I m 14 years old and haven t been here for 4 months, what should I do????? 30

Little sister, don't be afraid! There are two situations, the first situation may be that you have your first love, you and your boyfriend are not in the same mind, pregnant, and more than four months, if this is the case, you still have to say don't be afraid, find your parents, or find an elder you can trust, help you, she will know how to deal with it! Don't be shy, ashamed, and don't be afraid, you're almost an adult compared to when you were 4 years old!

In the second case, if you have a minor illness, it is recommended to tell your parents to accompany you to the hospital, and the doctor will help you!

Don't listen to other people's advice, such as taking your own medicine or going to an unfamiliar clinic, then something will happen!

Go to the hospital for a urine test, or go to the pharmacy to buy a test strip to check whether you are pregnant, and check your urine, see the instructions for specific usage.

Are you too stressed? Wait a little longer to relax, and if you haven't already, it is recommended to go to the hospital for a check-up.

Just wait. There will be a long time between the first and second time.

It should be fine, you are still young, I am almost 20 years old, and it is often abnormal.

14 years old is the age of flowering, and when menstruation comes, it is also a warning that girls are preparing to enter puberty. Many girls start menstruating between the ages of 12 and 14, and menstruation usually lasts about 28 days. However, girls are not mature in all aspects of their physical development, and they will also experience periods when they do not come for several months.

What is the reason why 14 years do not come after a few months?

The onset of menstruation is an important sign of puberty in adolescent girls, with a menstrual period of 3 to 7 days and a bleeding volume of 30 60 ml. But some girls have irregular menstruation, sometimes once every 2 or 3 days, sometimes 2 times a month, some even do not come for several months, some bleed too much, some bleed too little. Irregular menstruation in girls is because, girls have just entered puberty, the function of the hypothalamic-pituitary-ovarian axis has not yet fully developed, and menstruation begins without ovulation, but only produces estrogen, which makes the endometrium proliferate, but the level of estrogen is very low, and the endometrium stops proliferating, and falls off and bleeds, so some girls have to come back after a few months after menstruation, sometimes it is manifested as irregular bleeding, and sometimes it is bleeding after a short period of amenorrhea, which is the reason for menstrual disorders in girls.

This is a normal physiological phenomenon, and it should not cause unnecessary psychological fluctuations for it. After a period of adjustment, the ovaries mature in order to ovulate regularly, and menstruation will have regular periods.

When the first menarche of girls is mostly 12-16 years old, the first menarche has early and late days, which is generally believed to have a lot to do with heredity. If the mother has an early menarche, the daughter will also have an early period; Mother's menarche is late, and daughters may also have menarche late, as early as 9 years of age and late menstruation in 18-19 years, if there are no other abnormalities, it is considered a normal range.

2. 50 grams of raw hawthorn meat and 40 grams of brown sugar. Fry the hawthorn first to remove the slag, pour in the brown sugar, and drink hot. Suitable for delayed menstruation.

3. 50 grams of longan meat, 1 egg, fry the longan first, beat the eggs after 30 minutes, stew until cooked, 1 time in the morning and 1 time in the evening, and take it for 10 days. It is suitable for menstrual irregularities.

4. 2 rooster combs, a little salt, cooked chicken combs, dipped in salt and eaten, 1 time a day, 3-5 times a month.

5. Patients with delayed menstruation, low amount, abdominal cold pain and other symptoms. 20 jujubes, 10 grams of motherwort, 10 grams of brown sugar, add water to stew and drink, 1 time in the morning and 1 time in the evening. It is suitable for menstrual delay caused by cold during menstruation, oligomenorrhagia and other symptoms.

6. 2 eggs, 30 grams of motherwort, wash the eggs, add water to stew with motherwort, remove the shell of the eggs and cook them for 20 minutes after cooking, eat eggs and drink soup. It is suitable for oligomenorrhea and postmenstrual delay caused by blood stasis block.

7. Appropriate amount of red sorghum flowers and brown sugar, fry in water, and drink in 2 times. It is suitable for those who have early menstruation, heavy menstruation and bright redness.

8. 10 grams of angelica and ginger, 100 grams of mutton slices, add water and boil, add salt after cooking, drink soup and eat meat.