As a senior leftover girl, how did you get leftover?

I'm timid.,I won't have contact with the opposite sex.,The friends of the opposite sex who come into contact with me have become buddies.,In fact, my friends say that I have a good personality.,There's a big grinning side and a sensitive and fragile side in my heart.。 I really want to say goodbye to being single, I don't want to celebrate Singles' Day, the whole office is single by myself, others talk about family and children, and I am slowly isolated without a common topic. But he is a person who is very stubborn about feelings, and if he doesn't like it, he can't persuade himself to do it.

My colleagues said that I don't want to choose, I am getting older, it is getting more and more difficult to marry, and I will be a stepmother in the future.

I got divorced at the age of 25, and I should mobilize my relatives and friends to introduce a divorced man. At present, my family told me not to get married, and to go to a nursing home when I am old. They don't think I'm capable of being happy.

Because I do less work, I can't deal with people. And there are small mental problems, my family is more sincere, and I don't want to pit others. Every night, I would think that Tang Jiacheng liked me.

It may not be possible to get married. ‍‍

A rural girl, with an ordinary appearance and an ordinary figure, has never really been in love so far. When I was in college, I liked my high school classmates and was rejected. I also want to say goodbye to being single after graduating and working, but I have a narrow circle, I know few people, and I am a cold person, so I also try to go on a blind date and meet new people, but I always want to escape after contact. ‍‍

I had a lot of unpleasant experiences in my childhood. Maybe it's because I don't want to take responsibility, I don't have the confidence to find a soul mate, I don't want to live together, I don't want to take responsibility, the responsibility of raising children. I feel that raising children is the most difficult and heavy thing in the world.

I've never been in a relationship, I've had social phobia, I grew up like to be alone, I'm afraid of contact with others, when I was a kid I used to lock myself in my room by myself and play with dolls, role-playing with myself, I could play a day without saying a word to anyone else.

Because I don't look good, I met a scumbag when I was young, and I don't think it's a shame not to get married, on the contrary, I hate those who laugh at older leftover women or leftover men at every turn, or laugh at others, and hope that kind of person will be unlucky one day.

From my own point of view, I am emotionally indifferent, pessimistic about marriage, and feel that the trouble of children is a drag. I want to live quietly alone, I want a kitten to plant some flowers and plants, and I want to be a Taoist aunt in the past, but my parents are still there and I can't. All I can do is work hard.

No matter how bad the marriage relationship is, there is a marriage relationship, I can only watch other people's marriage relationship movies to enjoy the happiness of celibacy, and the person who can make me unhappy before I must love myself and enjoy the happiness of celibacy.

I didn't find the right one, and being single is the least respect for my own view of love.

The leftover women feel that they are very good!!

A heart that wants to marry a rich man.

Introduction: I don't know when it began, but more and more women were called older leftover women. It is because these women did not marry at a relatively early age, and they are getting older, so there is such a collective name.

So for these older leftover women, how do you look at the situation of these people?

If a girl does not get married and can keep it all the time, it means that the girl has a certain economic foundation.

Target. This is also the state embodied by most older girls, although many girls say that they should get married, for example, they are almost 25 years old, but they have never been married, and they have no love partners who can be married. But these girls are living well, the economic conditions are enough, and some girls have already done it in their personal lives, they have cars and houses, and they are doing well in their careers.

So some people feel sorry for it, but they think it is also reflected from the sideThe financial independence of these older leftover girls and the strength of these girls

Some people feel that the reason why older leftover women have not been able to enter the paradise of marriage as soon as possible is because of the criteria for choosing a mate.

It's too high. It is true that there will be some girls who are getting older and older, and with the increase in experience, they can't look down on it, and the average boy will have higher requirements for the other half. However, in general, boys who meet the criteria for mate selection are not able to look at older girls, so it creates a dilemma.

But I also know some older leftover women, who have a relatively indifferent attitude towards marriage and love. Therefore, I feel that the speculation about older leftover women in society is still biased.

When I heard the older leftover women, it was actually a little derogatory, but in fact, these people were not leftover, but made a suitable choice. This choice is suitable for one's inner thoughts and can be in line with one's own development. So for such girls, there should be more respect.

In fact, there is no need to worry, they themselves are already very good, but because fate has not arrived, they can marry after a certain age.

It's very difficult and embarrassing, because now many people think that leftover women are very bad, and there must be something wrong with such people not getting married.

I think they're in a very difficult situation because they're very good, but you can't find a better partner to match them.