Just be kind to me materially, but ignore my feelings mentally.

Men also need love, have you ever thought that he didn't care about you, did you care about him, these are all mutual, and they also affect each other. Love is not to care about what the other person gives, but to care about the distractions that the other person gives you. In the same way, if you can't get what you want here, you can also go to find someone who can satisfy you together, because everyone has a different way of expressing their love, and even some people won't show it, so don't think too much when you are with these men, and your heart will be tired if you think too much.

If two people are playing around together, you can say anything, and you won't care about individuals. Slowly change, in fact, how can a word represent all love. Try to be as tolerant as possible together, and you can also change each other, this is the ultimate love.

Since he needs to say it clearly, then you had better tell him everything, especially your feelings, don't always question him, don't take what he says about your feelings, and don't blame him for not guessing your feelings, if you want to understand each other, you have to make things clear, instead of letting others guess all the time.

Well, he may not have been in love, you can say what is in your heart, you can date from time to time, communicate well, and you can see that he is very good to you, you also have to know how to care and be humble, you don't have to think about a lot, happy, satisfied, if you are not happy with him, then the disadvantage is that you can say a lot of it, cherish it, hope.

Then let's be apart for a while, or you can have a long talk to express your opinion, after all, there are some things that he doesn't know if you don't say it.

Actually, from you bai

With his understanding and the words you wrote, you already know how you should make a version, maybe you will be lucky! But I'm blunt, at least he can't change it in a short time! So think carefully!

If you lose him now, you may have a faint reluctance, but it is much better than regretting it for the rest of your life! Because I think now he treats you as a temporary haven and a safe haven, and he is free to do whatever he wants! It's dangerous to go on like this!

If you really can't be petted, if you are really reluctant, then have a good talk with him, explain your thoughts and minds clearly, and see how he expresses his position! Hehe! The above is my personal opinion and is for reference only.

Such, you feel him.

Is it really love you? Those who love you will be devoted to you wholeheartedly. Do you want to be like this for the rest of your life? Why bother.

For yourself, it is not as good as letting go, to find someone who loves you and is good to you wholeheartedly. I know what I said is simple, 2 years is not so easy to separate, but you are worried about being with him, don't you feel bad? Be sure to find someone who loves you more than you love him.

I feel like you should let it go. It's been 2 years, isn't it enough to save him, if you use 2 years to get time, he's still like this, why insist.

A lot of things.

Asking directly will be better than secretly guessing and thinking about it secretly And marriage is still a very important thing after all Doubting his love It is definitely impossible to be happy after marriage Ask clearly If he really has no love for you What if you are reluctant Do you have to wronged yourself to be with a person who has no love for you Only you love him Only you pay for him? If he really loves you, you have to believe in him You have to love each other and trust is a must Sometimes don't be too sensitive, the past is always the past, you are the present.

According to Buddhism, the spirit determines the matter, and the so-called idealism is all idealistic, so the spirit has an influence on the matter. For example, the wind and rain are smooth, which is determined by people's mental strength.

The question for you depends mainly on the attitude of the one of you who is the person.

In modern society, marriage needs to be the right person, otherwise there will be various contradictions after marriage. It is useless to be mentally worthy, a man needs to have the ability to support his family, and it is impossible to eat soft rice.

If she's a material girl, then don't chase it. Because in the case of material satisfaction, spiritual love alone can't support it for too long, so it's better to be cautious. It's not that girls are all material, but the basic bread must be there, and if you can't give it, it's easy for two people to quarrel because of material conditions.

What does it mean to be mentally worthy, you have a higher education than her.

Judging from your description, it's just playful, and you don't understand your psychological needs, and feelings are fine. You need to adjust your mindset and make it clear to the other person what you need.

It's just too young and childish. Take your time! He knows how to satisfy you materially and says hello! That's it. Don't ask him to change right away, just a little bit.

Your common language is missing.

When you get married, it's firewood, rice, oil, and salt, so much energy is put on you.

You think too much, she just feels that it's good to have more people to chat with, my friend thinks like you, the spare tire that has been green for three years, I gave him green tea and green clothes, and still didn't react, licking the dog until the green became a dog.

Maybe this girl had a crush on you at the beginning and was willing to look at you everywhere. Falling in love is nothing more than two situations, one is to feel good and continue to talk, and the other is to feel inappropriate to terminate further, I think you belong to the second situation, which is nothing, very normal.

In the process of chasing girls, the first thing to pay is sincerity, as long as there is a sincere heart can impress the girl you are chasing, read your description, I see what you lack is sincerity, your care, your love only stays in language, when a boy really loves this girl, he is willing to give everything he has, material is not the only one, but sometimes it is absolutely impossible to lack it, girls may see this, it seems to leave you, you should learn from it, and succeed in the future love.

Maybe this girl didn't have this idea about you at the beginning, but she just fell in love with you, had a common point of view, and talked to you! But you misunderstood and thought she accepted you. Since she says it is impossible now, you should accept the reality and wait for the person who loves you to appear!

Hope it helps you, in general, people chat just to express their feelings in order to gain a sense of identity. Therefore, in the chat, you should be good at standing in the other party's position, perspective, and thinking about problems. When chatting with different opinions, you can express your views tactfully, even if you don't agree with each other, don't ridicule and ridicule each other, otherwise your relationship will become more distant, and at the same time learn to listen, it is also very important, don't just talk about yourself, listening to others more than talking more is beneficial.

In general, people chat just to express their feelings in order to gain a sense of identity. Therefore, in the chat, you should be good at standing in the other party's position, perspective, and thinking about problems. When chatting with different opinions, you can express your views tactfully, even if you don't agree with each other, don't ridicule and ridicule each other, otherwise your relationship will become more distant, and at the same time learn to listen, it is also very important, don't just talk about yourself, listening to others more than talking more is beneficial.

In general, people chat just to express their feelings in order to gain a sense of identity. So be good at putting yourself in the other person's shoes in the chat.

Spare tire! She doesn't really like you.

You should try to find other good places in life without him, I also fell out of love, I felt that the whole sky was about to fall, my heart was empty, I couldn't fill anything, every day was muddy, fortunately it was a summer vacation, so I had plenty of time to adjust myself, now I think about it, it was really stupid at the time. In fact, it can't be said that it is not worth it, because you have at least cared about him, liked him, and you have to bear this pain because you like him, so this is also one of the prices for you to like him. In short, relax and let him go, time will ** everything.

In fact, many things that are painful for you now, you will remember it with a smile in the future, because this is also a part of youth. If you have the conditions, go out for a walk with your bag on your own This trip has nothing to do with life, nothing to do with faith, just for yourself. o( o hope this helps you a little

In fact, it's not a big deal, it's just that you have magnified your dependence on him, thinking that he will never accompany you in the future, you will never feel his breath again, your heart will be very uncomfortable, very sour and astringent, and you want to cry, but you still have to live without him, he is not all you have.

Maybe you can't forget him, so don't forget, but keep it in the depths of your heart, and believe that the person who is really right for you is finding your way.

Maybe you still love him and can't let go of him, then you can also try to be brave again and try to redeem it, but you must have a strong enough heart to face failure.

Time is the best medicine, maybe this is already a very vulgar sentence, many people say, but this sentence is very true, when you are sad, find something to do, don't let yourself be indulged in sadness all the time, so that time will pass quickly, maybe one day in the near future, you will find that for the relationship that once been, you see it, let go.

Physiologically, dopamine, a chemical that produces a sense of well-being, is lost when a person is in love. Psychologically, my self-esteem was traumatized, why did the other person leave me? On a social level, everyone knows that you are together, and suddenly separated, and the gossip of others is unbearable.

Habitually speaking, being separated from someone who has been with you for a long time leads to unaccustomed and sad feelings.

These feelings are very normal, and under normal circumstances, they will be completely fine after a year or two.

You can find the other person's shortcomings, prove that separation is a good thing for you, find someone to talk to, etc., can get good results.

Hope mine is helpful to you.

After falling out of love and breaking up, I think I should first reflect on myself, what is going on, and reflect rationally, what is the problem. If the problem is with the other person, then you are right; If the problem is on your side, you should think about not making the same mistake in the future. After thinking about these things clearly, people will be relieved, and they can travel lightly, and they can re-devote themselves to work and study with full enthusiasm; There's no need to rush to find something or something, fate doesn't come just as it is, as long as you work hard, what should be yours will always be yours, and it's not interesting to force it if it's not yours.

In short, life is fair to everyone, complaining about life is useless, as the so-called "there is nothing in the world, mediocrity disturbs itself", opportunities are always left to those who are prepared, work hard,

It's hard to say what feelings are, and I always thought that two people who really love each other are nothing in the face of any difficulties. Exchange sincerity for truth, grasp the happiness around you, and also grasp the happiness around you. If you are willing to work hard, you will pay off!

Maybe the one you love isn't the right person for you. Don't be too attached to the love that doesn't belong to you, look away, maybe the person who really loves you is in front of you, and happiness is ahead. There are some things that you like no matter how much you don't belong to you, and some things you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, there are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love become a kind of harm.

Letting go is also a beauty! I wish you happiness

Congratulations, you're coming out of the cocoon. Breaking out of the cocoon is painful, and without experiencing this pain, your life cannot be sublimated, and you cannot pay attention to those people and things that are more worthy of your attention. First of all, caring for your parents, caring for your family, and your friends, they are actually more important.

Falling in love is just a process of finding friends, if you can't find it, continue to look for it, or if you are a friend and others don't wait for your friend, it will be in vain! It's just a friend, so keep going!

There is no grass at the end of the world, why care about a green onion.

Falling out of love is not a big deal, if you are out of love, the earth will not stop, and people will not die.

The old ones don't go, how can the new ones come.

Going with the flow together is the best medicine.

The more you want to forget, the more you can't forget.

Sadness, pain, everyone has experiences, but in the end, not all of them have come?

I've cried for two years for a broken love, I've been thinking about him for two years, haven't I come over like that?

So sadness is just a period of transition, and everything will be fine.

If you really can't stand it, listen to some motivational songs or some soft songs, which can comfort your heart.

Don't cry, the other person is not the most suitable person for you. I've been out of love before, but I'm married, so find the right person to marry! There is no way to know and fall in love with each other and want to separate, because falling in love and falling in love is a matter of two people, and it is not an ancient society!

It's okay, everything will be fine, if you can afford to put it down, if you can afford to put it down, if you can't afford to put it down, it is not far to carry weight on the road of life, it is better to send a burden, there are many things waiting for you to do, think more about the future.

Falling out of love takes time to heal, of course it's best to cry, if you want to cry but can't cry, I recommend you to watch a movie, it should be effective, it's called "Millionaire's First Love" in Korea, I hope you get out of the shadow of broken love as soon as possible, come on, you will meet better!