When it comes to love issues, people who have experience in falling in love will definitely be given

Updated on psychology 2024-05-15
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    1. How long does it take for you to establish a relationship when you fall in love?

    You mean that if you are sure of the relationship, I need to investigate it, and I will generally decide whether to choose this person within a month.

    Keep socializing. 2. What did you and her do during this time? (As for what to do, you don't need to go into too much detail, just go into detail.)

    Chat, ** chat, and dating are three situations on it).

    Online chat is when you go to work, ** chat is when you don't go out after work, and going out on a date is mainly to eat and go to the mall to watch electricity.

    Shadow bowling club friends.

    3. When chatting, are you looking for a kind of topic and put forward ten?

    Food, jokes, what happened that day, imagination of future life, travel, common interests, **your favorite movie, talking about friends around you**, ** on some topics, saying some nasty things that people hate, and other trivial things to vent.

    4. When is the best time to chat with her?

    When it's not busy.

    It's good to send a message during the day, you don't need too many words, the other party will be happy when you see it, but you don't need to grind and chirp, and it doesn't matter whether the other party replies or not. For example: miss you. Complete. Hope.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hello. I'm Sanshengtang hp, glad for your question.

    Generally speaking, if it is introduced, the purpose of marriage is stronger, the time will be shorter, about three months of understanding, I think there is no problem to basically determine when to register, hehe... If it is naturally known by everyone, the time to determine is relatively longer, and half a year is about the same.

    As for what to talk about, it's all relatively casual. If there are conditions, it is recommended that you can go to a public place, and if you have the conditions, you can go to drink a drink and sing a song or something, then there will be more topics, and it is not so restrained, which is conducive to everyone's free play, through a period of contact and familiarization, the relationship will be much closer, and then you will be more aware of each other's living habits and preferences, which provides a foundation for further communication, and then gradually closes the net and civilizes the results.

    The above is mine, I hope it can help you. Thank you.

    Wish: Have a happy life and make your wishes come true.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    1. Falling in love determines that the relationship depends on the person.

    Some people can determine a relationship in a day.

    Some people take a long time to get there.

    How did you meet, how did you talk, how did you talk?

    2. If you meet online, you must have chatted more online, and then send text messages to get acquainted with them and then date.

    3. The topic is the most inexplicable, and you have to be the first one.

    For example, the game she likes, the movie she likes, recommend her the **fun** funny joke you like, ask her when you will meet, what are you going to do when you meet, what did you eat today, what do you think of me, 520 today, I have a gift for you, come out and eat together in the evening.

    4. If she also has a crush on you, you can do it at any time, as long as it's not when she's busy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm a year, usually in a long-distance relationship, I only see each other for a long time, and when we meet, I eat, sing, and chat are basically trivial things in life, as well as work. It's when everyone is tired, when they are happy, they chat, and they don't want to pass on their troubles to each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1 month. Chat ** Talk about what you have at home.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Dating should focus more on the experience than the outcome. Falling in love is the process of getting to know each other, testing, selecting, running-in, and ending together? Or breaking up is the purpose of the relationship.

    Life is a journey and you don't care about the destination of the trip, but you don't care about the scenery and the mood of seeing the scenery along the way, and love is like this.

    Don't set goals when you fall in love, it's a run-in process of feelings, three views, and life aspirations. Due to the difference in thinking between men and women, girls are good at sensory intuition to deal with emotional problems, while boys are used to thinking calmly and logically, so the results obtained are different in the way they deal with the same problem.

    Girls pay attention to the process of falling in love and pursue a sense of romance in exquisite rituals. Don't ask for eternity, but ask for vigorous possession.

    Boys fall in love with the result of being able to walk together. Talking about exciting, love, focusing on results and light experience. Believe that love is just a process, and its purpose and result are the only goals to pursue.

    Nowadays, college students' view of love has changed dramatically, and they regard love as an experiential life, focusing on experience rather than results, including cohabitation and early running-in. When it comes to college graduation season, I calmly accept the breakup, and what is unforgettable is the experience of falling in love.

    In fact, experience and results are complementary to each other, and good experiences are the most perfect when they have good results. When it comes to falling in love, you must first focus on energy, go with the flow, and deserve to have and accept whatever the outcome.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The process is more important.

    For the process of falling in love is important or the result is important, nature is the process, it is more important than the result, the best result in the relationship is nothing more than marriage, but marriage can really give each other's feelings a guarantee, is it possible to ensure that you will not like others in the future after getting married, the feelings between each other can not be maintained for a long time, and the marriage can not have any guarantee.

    Emotion and life is a kind of truth, everyone's life has only one result, that is, death, but everyone's life experience and experience are different, which creates our colorful life, this process can ensure that each of our lives is unique, feelings are also the most important, the most important thing is the process and experience, is to destroy the late things you have experienced in this relationship, as long as you have experienced in this relationship, everyone's life has only one result.

    There are many infatuated women in the world, they know that a relationship may not necessarily have results, but his relatives are still happy, not that they do not pay attention to the results, but know how to enjoy the sweetness of a relationship, in a relationship we can feel the happiness, in a relationship, we can feel the happiness is more precious than the result, as long as the future recalls this relationship, will be more cherished.

    For feelings, only a good process can have a good result, feelings always need to be cultivated well, become stronger and stronger, only enjoy the moment, cherish the fate between each other, it is possible to give each other a good result.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In love, many people will think that the process and the result are a multiple-choice question, there is a saying that "you know you can't do it", when facing a love, you can naturally clearly judge whether there is a result or a process, or the process and the result exist at the same time.

    Like those who have experienced failed love, there will be a concept in their hearts that things that do not bear fruit will not begin in the future. It can also be seen that in their minds, "process" and "result" are just a multiple-choice question.

    But in fact, I just want to talk about "process" and "love", in fact, it is not a choice question, the key is what kind of attitude you have towards the process and result in love.

    The beginning of a love is often beautiful, when immersed in the ocean of love and being loved, it is natural to hope that there can be a result with the other party, and you can be with the person you love for a lifetime.

    But in today's era, couples who seem to be together for a lifetime suddenly part ways, even if the love that is valued again, there will still be an uneasy result, at that time what you are pursuing is no longer the result, but in your mind to recall the bits and pieces between you and the other party.

    Whether it is the process or the result, how you choose, in fact, there will be a kind of unease, after all, many times, when you meet someone who really makes you happy, it is difficult for you to really guess what the relationship between you and the other person will be.

    Therefore, the process and the result are not actually multiple choice questions, the key is how you deal with the so-called beautiful process and the final undecidable result.

    There is a certain probability that anything is successful and beautiful, not that you will have good results if you work hard, nor that you will be able to avoid it if you don't experience it, after all, there are some things you really can't avoid.

    I saw a sentence that goes like this: "Most of the time, the reason why you are unhappy in love is actually because you want a good result for everything." ”

    If you don't have a good attitude or energy to experience a good love because of a result, it will only make the love that was originally full of beauty and happiness become an unbalanced balance in your life.

    Whether it is the result or the process, in fact, there is no so-called one is more important, the most important thing is that you must clearly understand that the appearance of some people has brought the best everything to your life, as if some people have loved and have been lucky with the Sutra.

    Love with results does not necessarily have a process, how many people in reality finally choose the marriage, although they have entered the palace of marriage with each other, and may be able to be together for a lifetime, such a result is very beautiful, but it is just a kind of uneasy.

    In the same way, love with a process does not necessarily have results, I thought that your love was full of sweetness and happiness, and you could really be with each other for a lifetime, but in the end it ended in a form of regret.

    Some people are suitable for love, some are suitable for marriage, and some people are only suitable for memories, but no matter what, people must pursue freedom and happiness in this life, and go with their hearts, and they will have no regrets.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Falling in love is important or the process is important, we all know that falling in love is a long process, in the face of the future, in fact, many people can not guarantee it.

    I think it's important to tremble both, and love should have a perfect ending both in terms of process and outcome, or I think it's a waste of time to fall in love.

    Some people fall in love with the purpose of getting married, while some people fall in love just because they want to fall in love with this person, and the result doesn't matter.

    But I don't think this kind of relationship state is good, because most people eventually have to get married and have children, if one party is only in love and not married, then it will delay the other party and waste the other party's time, so I think in the relationship, the love process and the result are very important.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course, falling in love will pay more attention to experience, because experience will make Chundan people grow, make people understand more truths, and understand many philosophies of life. Therefore, when it comes to falling in love, Jane disturbs love, and should pay more attention to guessing the experience.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Experience is more important.

    Love is originally a pleasure between the two lovers, enjoy the process of love, and the result is a matter of course.

    If you have already thought about the result first, then the love is already very tired, if the love process is not towards the result, then the love of the oak will definitely have a problem with the rolling family.

    There is also a love purpose that is too strong and will make the relationship spoil, don't let the result bind you and put pressure on yourself.

    Let go of yourself at the age of love and enjoy this good time.

    In love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Of course, valuing experience is also valuing process. When falling in love, only the process letter key is the most beautiful result, although the chaos is also very important, but after all, many people are fateful, but there is no result.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello: I pay more attention to the experience of falling in love, because falling in love is a process, only the joys and sorrows in the process of experiencing love can be regarded as a more perfect love, if it is only the result, and there is no process, such a pure love has defects.

    So when it comes to falling in love, I pay more attention to experience!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Falling in love with a bureau god who does not aim to get married is a hooligan. When the most concerned about love, Chi Zao Ran is the result.

    If you only pay attention to experience and don't care about the result, then Ji Tongdan will be a hooligan at a loss.

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