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What do men and women lose after abortion?

People are fearless because of ignorance, make mistakes because of fearlessness, have been in contact with some women with a history of abortion, without exception, weak, weak and sickly, career blocked, work is not smooth, financial luck is not good, more importantly, there is a partner will break up, there may be a marriage will face family breakup, a little good fortune may not be seen for the time being, but most of them are very unsmooth, women have abortion, the wear and tear on the body is very large, a woman has no history of abortion, in fact, from the face, you can see that a woman's self-respect can have a future, Only by being responsible for yourself can you have a happy and fulfilling life in the future.

When a child is reincarnated in your house, the Buddha often says in the scriptures that there are four kinds of fate, repaying gratitude, revenge, debt collection, and debt repayment, and he will come to your house, and he will not come to your house without these four relationships. If you come to repay the favor, this is the filial son and grandson of your family, you kill him, the favor becomes revenge, and the next time I come to your house, I will take revenge; If it's revenge, you kill him, and then add hatred to revenge, this matter is in big trouble, so you must know this cause and effect. If the person has three or five abortions, there will be a lot of imps following him, and you don't feel it when you're lucky, and when you're lucky, the imps come and you're sick, and at that time you're getting some strange diseases, and the treatment has no effect.

Doctors can only treat physical diseases, but doctors can't treat diseases that are unjust, so this is a very troublesome thing. Therefore, if you are pregnant and decide not to have an abortion, you must take good care of the child, and you must treat him with compassion and love, which is to repay the kindness, it will be more filial, and the grievance will be reduced, and it will be resolved.

The child is an official star for the father, and it also represents the boss and material wealth in the fate of the five elements. Therefore, whether an abortion occurs intentionally or unintentionally, it is an indication of harm to one's material wealth. The consequences of this behavior will manifest themselves at a later time, usually in the form of illness, loss of money, and in severe cases, short-lived life.

For the mother who has an abortion, abortion is not only to hurt her body, but also to hurt her own flesh and bones, but also to hurt her own god of fortune (the child is the mother's god of fortune, in ancient times it was often said that women are more expensive than children), the god of fortune is also the fundamental force to solve the disease and go to the disaster, just like the medicine for the disease, if the woman has an abortion, the most obvious result is that the immune system is weak, easy to get sick, and it is difficult to get good medicine if you are sick, so you must not take it lightly.

So to avoid this kind of thing, abortion not only hurts your own flesh and bones, hurts your spouse, but also harms your own happiness. For couples who have already had such a thing, they should sincerely repent and make up for their mistakes with practical actions. Practical actions include caring for other people's children, adopting abandoned babies, releasing animals, taking the vows of not killing, eating a vegetarian diet, doing good deeds, etc., and there are more personal case articles on the Buddhist website, I sincerely hope that you will benefit and become conscious.

Tell her seriously that her life is in danger.

1. If the girlfriend chooses it for her own physical reasons, or after the doctor's persuasion after the examination, then you have to face the difficulties with your girlfriend, so the reason for the girlfriend's decision must be asked clearly, and don't take it for granted to make conclusions, so that misunderstandings will occur.

2. If the girlfriend does it out of her own thoughts, that is, more selfish thoughts, then sit down with the girlfriend or even the parents of both parties to talk, ask the reason, if the family's financial situation allows, and the girlfriend still insists on doing so, you should consider whether the relationship between the two people should continue, after all, the man wants to have children, and the woman insists on not to, this is an irreconcilable problem.

To sum up, the key is the reason why the girlfriend insists, if the reason is reasonable, it is not unacceptable, but if the reason is unreasonable, you must think about whether the life goals and values of the two people are in line, otherwise even after marriage, there will still be many problems.

Ways to convince your girlfriend to have a baby:

1. If you want to have a child, you still have to get married first, you can propose to your girlfriend, and after you get married, you can naturally have children, and you can also realize your dream of being a father.

3. If you are very good, women want to have children, so cultivate yourself to be an excellent man, and your girlfriend will have children, of course, you must be sincere to your girlfriend.

It is better to marry her so that the children can be kept as a matter of course. If you don't get married, you will kill the child. Suppose you break up after the child is born, it will have a certain impact on the child's growth, and it will also leave a shadow in your heart.

If you want to keep it, it depends on whether you can meet the conditions she wants, if you do, and she is sincere to you, then she will definitely keep the child. On the other hand, if the other party is not sincere to you and does not want to walk hand in hand with you, then no matter how much you keep her, she will not leave the child. If she is really angry with you, it depends on your current living and economic conditions, as well as your age and work.

If all this is okay, then she will definitely keep the child, and there should be no concern about saying that she wants to kill the child. If your economic conditions are really not good, relatively poor, and the work situation is not optimistic, then she wants to kill the child because she is worried that she will not be able to give the child a good living environment in the future, and she will not be able to extricate herself, and life is better than death, so she has such an idea. You can communicate with her well, care more about her, and maybe make a difference.

Do your duty, say what you have to say, either get married, or give up, nothing else, have this determination to talk to her again, raise them for a lifetime, you pour everything you can give, I am lucky, I lose my life!

If your girlfriend is pregnant with your child during the relationship, it is also very contradictory to believe that your girlfriend is also very conflicted, if she wants to kill the child, you can give him a promise in the future, or you can immediately put marriage on the agenda, believing that after his future is guaranteed, he will change his mind about killing the child.

If you really love her, you must save her and the child, first of all, you must give your girlfriend a sense of security, get married as soon as possible, and also give the child a legal identity. Then you have to get the support of your girlfriend's parents, so that you can get half the result and win back your girlfriend's heart as soon as possible.

First of all, you have to make sure that you are capable enough to raise this child, and if there is, you propose, and there will be not so many things to do when you get married.

Have a good discussion with your girlfriend, if you really love each other and are rushing to get married, you can not beat the shedding.

If your girlfriend wants to get rid of the child between you, then you can ask him why he chose to get rid of the child. After all, it is his own flesh and blood, and he must be reluctant to be easily defeated, he may have his unspeakable secrets and some special reasons.

Do it, have a chat, ask her why, and see what exactly is causing her not to want children. If you know, it's easy to do.

<> giving birth to a child is a major event in life, birth, old age, sickness and death, life is the first priority. Before you are born, you must think about this clearly, this is related to the growth of your child, but also about your own growth. Some people think that children are really beautiful, and children make people soft, warm, and powerful.

And some people think that children mean trouble and blame, and they are worried that they will become "white-eyed wolves", so they choose not to have children. The purpose and meaning of having a baby

1. Inherit the family lineage, raise children and prevent old age. This is a more traditional view, and most of the people of the older generation hold such a view. I feel that giving birth to children is to pass on the ancestry, and when I am old, I can have someone to support the elderly.

2. Pregnancy and childbirth enable human beings to reproduce and live endlessly. So some people hope that when they grow old, there will be a continuation of life and continue to live in the world.

3. Many people say that life is incomplete without children. In addition to playing the role of a daughter and a wife, a person must also be a mother and experience the happiness of having children. Life is complete when you have children. Raising a child to grow up will also bring a great sense of accomplishment.

4. Some people think that children are the joy of life and the meaning of life. The wife and children are hot on the kang, so you don't have to worry about everything.

5. A woman who is in love often wants a crystallization of love that belongs to two people. If you love him, bear him a child.

6. The traditional concept is that a family with children is perfect, and a marriage without children will break up sooner or later. However, the existence of children is not only a kind of reconciliation for feelings and families, but also a test.

7. Forced by the world and the pressure of parents. When you reach a certain age, your parents, relatives, and friends are asking: Why haven't you had a child yet?

Being born too late is not good for your health. Look at how cute the kid next door is! If you don't have children, your home doesn't look like a home, so let's give birth quickly!

8. Go with the flow. Some people say that children are a gift from God, and if you have it, you will not force it, and everything will go naturally.

9. Participate in the growth of children's lives and let them have a wonderful life.

10. Some people believe that in this world, nothing belongs to them in their original form. Only a child is a living organism created entirely by himself.