Is it very useless for a man who has been hurt by love and has been slumping since then?

It can't be said that you are unproductive, in today's world, in fact, there are not many infatuated men. All I can tell you is that there is no shame in being infatuated, but you are not brave enough. If you really love someone, you have to cheer up and snatch her back.

If you really give up, you should strive for a new life, and you should not dwell on the past.

I've always admired men who put love first, but when they are hurt, they collapse, which is really unproductive.

Love is a gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, when he (she) is happy with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad to him (her) comfort. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a ...... that will not fadeAll this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, so that he (she) can devote his (she) energy to the struggle for his ideal career, and urge him (her) to make full use of the time that belongs to him/herself, help each other in the short space with each other, support each other, share weal and woe, contribute to each other's ideal cause, and have a beautiful future together.

No. This only illustrates.

You love her very much.

Doing nothing all day long, complaining about others, daydreaming every day, thinking about getting something for nothing, doing things only as promises, and having no goals in your career. Stay at home all day and play games, gnawing on the old.

The characteristics of unproductive boys are roughly the same, such as procrastination, inefficiency, no planning, poor interpersonal communication, no high life goals, and no help from nobles.

If you procrastinate and don't sort things out, you must have no ability, and if you don't have the ability, you're basically useless. The other is to shirk responsibility, which means that men are not only impatient but also dump the pot everywhere, and they can throw it to you today and to others tomorrow.

Don't seek to be motivated, only talk big, etc. It's lazy to eat, doesn't seek to be motivated, just wants to spend women's money, only talks big, brags, and always says empty words that are very powerful.

Men who have no interest have the following three characteristics: 1. Always complaining, such as complaining about the unfairness of life, complaining about the pressure of work, complaining that the people around him do not think about him, etc.; 2. Do not seek to be motivated, have no plan for the future, and have the mentality of getting by; 3. There is no pursuit of life, and every day is spent in a state of confusion.

Not self-motivated. An unmotivated man will not achieve much in the future. This life is destined to be doomed.

For men who are not promising, the following 3 characteristics are obvious, and it is often difficult to become a big man.

No, because of love, I am more motivated, I can work hard, make achievements, and share them with my lover!

Love is just an aspect of life, and at the same time you will have family and friendship. Cheer up and don't let those who love you fret.

It's just that he temporarily lost the direction of his efforts, and his efforts were not rewarded, and he couldn't extricate himself from the whirlpool of narcissism;

It's just that I haven't seen it yet, I haven't let it go, my heart isn't big and wide enough, it's just that I see myself, and I don't see anything else;

There should be your own high-level pursuit, and in the process of pursuit, there will be new and better love, which will automatically come to you.

Love is deep and lifeless, and love is bound to hurt. He is a serious person, especially for love, but: since ancient times amorous and empty hate. Such people are destined to be hurt by the shallow feelings that are now changeable....

To put it bluntly, it's useless! It's yourself who tortures yourself!

It shows that he is a person who values love and righteousness.

What's so bad about infatuation? It's better than being indiscriminate. Infatuated and dedicated people deserve my respect. But abusive or amorous people make me very disgusted.

A man who is really affectionate will use reason to control his feelings. Just like a man who really loves a woman will not put the words "I love you" on his lips.

Some people will think that he is unproductive, and some people will treat him as a treasure.

This depends on what kind of person you meet.

No, I appreciate this kind of boy. Dare to love and dare to hate is the big man, o( o

It can't be said that people are two-sided, and sometimes some people's EQ is less than that of IQ, and men also have true feelings, please cherish this man and don't hurt his ......

Well, those who don't understand feelings are waste.

Afraid of being hurt again? You can only solve the problem from your own point of view, maybe you should keep your eyes open.

version, after deciding, choose a person who you love her, she loves you too, and will not easily abandon each other, responsible person, you have to choose the right person, and then what you do is to open your heart, and you yourself have to be brave, a little bold, and a little responsible.

You're going to step in as a friend, don't worry.

Give him comfort, give help, be there for him when he needs someone, and then he will slowly fall in love with you.

What he lacked and what he gave him slowly integrated into his life.

It's hard to love again. It's more selfish and won't give easily.

1. Think hard.

Find a quiet time, a quiet and independent space, and seriously think about your current situation and your own thoughts. Without this relationship, is there no way to continue? Which one is more important, your dreams and feelings?

2. Emptying. When you put forward the above ideas to yourself, don't blindly define and end them, and leave yourself a little longer. Let yourself truly discover your own heart and find the real answer.

3. Stick to your heart.

For a very good person, a dream is really important to oneself, but feelings are also a side that they can't let go. In fact, what I want to say is that love is just because you are stuck in the habit of feelings, and you don't really have to do it. Why do others say that time is the best medicine, because it can ** any strange disease, habit is one of the most common diseases that others think is a terminal disease.

In the eyes of time, this is a completely minor issue.

4. Avoid interruptions.

When you find your dreams again, then please persevere, and you will definitely encounter all kinds of obstacles along the way, which are all from familiar people or objects or scenes in the past, so let yourself avoid these. Especially take good care of it in the early stage.

5 appropriate desperation.

In terms of love, not only you, but also him will have the same mentality, you must always believe that the mentality of boys and girls is different in the way of expression, and the psychological activities are similar. So stick to your own ideas, no matter who influences you, since you have made such a choice, then please go through the decision. Don't drag mud and water, otherwise it will harm others and yourself.

It's okay to be trapped by love, this is a normal manifestation of valuing love and righteousness, but if you are obsessed with the wrong person, don't want to make progress, or even fall willingly, it is really useless.

Friends are not what you think, men are trapped by love, but in fact, they have encountered some distressing things, and they are unable to solve them or are unable to extricate themselves from them, and they are depressed and trapped.

It should be treated well, help well, and comfort him, so that he will be better and will come out of it, so it is said that the rainbow will be seen after the storm, maybe this man will be more diligent and more affordable after this matter, and it is not unproductive.

It's not that you're trapped by love. Only being bald all the time is useless. Everyone's personality is different, and dealing with feelings is different, some people belong to the fiery type of temper, dealing with feelings is to cut through the mess quickly, and some are introverted personalities, which are to bury their sadness deep in their hearts and be sluggish.

Can't say that, it means that this man is very emotional, single-minded in doing things, now there are not many such men in this society, when the two are good, you love me, and if you have other beautiful girls, you will immediately empathize with other beautiful girls, if you meet such a man, you must cherish it.

In life, you only need to know two things. First, there are definitely people in this world who are smart without studying, and who live well without hard work. Two, that person is definitely not you.

Then, all you have to do is be optimistic and keep working hard to make yourself a little better every day.

Don't be sad when others ignore you, everyone has their own life, and no one can be with you all the time. When you see others laughing, don't think that you are the only one in the world who is sad, in fact, others are just more than you can cover up.

Life is a never-ending performance, each of us is an actor, but some people obey themselves, and some people please the audience.

Men are also people who are trapped by love is not without interest, feelings are what every normal person will feel, and a person of the opposite sex suddenly separated for some reason, will be in pain and sad for a while, this is not without interest, we are all perceptual animals, at this time we need to have friends to comfort, do more things to disperse some of the mood, and let go after a long time!

As a man, you must have the spirit of Fanggang, be able to bend and stretch, be able to lift and let go, and not live in the private affairs of your children, otherwise, you will not achieve anything.

If you can think about this aspect, it means that you are doing well now, and people who are really poor will not think about this, because if they survive, they will do their best, and feelings are just a small thing, and learning to control and regulate feelings is also the key to becoming a big person.

The pain is for sure, it means that you really like her, but you can't say that you are stupid! If you can see her at work every day, and she doesn't like you, it must be very uncomfortable, but you must think about it, like her, you don't necessarily have to get her, just see her happy, it's enough, and also, don't waste too much time and energy for someone who doesn't like you, because your real partner is waiting for you in a hurry She wants you to find her quickly, so ah, don't let down your real other half, look at things a little bit. Then make yourself happy and slowly find her who really belongs to you, love, is a matter of two people, two people must work together, unilateral like, it's useless, it's just a waste of time Come on, get better soon!

IOU, the lake and the mountains, if you don't look at it, you'll be hahahahaha, you'll be annoyed, he'll be good,? I'm going to see what the doctor said.

What's the matter with you, what's going on with you, Mom! What are you going to do? I don't have anything to do now, I mean what's the matter!

How do you know you're sending me a message,?! I don't have any interest right now, oh, what color do you want, are you here, you can hand it over.

It is possible for people to be trapped by love, and it is normal for people to have an emotion in their temperament.

Ask the world, what is love? It is a promise of life and death. There are double flyers in the south and the north, and the old wings have been cold and hot several times. Happy and fun, parting bitter, there are even more crazy children.

I think it's very good for such a person, at least he has a conscience, a woman's affection is her life, she can't go, and she can't stay.

A person who values feelings cannot be said to be unproductive, but he must also have a bottom line.

can't say that, it shows that he values feelings.

Men have tears and don't flick, but they haven't reached the sad place, every time a man's tears will have an abusive decision, he can shed tears for you and you still say that it is useless, maybe you are really at the end, you don't look down on him from the bottom of your heart, a person is willing to shed tears for you, it means that he really loves you and likes you, if a man doesn't really love you, he won't shed tears for you, such a man you should cherish.

Men don't shed tears easily, and they can't do big things without a lot of heart.

Probably not, love does not occupy a very large proportion of a man's life, maybe it will be sad for a while, and it is too exaggerated to slump. If there is such a situation, it is absolutely true, love!

Then your parents are also quite ruthless, in fact, it is useless to blame anyone for this kind of thing, it can only be said that you have a problem with your choice, maybe you are too kind, you can't distinguish between good and bad people, if you can't live anymore, you still have to divorce, don't complain, it's useless, the past is over.