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Let those things that have been given up, let it go, have already put it away, and if you don't let it go in your heart, after a long time, it will become a heart disease and bring trouble to yourself! First of all, let go of your heart, and you will be happy!
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Grasp the key problems, arrange the things of the day in the order of important and unimportant, according to the order of the important ones to do first, the unimportant ones to do later, the important problems are solved, and the other problems will be solved...
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In life, there is a give-and-take.
Giving up something when necessary is to make the remaining power stronger.
And it is you who will eventually return to you, not yours, and sooner or later you will lose it again.
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There must be gains and losses Don't care too much about what you lose Only when you lose can you get better Thank you Remember.
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You see if there is enough time, maybe by the time you make up your mind, you don't need to decide, and you have missed the best time to decide
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A few words for you: there are gains and losses.
The lesser of two pains.
I can't bear to let the child trap the wolf.
Inevitable misfortunes are better to happen later than to happen sooner.
It would be better to say if there were concrete examples.
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Then don't give up, give yourself another chance, and don't regret it.
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Pick the most important and discard the others.
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Calm down and seriously analyze the current situation.
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If you are unwilling, it depends on whether it is worth it or not.
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If you don't give up, it's harder to go down better.
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You won't regret picking one.
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Let go completely, love please love deeply.
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What decisions were made and how they were made.
Kiss hello, have made rational decisions, and make decisions to do this: identify problems and goals; determine decision-making criteria; assign weights to standards and draw up schemes; analysis protocols; choose a scenario; Implement the plan and evaluate the effectiveness of decision-making. Decision-making refers to the strategy or method of decision, which is the process by which people come up with ideas and make decisions about various events.
Decision-making is a complex process of thinking and operation, which is the process of information collection, processing, and finally making judgments and drawing conclusions. Decision-making is a behavior that is prevalent in people's political, economic, technological, and everyday lives; Decision-making is an activity that often occurs in management; Decision-making is the meaning of decision, it is to achieve a specific goal, according to the objective possibility, on the basis of possessing certain information and experience, with the help of certain tools, skills and methods, the factors that affect the realization of the goal are analyzed, calculated and judged to be the best, and then the decision is made on future actions.
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Whether it's work or life, we all need to make decisions. How can we make better decisions? In the book "Grotesque Brain Science: Self-Control Techniques to Overcome Anxiety, Confusion, and Procrastination", author Gary Marcus introduces 4 methods.
First, as far as possible, consider whether there are other viable options. Studies have shown that "virtual thinking" is very important, meaning that we should not just focus on the current situation, but also think carefully about what else is likely to happen. The more attention we put into our ideas and possibilities beyond what we care about most, the better.
Second, at any time, if you're tired or have something else on your mind, try not to make important decisions. Thinking when you're physically and mentally exhausted is no different from driving after drinking. Because when we're tired, we rely more on intuition than on reason.
The same is true when we are depressed.
Third, imagine that your decision might be spot-checked by someone else. Research shows that if people are given reasons for their answers, they appear more impartial and objective than those who are not prepared for it. When it comes to taking responsibility for our own decisions, we tend to put more cognitive effort into it, study the information in more detail and thoughtfulness, and make more complex decisions accordingly.
Fourth, pick the key points for decision-making. Sometimes we make decisions that cost us psychologically and even materially, and we can't wait until we have all the information and time to think carefully about each contingency and how to deal with it. Therefore, you want to save your time and thinking for the most important decisions.
The above are the four decision-making methods introduced in the book "Grotesque Brain Science", I hope it will inspire you.
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