What should I do if my daughter who is about to go to college is too na ve?

According to my personal experience and experience, there are two main things that need to be done in college, trial and error and positioning, because you are still a student after all, no one will criticize you excessively in college, and you will be tolerated and protected to the maximum. Therefore, you have to shape a complete self through full experimentation and experience. You can make mistakes as much as you want, you may be withdrawn or wooden, but you can open your heart as much as possible to communicate with the people around you; You may be clumsy or confused, but be bold enough to take on tasks that you think you can exercise.

A student who has been in college for four years, only the first year may have a lot of time spent on student activities, and if you waste your youth in a department that you don't like, you have been facing every job with a coping attitude. People always say that you can learn a lot by joining a student event, but there is no direct connection between the two. The real cause and effect relationship is that you really want to do this thing well, and in the process of studying, you find a lot of things that you are lacking in, and you think of a lot of things that you didn't think of before, so you learn a lot.

Rather than equating joining a student organization with learning something, as many people say.

Study hard, don't fall in love, I don't know why so many people ask you to fall in love. This should be done before college. In the future, there will be opportunities to fall in love, and many people miss this age, and they will never have the opportunity to study seriously.

Put your studies first and your grades first. College students are also students, and students cannot abandon their vocation, and at the same time, this is also the basis for their future professional work, and it is also a strong guarantee for them to continue their education in graduate school.

No matter how good or bad your relationship with your roommate is, don't be easily influenced, and the person who goes with the crowd will be forgotten by everyone. It is impossible to achieve that everyone is a top student, but the most basic learning still has to be completed, and there are people who fail courses everywhere, which means that it is easy to learn badly.

Knowing one or two close friends, excellent ones are not only taking you to play games, but also taking you on the right route, meeting one or two seniors in the same department, letting you know what to do at what stage of college, and teaching you some experience.