I broke up with my boyfriend for three days, and I still think about him all the time, what should I

The end of one fate is the beginning of another. If you should forget, choose to forget. If you can't forget it, then keep it in your heart.

Go out to travel and relax, and then come back and devote yourself to work, slowly you will forget him, don't rush to fill the emotional gap, every other half a year, heal the injury, and then devote yourself to another relationship, I believe that time can kill all the memories. You can choose a healthy lifestyle. Shift the focus of your life.

Do what you have to do. I wish you happiness, a breakup is a breakup, it is a unanimous decision of both parties.

Don't think about him, men are like that! Go to play with your girlfriend every day to relax your body and mind, let yourself naturally feel that he is not that important, don't try to contact him, it will seem that you are cheaper, he said so resolutely when he broke up, he can't forgive him now, and he has to say it first if you want to get back together.

Do you still love him now? How much love, if you really love him, explain it to him well, and don't "make trouble". If he really loves you, he will accept you, and if he doesn't change his mind, you don't have to dwell on it, which means that he doesn't like you anymore.

From another perspective, if you just can't let go for a while, then bear with it, don't go to him, just let your love come to an end.

Long pain is better than short pain, since you are separated, find a way to work, study, enrich yourself, and there will always be someone suitable for you in the future. In other words, if you really love him, talk to him. Solve the current embarrassment in the most rational way.

It is advisable to think twice before making any decision. Maybe he's more uncomfortable than you or doesn't mean to fit at all.

If the two of you break up just a thought, there must be room for redemption. Of course, the premise is that one side needs to take the initiative to show goodwill and break the deadlock. If you find that you really can't bear this feeling, go straight to him, maybe he is regretting it.

It'll be okay when you calm down, but don't do that in the future.

In fact, it's only been three days since the breakup, if you really love him very much, then try to contact him, but have a degree, don't rely too much on the other party, the appearance of not being able to live without the other party will make him have more say, three days after the breakup, both parties should also calm down, talk about it, and see if there is a chance.

The fairy tale is over, and forgetting is happiness! There are some things that you should let go, otherwise it will not be good for you after a long time! I wish you happiness, maybe the other party is spending a lot of time now, so love is a matter of two people, one is indispensable, if the other party does not feel sorry for this relationship, you also have to learn to let go.

True love is when you can love, know how to cherish true love, and know how to let go when you can't love, because letting go is the ...... you have everythingWhen you cherish it, please love it well. When you let go, bless ...... wellNo one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is to give unconditionally for each other, do anything to do meaningful things! Even one person will not be alone!

Love is like two people playing rubber bands, and the one who lets go in the end hurts the most. It is recommended that you start another relationship and do not linger in this relationship all the time, it is no good to go on in this way, relax your body and mind more, and destroy everything about the other person.

Time can't erase the wound, and if you choose to separate, you will be ready to leave him and forget him. Even if the heart hurts, even if you dream back every night. But I'm not going back to him.

Maybe I'll turn around and leave for a new environment. Lock everything about him. Let time dilute everything.

Suggested Actions:

1. Take the initiative to set up obstacles, these are all okay.

2. Shift your attention immediately.

Excessive focus on your ex leads to all your attention and emotions being focused on the other person, and you have to learn to shift your attention, not to pay attention to the other person at all, but to pay attention to the distribution of weight. If you have 10 minutes and 9 minutes to follow him, find something that is worth your long-term investment of time and energy, such as sports and fitness.

3. Go with the flow.

We all have a very strange phenomenon in our relationships, the more you tell yourself intellectually what you can't do, the more emotionally you will take the initiative to do it. We can manipulate our own consciousness, but it is easy to be subconsciously manipulated by ourselves.

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Breakup considerations.

After the breakup, we intellectually know that we should change, to adjust, and not to indulge in the connection with him, but from the practical level, we often betray our consciousness, even if our consciousness temporarily guides us, it will be broken back after a while.

So, instead of constantly controlling yourself and not doing something, you should not control it, let go of some emotions and thoughts, and do things that you think you can't do. Of course, it's not for you to be willful, but from the level of consciousness, don't restrain yourself.

For example, don't restrain yourself from thinking about each other, don't control your emotions excessively, think about each other boldly, and even when your emotions are very sad, you can not control yourself, vent out, and cry.

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Then you need to find the reason for your breakup, and then solve this conflict, so that you can repair this relationship.

Questions. It's just that I often quarrel, and he said to calm down after being separated for a while, and now I haven't been in touch for a few days.

If you often quarrel, then find your reason, because after all, this communication method is not used correctly, and everyone is uncomfortable.

Whatever you continue to be together, this is also going to solve this problem.

Questions. It's that the two of them have less time together, and I often call ** to him, he is annoying, and sometimes he doesn't pick up**, and I get angry when I pick it up.

Is it necessary to reconcile in this way, because he has not contacted me either.

It's been a few days and now I'm sending him a message, will I still feel annoyed with him?

That is, your communication method is not used correctly, if you still want this relationship, then you can also save him, the key is to depend on your own ideas.

You have to read his channel in order to communicate with him in his way, and if you call ** in the past, he feels annoyed, then your expression is not used correctly. There must be a reason why he doesn't pick up your **, so as soon as you pick up **, he gets angry, he feels uncomfortable, and he becomes disgusted.

How long have you been together, you can care about the greeting message first, simple, and don't say anything else.

For example, when it's cold, pay attention to your clothes.

Questions. Okay thank you.

Then don't you contact him after a while, so as not to be annoying.

You can contact you every three days.

It's been 5 years since we broke up, and I still can't help but want to contact him, explaining that I can't forget my boyfriend, I will contact him, and I want to know if he's okay. In order to avoid the embarrassment of meeting directly, I will learn about his situation through my friends, and if my boyfriend has been single since the breakup, I will ask my friends to bring him a message and ask him to meet. If my boyfriend already has a home after the breakup, I won't disturb his life.

It's been 5 years since I broke up with my boyfriend and I still can't help but want to contact him, I still can't forget him because he did a lot for me before, so I can't forget him. Since I can't forget my boyfriend, I will contact him directly, I will ask him to meet, I want to know if he is okay. If my boyfriend wants to get back together, I will hold hands with him again.

I've been breaking up with my boyfriend for 5 years, and if I don't want to make it awkward to see each other, I will find out about my boyfriend through my friends. I will find out about my boyfriend for 5 years through our mutual friends, and if he wants to know about me too, he can meet up and go on a date. After all, it's been 5 years since they broke up, what do you think of each other after 5 years?

It's best to meet and talk, and if you haven't forgotten each other, you can continue the edge.

It's been 5 years since I broke up with my boyfriend, and because of our deep relationship, I never forgot him, and I want to renew my relationship with him. If my boyfriend is still single, I will not hesitate to contact him and I will offer to meet him. Since I haven't forgotten each other, don't be reserved, just tell each other what I think, and we will be together and never separated.

It's been 5 years, we haven't been in touch, my boyfriend has a home, he has a beautiful girlfriend by his side, I won't bother him anymore. I will let the past pass forever, never disturb the peaceful life of the other party, and I will silently bless the other party. I will seal the best memories of that one, we once loved, but we missed it, and I hope we can meet again in the next life.

I think you should give up this idea, after all, it's been 5 years since you broke up, it's been too long, if you contact him at this time, he may think it's a distraction, you've been broken up for 5 years, don't keep dwelling on the past and look forward.

If your boyfriend hasn't contacted you in the past five years, it means that he doesn't have you in his heart, so don't contact him, and quickly devote himself to a new relationship.

Summary. Hello friend, because you have reached the period of love burnout, love is tired or you have discovered the shortcomings that you didn't notice at first, or the sweet feeling that has begun to fade.

I want to break up with my boyfriend every once in a while.

Hello friend, because you have reached the period of love burnout, love is tired or you have discovered the shortcomings that you didn't notice at first, or the sweet feeling that has begun to fade.

Many people have this feeling, feeling that the relationship is boring, unsuitable, irritable, and the idea of breaking up often comes up.

In fact, to put it bluntly, you don't fall in love, and you haven't met your true destiny. Before the real fate appeared, your current boyfriend was chicken ribs, and it was a pity to abandon it if it was tasteless.

Generally, those who are in this state will hardly go far, and they will eventually break up, and the teacher has also experienced it.

I don't have anything to say when I'm with him, I just want to be alone, but I don't feel that way with my friends.

I thought about being with him well, but within two days, I felt that it was not appropriate.

Well, it's exactly the same as the teacher's situation at that time, this is because of the three views and the incompatible personality.

Despite his efforts, he still said in his heart that he had a diaphragm.

The twisted melon is not sweet, and the feeling is not reluctant.

Saying that he was afraid of hurting him when he broke up, this feeling was really annoying.

It's okay, it's not appropriate, you still want to break up like this, and it will hurt even more if you drag it out.

You can slowly let him understand by himself, don't be so direct, and let him have a process of acceptance.

So what should I do? You can change it from your daily relationship first, for example, you don't have the same attitude towards him as before, and you are more cold.

How do you get along with each other on a daily basis now?

I'm cold, he doesn't talk to me for long every time, every chat is like an ordeal, but his mentality seems to be good.

Because he thinks that you are this kind of character, used to it, and willing to accept you like this, and has not yet realized that you want to break up.

So you can push a little harder.

OK well, everything is subject to a peaceful breakup, it's good for all of you, the relationship is like this, if it's not suitable, you will separate, you don't have to blame yourself.

First of all, you need to realize that even if you contact him, he will not change his decision. He proposes to break up and asks you not to contact him, which means that he is tired of staring at you and may be cold or not respond to your contact at all.

If you still want to contact him, you can try the following methods:

1.Cold treatment: You can try to calm yourself down, not to think about him, not to contact him. You can focus on your work, study and life, try to develop new hobbies, and make your life more fulfilling.

2.Distraction: You can try talking to a friend, family member or counsellor for support and help. You can also try to participate in some social activities to expand your social circle and allow yourself to have more interpersonal interactions.

3.Self-reflection: You need to think about why you broke up. If the problem is with you, you need to correct your mistakes. If the problem is with him, you need to learn to let go of your emotional dependence on him and start your own life.

4.Accept reality: You need to accept the fact of the breakup and realize that your life needs to be readjusted after the breakup. You can try to replan your life and find your own purpose and direction.

Finally, I would like to remind you that even if you can't help but want to contact him, don't forget to respect his decisions and feelings. You need to realize that you have lost your relationship with him and need to accept this fact and allow yourself to come out of the shadow of the breakup as soon as possible.