Why do people always know to cherish after they have lost?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-10
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    People say that they only know how to cherish when they lose it.

    It's useless to regret it, and it's also delusional if you don't want it.

    It's smart to cherish the present!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you don't know what regret is in your life, that's a pity.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe that's what most people think, but I don't know what it is. Because they will all remember the happiness of being together after they have lost. Only then did I know the good times at that time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because everyone has a characteristic that cannot be said to be an advantage or a disadvantage. Cheap!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Only after losing can we know how to regret it, and only after regretting can we know how to cherish what we have lost.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe, because people are so cheap.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The authorities were fascinated and watched from the sidelines. Only when you change from the protagonist to the supporting role can you see the so-called truth!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    People, I don't know when I'm happy, and I don't remember it until I'm in pain, and I agree with what my friend said above, cheap

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The so-called "I don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain" is this truth.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There was once a sincere love that I didn't cherish. When I lost it, I regretted it. The classic lines in the Supreme Treasure are tear-jerking.

    This sentence reflects that the son wants to raise but does not treat, and there is no regret medicine in the world.

    Why do people know to cherish after losing, this is a problem that people have been facing, why do they know how to cherish after losing? Yesterday's time is gone, and you will remember, if only yesterday did something.

    First of all, it is related to the cognition of relationships, in the process of getting along with people, people often unconsciously label and classify objects, for example, this is an intimate person, this is an outsider, etc., for different types of people we will have different behaviors, the more intimate people we will include them in ourselves, often see such a statement, we are always polite to outsiders, but often lose their temper with the closest people, this is because people maintain such a concept, how can intimate people mind their emotions, We will ignore it like air.

    When I lost my classification, I changed, and suddenly I felt that he was so important to me.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because we don't cherish it too much when we have it, and once we lose it, it means that we will regret it deeply. In fact, the truth is very simple, and it also profoundly illustrates a problem, it is very important for you to understand the existence of that person after you lose.

    When people get something or something or get along with someone for a long time, after years of baptism, people will have feelings or complexes for these things, these people or things, and they will have a sense of interdependence. By integrating one's own heart into it, people will treat certain things with their sincerity and sincerity, and it also contains too much effort of the people, and people have paid a lot and contributed a lot to these things, so there is a sense of loss in the hearts of the people. There will be a big gap between people's hearts and them, and the complex that has been enjoyed for many years will come to naught and disappear.

    I can't bear the hurt that loss brings to people's hearts. It is then that people realize that what is lost is not something, something or someone, but the emotions and complexes that have been with each other for many years. Only then do you feel precious, and only then will the tremor of the heart be triggered, and the spiritual sustenance at this time will lose its direction.

    That's why you will know how to cherish it after you lose it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is a saying: you don't know the blessing when you are in the midst of blessings.

    Many people are happy people in the eyes of others, and their husbands or wives are very good to him, shushing the cold and asking for warmth, and ...... before and after the saddle

    However, in his eyes, he just doesn't like it, all kinds of faults, all kinds of faults, what vegetables are not fresh, what fruits are not washed and peeled! What clothes are not neatly arranged! What a late cook!

    What salt is too much and oil is less, what children are crying without coaxing! What ......The more docile and virtuous the husband and wife, the more critical the other party is. Bones should also be picked out of the eggs.

    Because, what he saw was that other people's wives and husbands were dressed beautifully, other people's wives and husbands could know all kinds of circles, how amorous other people's wives and husbands were, how well-behaved and sensible other people's children were, and how delicious and ......delicious other people's meals were

    Therefore, there will be such a group of people, for the person in their own family, compared with others, find all kinds of faults, and feel that they are married to such a wreck?

    A few tosses and a few fuss.

    finally left this person who didn't like it at all.

    can be with that amorous person, all kinds of love and all kinds of sweetness.

    It's a pity that similar sweetness will be slapped to death on the beach by real-life firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

    Real life is still inseparable from firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

    All the goodness of that docile and virtuous man began to emerge again.

    Only then did I know that what I lost is what I should really cherish.

    There is a saying that in marriage, whoever marries has regrets. Not without reason.

    Because, people can't be perfect.

    And some people are striving for perfection at heart.

    Therefore, he will lose himself in the pursuit of perfection.

    In marriage, the most important thing is to accept each other's imperfections.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    People are like this, it is always the best to get the turn, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving their luck, when they realize who is really worth cherishing, but things have changed, and people have gone. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

    There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they lose, we should cherish the Chunhu people around us, don't lose an opportunity because of others, lose a lover, then we will lose a lot.

    In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

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