How can I communicate confidently with my classmates? Help me, thanks .

It's not like they can't eat you! So, friends should be bold and confident to communicate with them! You'll learn a lot!

Give yourself the courage to take the first step, just take the first step, and you will find that it turns out that dating strangers is not as scary as you imagined! Come on! Go ahead!

Don't be afraid of mistakes, everyone will be wrong sometimes, and sometimes the more you are afraid of mistakes, the more often you will be wrong, so it's better to calm your mind!

You are the same as me, I am also very open to people who are good to me, and I don't talk much with other people, for fear that I will say the wrong thing, people are like this, and the outlook on life that has been established is difficult to change. I think this outlook on life is good, don't deliberately change it.

Like you, I'm also very unconfident.

Dealing with people is one of my major concerns.

May you have a better life!

In fact, at the beginning of the team, I was not familiar with or understood, and nervousness was inevitable, and I was like this, but then I slowly got better, why do you feel inferior? Are you usually a person with low self-esteem? What is the reason for your low self-esteem?

I don't have such a feeling, but after a long time, we all know each other, are familiar with each other, and it is good to know each other. You must not close yourself, or do not communicate with your classmates because of your inferiority complex for a while, otherwise your classmates will find their friends, and no one will be particularly good to you if you don't know you, and then you will really be sad, sad, and inferior. Believe, everything will be fine! Come on!

Think of yourself as a teacher.

You are not missing an arm or a leg, your facial features are correct, there is no reason not to be confident, others are also a person like you, you can communicate with people generously, work hard, there is nothing to scruple about, you must learn to communicate with people first, which will help you step into the society in the future.

Hehe, the same as me.

But as long as someone says a few words to me, I'll let go.

I don't think you have any confidence in yourself, you should be confident in yourself, I had a teacher tell me a few days ago that is a very effective way to be confident, you try it, you look at yourself in the mirror and say"I'm the best'You say it 100 times in the mirror and you'll be very confident in yourself, you might as well try, if you're embarrassed, you're practicing alone, we said it in front of the whole class, you can try, then again, you've just caught those fresh faces, who will be like this, in a few days, you have to have confidence in yourself, no matter what, you can think about it.

In fact, everyone is the same, just meet new friends or classmates are more humble, after a long time, it will be fine, as long as you sincerely communicate with others, you will definitely get the trust of the other party, become a good friend, a good classmate, a good confidant.

In the third grade, when communicating with others, we should pay attention to the following questions.

6. When talking to people, don't talk about others, don't talk about other people, and don't evaluate others at will, because if you say too much, you will lose, and trouble comes from your mouth, so you should be cautious and say less.

1.You can ask your classmates for their learning skills and knowledge (they should love to learn).

2.In physical education class, if you only have a good sport, find a friend to play with, for example, if you like to play badminton, find someone who likes to play badminton, and you will definitely be familiar with a dozen!

3.At the end of class, talk to everyone about what they dare to be interested in, for example: Xiaoqiang in your class likes the popular CF very much, then you can ask him for experience, of course, you have to listen to him patiently, he promises to speak very energetically.

Of course, this is just an analogy, try something else! You have to fancy the hobbies of the other party you want to communicate, and start from it, the success rate is very high!

4.Be helpful, and when someone in your class asks you to borrow money, you should be generous in lending it to him (of course, if you have money, or if the person has a personal character that others can trust) to him. The other party must be grateful!

As long as you can, try to help! After a long time, everyone knows that you are a good person and will definitely want to make friends with you!

5.Speak politely, listen carefully to your classmates, and only by respecting each other will the other party respect you! A polite student must have many classmates around him next to him to earn!

6.The last thing to say is that you should be talkative, according to your questions, you may be very introverted, and you should communicate with everyone more after class!

Hello, communicating with classmates requires mutual common topics, common interests and hobbies, and mutual cooperation.

What are the areas where you can't communicate well?

What is communication?

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The purpose of communication is to get the other person to take action or understand the message and emotion you are conveying, i.e. the quality of communication depends on the other person's response. Good communication is about saying what the other person wants to hear and listening to what the other person wants to say. To achieve this, effective encoding, decoding, and feedback are required.

Therefore, the real communication power is 100% responsible communication, and does not think that "a slap does not make a sound" understanding, and the communication responsibility of "playing the piano to the cow" is completely attributed to the person who plays the piano.

To improve communication, you need to figure out what the listener wants to hear, and do so by agreeing, complimenting, asking about needs, and expressing it in a way that is of interest to the other person, such as humor, enthusiasm, affinity, and friendliness. At the same time, in the appropriate opportunities and places, the place will be changed according to the needs. When listening, listen in a way that the other person is willing to hear, actively inquire about what the speaker wants to say, put yourself in their shoes, do not interrupt, and respond positively and encourage expression; Control your emotions and respond and give feedback in a timely manner, and finally confirm your understanding, and clarify your objections after listening.

Guidelines for Communication:

1. Timely. 2. Accurate.

3. Completeness. Communication Skills:

1. Understand who you are communicating with (things, people's hobbies, emotions, and others).

2. You have to be ready for the content you want to communicate with people, don't you start up, and then others ask you and you don't know.

3. Know how to listen, don't argue about differences, use extensions if you have opinions or differences, and don't let you have opinions and impose on others.

4. Know how to make people say 'yes' for the first time, so that others will be less wary of you.

5. Don't deceive others with reason after being reasonable.

6. Be sincere and communicate with your heart.

If it's a real relationship, I believe they shouldn't care if you can join them on the topic of "impurity". That's not the only topic you have on the subject, right?

It's normal for junior high school boys to be curious or like to pretend to be cool and swear, and you don't need to think that they are very strange to open their mouths or swear, or deliberately reject them. Since you don't like this topic, it's better not to get involved. Or tell them what you really think, and maybe they will think you are mature and respect you!

In short, you don't pay too much attention to this kind of one-sided topic, I think friends are not simply dependent on a certain topic to talk about to maintain, since you don't like it, then say it, I believe that real friends will understand.

You can participate in group activities, which can exercise your unity, help you to broaden your mind, and participate in various school activities, so that your eloquence will also be good, this society is like this, you can only accept, now you adapt to the society, not the society to adapt to you, understand no.

I am glad that you can look at problems dialectically, you are a student who knows how to think. People have different personalities, different beliefs, and different hobbies, so I think you have the answer to this question.