Can you talk about why so many people don t want to get married these days?

I think it's normal, I don't want to get married, marriage means living with another person for many, many years without changing my mind, to get used to another person's lifestyle and attitude, to raise children, and I feel that a person is bound.

Obviously, although a person earns a small salary, it is enough to spend, he can live a very relaxed and comfortable life, and he has his own hobbies, why do you have to put a mountain on your back to press yourself, there are more and more channels for sex to obtain, and many people don't like children very much, they don't care about the continuation of the bloodline or anything, why bother to find guilt for themselves in order to conform to the herd.

If a man doesn't want to get married, he probably hasn't met someone he wants to protect for the rest of his life. Or maybe I've already met it, but I don't have enough self-consciousness.

Marriage needs to be paid, the bride price of the house causes a lot of pressure, and the family has children to carry the responsibility, sometimes these people feel overwhelmed.

Several of my friends are 35+ years old, but they are not married. What they all have in common is that they have a house and a car, they have an upper-middle income, and they like to travel everywhere. Also, it is interesting to note that most of them prefer to be clean and well-organized.

Marrying a wife and raising children will affect the quality of life of an ordinary person, and the pressure will be great. It's not cost-effective, and it doesn't feel lonely to be alone. I'd rather save money and live in a good nursing home than live with my peers.

Fear of being entrusted. I'm afraid that my bad habits will make her angry, I'm afraid that she will marry and do what I don't want to do, but I can't do anything, I'm afraid of my own childishness, I'm afraid that she will give birth to a child for me, I'm afraid that I'll fall in love with other people for so long in my life, I'm afraid that I'm not in good health, and I will leave a person who once relied on me with no one to rely on.

Everyone's reasons are different, I wasn't ready to get married. one's own psychological material, including whether you meet the other half who wants to get married.

Knowing that you are not a very good person, it must have taken a lot of courage to marry me. I hope she won't regret this decision in the rest of her life, but I probably won't change it for her. I felt that the promise of marriage was too heavy for my life to bear.

I have a stable income, a car and a house. On average, I change a young lady every month, and I am the main one, and the expenses are much less than that of love and marriage, and I can travel wherever I want. I asked if this kind of life would still exist after marriage.

I believe that for many people, they all hope to be able to get married, because we all know that marriage is happy, and it is a very beautiful me.

Especially when we meet a person we like very much, then many people will want to be with each other, so they will take the initiative to care for each other and love each other, because they hope that through their own initiative and initiative, they can be better together, and eventually let them have a happy and beautiful marriage.

Although love is happy and very beautiful, we see that there are many people now, they don't want to fall in love, and they don't want to get married, so some people want to know why many people don't want to get married now.

First of all, because there are a lot of people, especially young people, in the state now. They don't have a very good job, and even the job is very precarious. We all know that if young people don't have a stable job, then it is difficult for them to have love, so they hope that they can have more time and energy to work hard to improve themselves, because only in this way can they be more excellent, and only in this way can they find their own love in the future.

Of course, we see that for more people, they don't want to get married because there are a lot of girls now, they are very realistic, especially in love, they require boys to have a good job and a good family, and when two people get along together, they also want boys to care about girls in every way. If it's a little bit bad, then girls don't want to be with boys. So we see that although there are many boys who want to be with girls, they can only choose to be single because they can't meet the requirements and conditions of girls.

So we do see a lot of people now, and they don't fall in love and don't want to get married. Therefore, we hope that as girls, they should still return to the essence of love, only two people's mutual care and love will allow girls to have their own love, and for boys, we hope that they will work harder, because insisting on them to work harder can make them more excellent. Only when they are excellent can the two of them find a suitable person for themselves, so that they can finally get along better together, and they can also have a better and happier marriage.

More and more people don't want to get married, that's the development of the times, the progress of concepts, and more and more people follow their hearts.

The person who suits him and can make each other feel happy, it is too difficult to meet after all.

To be honest, getting married may not be as good as imagined, but when we are young, we don't have to be unwilling to love, and we just choose not to get married. Wang Xiaosen.

For marriage, we don't have to compromise, but we don't have to reject it, we still have to look for it and try our best to make ourselves able to experience it.

The road of life, that is originally an experience, a person may be trapped in the acres of freedom, but two people, can better experience a fireworks.

Nowadays, the post-00s are generally afraid of marriage, and there are several reasons to consider.

1. The original family has brought a certain negative impact, so that the next generation of young people have an obvious sense of rejection, fear and anxiety about the choice of marriage.

2. I have a certain social insight and understanding of marriage, and I am unwilling to bring marriage into my life, and I hope to spend all my time pursuing freedom and dreams.

3. Many people feel that after entering marriage, they are worried that they will not be able to play the role of the family, and at the same time, they will not be able to take care of their career and family, and they are in a dilemma.

4. Affected by the surrounding environment, the failed marriage cases around you make you more aware of the nature of marriage, and then postpone marriage, or not get married.

Everyone will face the choice of marriage in this life without accidents.

In the past, marriage was "the order of the parents, the words of the matchmaker", and before you had time to consider the choice, you have become someone else's husband or wife, so even if you are not happy after marriage, you will manage the marriage with your heart and maintain the integrity of your whole life.

However, in the present new era, a society with a fairly developed information technology, people's living standards have also been greatly improved, and there is no longer the previous state of not having enough to eat, and love and marriage are no longer bound by the orders of parents.

In this era of freedom and personal improvement, people will have more self-needs in the choice of marriage and love, such as appearance, character, work and other considerations.

However, as our living standards have improved and changed greatly compared to the past, more problems in social pressure, job competition, family economy and personal living space have followed.

Therefore, when it comes to marriage, more and more people will be more cautious in their attitudes, and "fear of marriage" will naturally become a very normal reaction.

I believe that each of us is very looking forward to love, because love is happy, but also very beautiful, if we can meet the person we like, then many people are looking forward to love. Because they want to be able to be with the person they like, so that in the end they can have a happier and better love.

But now we see a lot of people, especially some young people, they don't fall in love, and they don't want to get married, so some people want to know why more and more young people, they don't want to get married.

First of all, because of these young people, they themselves realize that they are not as good as they are. Because they know that if they want to have a good love, then they have to be more excellent, so they are very positive and very hard-working, because they hope that through their own efforts, they can make themselves more excellent and exciting, so that they can finally have a good love.

Of course, we see that for more people, the reason why they don't get married is because there are a lot of girls now, and they are very realistic. Especially in love. We see a lot of girls, and they all have high expectations of boys.

They always demand good jobs and good families from boys. And it also requires boys to be able to care for and take care of girls wholeheartedly. If the boy can't do this, then the girl absolutely doesn't want to be with the boy.

So we see that in fact, many boys want to be well with girls, but because they can't meet or meet the requirements and conditions of girls, they can only choose to be single.

So we see that there are a lot of young people now, and they don't fall in love and they don't get married. Therefore, we hope that young people should return to the essence of love, especially for some girls, although material conditions are also very important, but in fact, the relationship between two people is more important, only two people can care for and love each other. In this way, they can get along better together, and it is the mutual care and love of two people, so that young people can eventually find someone suitable for themselves, and eventually they can have a happy and beautiful marriage.

Nowadays, more and more people are starting to live a single life, but for some people who are in love, although it is very sweet during the relationship, they will have a sense of avoidance when they consider getting married. And for many people, they just want to fall in love and don't want to get married, because marriage is a more important thing, and it does not mean that it is a problem of one person, but a problem of two families, so many people will choose not to get married in many cumbersome accidents.

1. Marriage is not free.

For some people who are in love, the most important reason why they don't want to get married is the unfreedom of marriage. For example, after giving birth to a child, there will definitely be the problem of raising a child, so which party chooses to give up the job? Or rather, hiring a babysitter.

But it doesn't seem to be fair to children, for the cumbersomeness of marriage and the urging of parents, many people will choose not to get married, because marriage will lose freedom, and after marriage, there will be more pressure for the happy life of the family.

2. Enjoy the life of being single.

There are also many reasons for breaking up, in fact, one reason is that they don't want to get married, many hand-only people have been in love for 5 years, 6 years or even 10 years, and in the end they will choose to give up when they want to get married. Because they are used to being single, they are not willing to be bound by the family and change the current state of life, for a variety of reasons, there are more people who just want to fall in love, do not want to get married, and falling in love is a process for both parties to enjoy happiness, and after marriage is the responsibility of maintaining a whole family.

3. It's easier to fall in love.

It should be said that the process of falling in love is relatively easy, and both men and women will do something for each other's happiness. However, if you get married, it may be more cumbersome about life and the courtesy of your parents, and the correspondence of relatives is more troublesome, so many people are very satisfied with their current life and do not want to break the balance of their original life, so they do not want to choose to get married.

Why do more and more people not want to get married now? It is because there are some young people who have high requirements for their love and marriage concept, and they are perfect, and there are some people who are more ambitious, and they have a career first and then a family, and some people are because the economic conditions cannot be reached.

There are many pressures in married life that you don't want to choose to face, and it is natural that you will be prone to this kind of avoidance or evasive attitude.

The society will be more and more Hengchunda, and the bottom will be harder, because wealth will always be in the hands of a few people, since life is not easy, how can there be leisure and leisure to pursue married life. To put it simply, getting married is too expensive.

Because there is no money, no house and no car.

The reason for late marriage - the material conditions for marriage are not mature.

Some people say that most of the post-80s and post-90s generations now have almost nothing before the age of 30, except for the rich second generation. Therefore, housing, employment, income and other issues all make them feel pressured. It is not a simple thing to want to get married, life needs money, and money is needed in all aspects, but your material conditions are not mature at all, how can you give the other party a stable life, how to get married.

The reason for late marriage - the mental age is unbearable to withstand the pressure after marriage.

Now the post-90s generation, most of them are only children, these people have obtained the greatest love from their parents, although these loves make them happy, but for them, not all of them can play a positive role. Sometimes love can restrain a person's ability to be independent and weaken a person's ability to endure, because they have lived under the protective wing of their parents for a long time, and they rarely have the opportunity to face some of the difficulties that life brings on their own. There are many post-80s and post-90s who have depression after marriage, and most of them are hungry because they are unable to bear the pressure of life after marriage, and overestimate their ability to bear it.

The reason for late marriage - the state of work restricts married life.

Nowadays, college students are everywhere, and the problem of employment has become a huge problem, and the competition in the workplace is intensifying day by day. Therefore, many post-80s and 90s generations not only have to face low salaries, but also endure huge work pressure. Overtime is the norm that we are accustomed to, and we don't have much time for ourselves.

In this case, even if they get married, the husband and wife will not have any time to get along.

The reason for late marriage - less gathering and more separation.

It is said that as long as two people love each other, no matter how far away they are, it is not a problem. However, the reality is that distance is a big problem for them. The marriage of two people must be based on life at the beginning, if both of them do not live together and do not know each other well enough, how can they believe that they can manage their marriage well.