How can you really stop loving her, how can you not love her anymore

I met someone in the same way. Me and she are the same. Before confession.

We're more like a couple. Because after all, there is no pressure. But after the confession.

With graduation too. Each goes to a different place. Although nominally still a couple.

But it's not like it at all. After that, they broke up. Within a year of the breakup.

I thought I still cared about her. I still miss her. A year after the breakup.

I offer to reconcile. We're back together. But it's been two months now.

Gradually, I found out. This is not the case. I probably because she was so nice to me.

That's why we're back together. I don't have the urge to meet and date as a couple. Don't even bother to meet.

I don't meet her alone every time we meet. Instead, he intentionally or unintentionally pulled in a few dead friends. There were a few girls in our classmates who were very nice with her.

Always scolding me for this and scolding me for that. Say I'm not proactive. It made me even angrier.

Because I don't want my relationship to be supervised and regulated by others. But to be honest, I don't want to meet her at all. I don't think I love her anymore.

I know I'm sorry for her. But I don't know how to put my feelings into words. I can't delay her.

So. We are facing the same problem.

The time to forget feelings is uncertain. It took me a year to forget. I thought I had forgotten.

But I thought I couldn't forget. I used a number of methods. But it didn't work (before we got back together) and I tried not to contact her.

Don't reply to her text messages. Don't pick up her **. But I thought I could forget about her.

Turns out I didn't. After knowing the compound. I realized that compounding was a big mistake.

Now I finally believe in a word. Let him pass what is in the past. Don't think about it anymore.

Don't look back. Your actions are always controlled by your mind. You think you can't forget.

Even if you exhaust all means. You still can't forget. But the truth is that your real thoughts are not what you feel to be.

Friend. The question of feelings is not something that anyone can say for sure.

Feelings come from the heart.

I've had the same problem before.

I've thought about the same problem as you.

Can you be friends after a breakup?

OK. How not.

But where is your face?

The key is to face.

Does she like you?

Do you still love him?

are the keys to face.

2 people should open their hearts.

Let's talk about it. Fix everything.

What do you think, tell her.

Want to be friends? Okay, tell her.

To be friends is to confess in advance.

You should confess to her.

Got it? True testimonials, hope.

Let's reinvest in another girl.

It's not that you don't care about her, but you think it's a lift. I wonder how I think about my existence.

Then love her well, don't find a way to get rid of her!

She was very good to me, she was very suspicious, and every time it was because of her inexplicable problems and her inexplicable anger that triggered "There are two major advantages to quarreling: one is to hear the truth. When quarrelling, people are impulsive in their words, think and say anything, and pour out the words that are usually hidden and tucked out like beans poured into a bamboo tube.

This is good for understanding the other person's true thoughts, so that they can explain, adjust, and improve their behavior after a fight. Second, it is conducive to the catharsis of negative emotions.

When people get along with each other, it is advisable to express and communicate with each other, and affirm and acknowledge each other in a timely manner, so as to meet and understand each other and live in harmony. Many people don't recognize this and think that relationships are different from other relationships. Some people think that living together should know or experience each other's thoughts and emotions, without opening their mouths to explain or explain, but in fact, who can connect with each other?

In the end, it often causes misunderstanding and unpleasantness. There are also some people who think that if they talk about how to love and miss each other, or praise and praise each other, they will feel embarrassed and numb, and the result is that they deliberately avoid, omit intimate language and praise and affirmation of each other, even if the other party does not feel your feelings for him, but also reduces the cultivation and nourishment of each other's emotions. Generally speaking, the woman needs the man to express his affection for her from time to time.

Otherwise, it is easy to cause inner uneasiness. When this emotion accumulates to a certain extent, they will use nagging, complaining, resisting, irritable, angering, etc., to feedback their dissatisfaction to the other party, and the conflict will erupt. And the other party often doesn't understand this, thinking that the girl is messing around, which further aggravates the contradiction.

This is one of the common reasons for many "unclear" quarrels and divorces.

Therefore, if you want to have a happy life, you must not only love in your heart, but also put the word "love" on your lips. As Dale Carnegie said, "Never get married until you have learned how to say clever and flattering things." ”

Since you don't love it, leave it quickly, that's the best and the least hurtful way to hurt her.

Maybe she's the same as you think.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Since you have tried your best to cherish it, but you still can't get back what you have lost, then you should learn to give up. Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go and let them pass away with the wind of memory!

You will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life and feel the warmth of the sun.

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

It's hard to try to forget love. It's even harder to forget a loved one.

What does it mean to forget? After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily, and there are no distractions in your heart.

But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

To deliberately forget is to forget. Cause.

In order to care about whether he still remembers, he often reminds himself to forget, but in fact, every time he reminds, he remembers him more deeply. So don't try to forget the rotten person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place where the smoke of the city can't reach. That's a beautiful place in your heart......

There's a saying.

You don't have to marry someone you love, and you don't have to marry someone you like. "

To live a life, you have to find a man and a woman who can live life.

You don't have to find someone you like.

Think for yourself how life would be if tightness is love

In today's era, everything needs money, happiness, struggle, career, and a happy family

Maybe you and she are not people of the same world

Let go of her hand happily and say in a chic manner: I wish you happiness

The opposite of love is not to hate and forget.

You still care about it

So will not forget.

If you really want to forget.

Just keep yourself busy and arrange a lot of things to do, whether it's work or play. Give yourself no time to think about anything else. Tire your body a little, lie down and fall asleep right away!

Don't be alone, be sure to be with friends.

Time will take away your worries.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; Also prepare for rent because he loves you, and he ,... when he turns your interest into his interestOr because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find.

If there are such people around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

the world. on, each.

Everyone has one. Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.

If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.

Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love is perfect after the beginning of the test.

If you don't love in your heart, you don't love.