always count on relying on the help of others to survive, In this case, I personally think that we should not help them, but should cultivate their self-reliance, because it is impossible for anyone to rely on others to survive for a lifetime, and I have no obligation to help each other for a lifetime, even if the other party is my own family.