At what point did you lose faith in life?

If you haven't been, you have always been full of confidence in life, and you must learn to be content and happy, so that you can live a better life, and the confidence in life is given by yourself, and all difficulties will not be overcome.

I have a lot of children, I belong to the superbirth, and then I am still the middle one, and then I was disliked by my parents, when I was in junior high school, I often couldn't eat because of no money, and I really didn't have the confidence to live at that time, I felt that such a day, when was a head, but then I survived, and now I live a very happy life.

When you lose your job, your partner abandons you, your family doesn't understand you, and you don't have any friends.

When I had no money, I felt that life was really hard and painful, I wanted my ideal life, but I didn't have any opportunities, and my heart was full of disappointment.

When I just graduated, I didn't have a job, I didn't have a girlfriend, and I was very confused every day, because I didn't have much money on my body, and I didn't dare to tell my family that I was having a bad time, so I ate some simple meals every day, and I ate instant noodles from time to time, and I just persevered! After a long time, it seems that I don't see any hope, I am very confused, I don't know what to do, and I have lost confidence in life more and more!

I don't know if others have such an experience, it was good, and the mood was good, but suddenly I felt angry because of a little thing, my emotions were like dry firewood, out of control, it may be that the exit hurts people, it may be loud and noisy, and then I begin to regret it, I feel that it shouldn't be like this, and then I feel that my emotional control is not good, why is my emotional intelligence so low, and then I feel so terrible, I don't have the necessary qualities of a successful person, I will not succeed in this life, and then I feel that there is no love in life, and I am doomed to fail in my life.

When I was a child, I received grievances, and every time I thought about what I was doing when I was still alive, I was dead, I had the experience of suicide, and now it's a little ridiculous to think about it, I'm 22 years old this year, and I'm about to graduate and have a vision and fear for the future. I am afraid that I will not have a place in society, so I will take advantage of the fact that there is still one year to study and accumulate more, and try to enrich myself to prepare for the future.

One of the things that has troubled me lately is that I feel lost about the future. What is the value of a human being? Especially for women, how to put themselves in the right position after marriage, whether to be a housewife or continue to work, for me, I don't want to be an idler, I think about what I want to do all day long, I hope I can find a new direction in the new year.

On the night when the graduate school entrance examination results came out, the whole person was shaking. Looking back on the year of preparing for the exam, the moment when I paid so much but didn't get in, the whole person was blind. I feel like I don't have any more confidence to go on.

In those days, my family was very careful to talk to me, and I suddenly realized that they were heartbroken in the year of my preparation for the exam, I shouldn't be like this, and they were even more sad when they were sad about the results.

When everything is in one place, when there is a heavy sense of frustration, when it is difficult, what confidence? It's good to be alive.

I now have a high amount of debt, more than a dozen ** every day, and I call in to collect the debt. I have to be hit many times a day, and I put myself back together little by little. I once heard a saying:

Every morning, I put myself together and go out. After living for more than 30 years, everyone else has married and had a wife and children, but I went bankrupt at this time. I don't dare to think about it, but when I compare it, it is not a loss of confidence, but a collapse.

But dying is, a simple thing, and living has become a difficult thing. Between easy and difficult, there is nothing wrong with choosing difficult. So, I can only struggle to live.

No matter how difficult the road is, there will be a time when it will be finished.

I don't know how to say it, maybe it's emotional instability, but I haven't met a girl who understands each other, knows how to cherish gratitude, and has an intact original intention. The girls I knew before have also disappeared for various reasons. With the development of the times, as I grow up day by day, I am a little depressed and confused sometimes.

After returning to the company after the New Year this year, I should be promoted and raised in response to the company's promise last year, and I am constantly recruiting managers, and my tasks are higher than those of managers, and the result is that the grassroots work is the most basic, they sit in the office and drink tea, and I bask in the sun. In the end, I left my job, and staying again and again only increased my disappointment, and the negative energy was so great that I was depressed for a while.

When the heart is tired, upset, depressed and depressed, go for a walk and have a look, so that the mind can travel to nature.

Do you know why you lost faith in life! , understand the reason, calm down, see how good your life is, you should not lose faith in life. One person, one world, we must learn to look at our own unsatisfactory with a normal heart, learn to be strong in the face of reality, adjust our mentality, relax ourselves "no one is perfect", and don't put too much pressure on yourself "endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky".

Open your heart to confide in friends and communicate with family, let warm friendship and family affection melt your pain, heal trauma and relieve your stress. Listen to motivational songs or read some motivational books, set yourself a goal that is easy to achieve in the short term, and then go for it.

There was a moment when I felt like I was alive and lost its meaning.

It was 13 years, and I had surgery due to illness, and then the anesthesia was too strong and the pain was unbearable. At that time, I pressed a sandbag on the edge of the knife, and the stuffy pain of the knife edge once made me feel that it was really boring to live and suffer such a crime.

My biggest problem is nausea and vomiting when I feel a lot of pain. When giving birth, it hurts so much that it hurts, so when the knife is extremely painful, it is nausea and vomiting, and when it vomits, the knife is even more painful, and the vicious circle is vicious.

I was tossed and felt worse than dead.

At that time, I thought: if I am gone, it will be painful for my old father (my mother has died), but he has other children and daughters, and it will be fine; For my older siblings, they still kiss each other; For my husband, he can also find a new partner; Only for my son, he has no mother, which no one can replace. Everyone else can have a substitute, but the mother can't.

So, at that time, I thought, for the sake of my son, I must persevere.

Now when I talk about it, everyone is talking about it, right? Actually, that's what I really thought at that moment.

Whether you are important in the eyes of others or not, it is the feelings of others, the key is who you feel is important to you, who makes you feel that you can work hard for them, this is the key to letting go of your knots.