Please help me with guidance, what should I do? 10

First of all, you have to understand that human feelings are sometimes uncontrollable. So those practices of your girlfriend are understandable in a sense. When two people are together, if there is no tolerance and understanding, then the maintenance of pain or a categorical breakup are the two final ways out.

Actually, according to your account, it is clear that his feelings for his ex-boyfriend are still there, and, so far, she loves him more than you. Such an attitude towards feelings is really hurtful for you. I guess she has something that attracts you, so you don't want to give up easily.

I support you in making the necessary efforts.

You are brave enough to talk to your opponent ... Even if he tells lies and makes your girlfriend think that he has found a new lover, or get married decisively, as long as the relationship between the two of you is really not afraid... Can't wait. There are many dreams at night.

Your happiness is your own grasp, not your family's decision, if you want to find someone with the same heart, even if you get her person, what is the use of not getting her heart? Love is not a sale.

A woman's feelings come out of sleep, and the situation is not good.

Love doesn't have to be all give, sometimes it depends on the object

One is to work hard to practice well, it's not a big deal, not so many people pay attention to you, don't be too self-conscious, for teachers, you are still children, although you are all in college.

The second is that although you talk back, you play well, so it can be regarded as an opportunity for the teacher to remember you, so that if you do well or have the courage to perform, the teacher will have a deeper impression of you. College is different from going to school before, a teacher has a lot to do, and there are many people to teach, and many teachers may not know you after you graduate. In a situation like yours, if you can, come early before class, apologize to the teacher in private, and ask for advice, the teacher will like you very much, and your college life will be very good after getting acquainted with the teacher, believe me.

Third, although I don't know much about you from the HKSI, your current college classmates don't care about each other at all, so if you perform well this time, you can also compete among students, which is also a good thing for you to be elected as a class leader.