I m so worried right now!!! It s a contradiction!!

Updated on society 2024-05-15
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Are you stupid or not, what do you want her to do when you're married, is it worth it? Hurry back, the man is refreshing, or don't think about it, or go to her to make it clear. Unclear, do you have a happy day?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    As you said above, since they all have their own destinations, then don't think about it, you also said that you don't care about money, right?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What you can't get is good. Don't get your hopes up, that woman must have deceived your feelings, since you have your own home, you have to be responsible for your other half, be a good husband, forget the person who has nothing to do with you, and live a good life with your wife, men should have a little concentration, don't be blurred by the outside world of flowers and flowers their eyes and hearts.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't forget it! Think of it as a beautiful scenery on the way! After all, you all have your own family, and now you should be thinking about how to make everyone around you happy, I wish you happiness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People are like this, what you don't get is the best, because she rejects you first, although you are married, she always has a place in your heart. You always want to see her, just to find out if she really likes you, and you still have the knot in her heart when she rejected you. It's just that I think she must have said she likes you in order to borrow money from you, and borrowing money from a man who likes her is the least burdened way for her.

    If she really likes you, how can she show you her love when you're not married, and then get married? I want to say to you: let go of what should be put down, cherish the talent in front of you is the most important.

    It takes a hundred years to cross the same boat, and it takes a thousand years to sleep together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Alas, eighty percent use your feelings to cheat some money, otherwise why play missing, it's not worth it, forget it

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Your questions are full of grievances and unwillingness, but from the perspective of a bystander, they are always one-sided. So the reason why they treat you this way can only be guessed by reading between the lines. There is a kick-cat effect, you can do it yourself, maybe there is such a possibility.

    Also, it looks like you're busy and don't have many friends, so there's a lack of sociological assistance. It's been a long time, and it has had a big impact on you.

    Usually you should find a psychological counselor in this situation, but it is estimated that you are unlikely to find it, and the psychological counselor will not give you a specific choice result, but only help you analyze what the problem is, why it happens, and adjust your mentality, and finally make an appropriate decision.

    You can use a simple dichotomy to solve the problem, the pros and cons of going and staying, which is more and which is less. But your current situation, the estimated results are relatively clear.

    The reason for not leaving, you can analyze it yourself, whether it is caused by inertia, or a low evaluation of yourself, or the fear of the outside world.

    The final decision is definitely yours, and everyone's path is their own.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The world is so big, there are many places to walk, the more passively accept the things you don't want to do, the more you hurt yourself, those relatives still take it for granted, the life circle is so small, those people bullying you have long been learned by many people, one by one, even if you are a normal person, how to deal with the nonsense of a hundred mouths with one mouth.

    If you don't leave these people, this life will be wasted. Change places and cities, and start anew. Learn to organize your life and do more things and talk less.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, it can be seen that the uncle in your family is a bit excessive, you also have to have your own ideas, the environment is not good, just change the environment, don't always think about others scolding you, it is too easy to lose yourself, and in your description you can see that you may be a little lost.

    If you do your own thing well, and your family asks you for a salary, it can be seen that your family still cares about you, you can talk to them, resign and change jobs, hehe. Because it may be possible to change jobs to get out of this situation. One point should also be raised, that is, many times when working in the factory will be particularly disgusting, those people will scold people at every turn, and it is not good for people and things, and you should stand in the place where you are, even if you set up a stall, or borrow a car to deliver takeaways, and have a good contact with people at different levels, you must keep your own ideas, and do not waver easily.

    You also have to be patient, for doing one thing, how difficult it is now, do it well, don't be angry. Good no good. Insist on change and be confident.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I can't bear it, I don't need to endure it anymore. Man moves the living tree and dies. Plan well.

    Find a job that pleases you. There's no need to dwell on who is long and who is short. Relatives, after all.

    It's a long time coming. Young people need to be able to cope with pressure. Solve problems when encountered.

    Rise to the occasion when encountering difficulties. There is no gain or loss. Don't be rash.

    Don't be impulsive. Be yourself. The future is bright.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Looks like you're a boy. The world is so beautiful, there is always unexpected warmth and endless hope, you must love yourself well. Since I feel very irritable, it is better to try the physical work on the construction site, sometimes the physical fatigue can be properly relaxed, no matter what work you do, it is normal to be polished, but as long as you are diligent, motivated, and practical, you can do a good job.

    Moreover, every scientist who went down in history was not recognized in the world at that time, and was always denied, and everyone denied you, which means that you have broken their conventional understanding, not that you can't. To refuel.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You have to leave your relative's factory immediately, you can't work there anymore, it's really going to be wasted if you go on like this, you have to believe in yourself, you're not a waste! It's because of the illusion that living in this environment for a long time gives you. No matter how good a person is, he will become mediocre if he is suppressed and ridiculed by others every day.

    I'm glad you haven't gone crazy for eight years. I suggest you leave immediately, if you really can't find a job, you can run a takeout first, or you can come to work with me.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Turning it into a condensed sentence, few people are willing to read this kind of tirade.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You have to endure hardships to win people, you can't see your growth for so many years, you are cynical, and everyone will naturally look down on you, you have to learn to be optimistic about people, and doing things with a positive attitude will change everyone's attitude towards you, no matter what you do, you need to learn, you should go out and break through, or that sentence, change your mentality.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Your question is too long, I want to say that there are too many troubles in life in the world, but you must face it, the starting point of what your parents do must be for your good, maybe there are places that are lacking, but you as their children should also forgive their feelings, everyone's life is not easy, don't see the surface of others, there are difficult scriptures in your heart, I advise you to let go of your irritability and go for a walk, don't suppress yourself, release it loudly, and look at the people living at the bottom!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1. Acne on the forehead is stressful and has a bad temper, causing problems with heart fire and blood circulation. 2. Acne between the eyebrows, chest tightness, arrhythmia, palpitations. Such people should not do too strenuous exercise, avoid smoking, alcohol, and spicy food.

    3. Acne on the eyebrows and near the nose) The liver function is not good, it is best to live a normal life, do not stay up late or drink and smoke 4. Acne on the brow bone Pay attention to liver maintenance 5. Acne on the nose Excessive stomach fire and abnormal digestive system, you should eat less cold food 6. Acne on the wing of the nose is related to ovarian function or reproductive system, and you should pay attention to physical maintenance 7. Acne on the bridge of the nose There may be minor problems with the vertebrae 8. Acne on the right cheek Pulmonary dysfunction, pay attention to the maintenance of the respiratory tract, try to avoid mango, taro, seafood and other foods that are prone to allergies 9. Acne on the left cheek The liver function is not smooth, and there is heat poisoning. You should pay attention to normal work and rest, keep a happy mood, blow cold air when you should blow, and do not let the body be in a stuffy environment. 10. Acne around the lips Constipation leads to the accumulation of toxins in the body.

    You should eat more high-fiber vegetables and fruits, and adjust your eating habits 11. Acne on the lower lip The body is weak and cold, and the reproductive system is abnormal, so it is best to avoid cold drinks or cold foods 12. Acne on the chin Endocrine disorders. Try to eat some light food 13. Acne on the temples Small acne near the temples shows that your diet is too greasy and cholesterol is too high, causing gallbladder blockage, and you need to quickly clean up the body Acne on the right cheekbone Upper lung and lower large intestine, cold, cold hands and feet, allergic constitution, easy constipation 15. Acne on the left cheekbone Upper liver and lower gallbladder, dry mouth is easy to fatigue, and the detoxification function is not good 16. Acne on the back or other parts of the body The main reason for acne on the back is that the back is not cleaned, and the pores are blocked, forming oil particles. When it comes to heat or fire, it erupts, just like a pimple on the face.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Let's have a baby. You will reap unexpected results ...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Either pimples, or constipation, there are too many toxins and stools, and you need to pass them in a row.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you want to be in a good mood, you can try it as a vegetarian for a month.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Drink plenty of water, don't stay up late, it's the pimple.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Take the sulfuric acid and splash it with any acne.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Your problem is a 'me' word, ego, narcissism, arrogance, so you may rebel, but you think about it yourself, except for yourself who knows that there is a you, everyone sees that it is yourself, I think I am the center, you think you are the center, others still think he is the center, you will not take the initiative, you are too self-conscious, this is nothing to take the initiative, this is true, but it is meaningless to compare with others, everyone has everyone's strengths and weaknesses, his speaking level is worse than you, But the person who appreciates him naturally appreciates other places, if you appreciate this person, then the level of speaking is not necessarily bad, it is someone else's fate, what are you doing, you have your world, you give him a good face, he ignores you, you ignore it and go back, this is a sign of not caring, you don't have to feel that you are special, and ignore others. Others ignore you, and the heart is unbalanced, because how do you know that others are not self, others are not another you, you give him a good face, he is just like you at that time did not want to give a good face, nothing must be absolute, everyone's mood is changing rapidly, feelings and attitudes towards a person will also change, you can not master, you can only master yourself, if you don't want to encounter a cold face, don't think that who will definitely stick to you, without certain expectations, you are naturally in your hands, Because no one has to do anything to a person, you respect others, don't understand on behalf of others, it doesn't mean that he will show it, he may be busy, he may be the same self as you, he may be in a bad mood at the moment, anything is possible, Bill has no corresponding respect to respond to your respect, it is his business, you should be at ease if you give respect, if your premise is: respect is just your habit of receiving things from people, then you will not care if others respond, because you can't control other people's hearts, and you don't have the right to control, You will say that it is very unfair, but at least other people's psychology is clear, you are respected from beginning to end, at least he will not hate you, you can be at ease, it's over, why is your mood always affected by outsiders, because you care too much about other people's world, your outlook on life values and treatment of people is your business, other people's outlook on life values and treatment of people is his business, it is cultivated from a young age, even other people's mothers can't change, you want to change, impossible, respect is just an attitude towards people, it doesn't matter in return, If the other party is rude, you can only say that he is not your friend, or he is in a bad mood at the moment, you can understand, you can control your mood, a thousand people have a thousand attitudes, you are angry?

    Don't toss yourself, don't use your point of view to restrain others, to demand others, if you just want to be a respectful person, first abandon your responsibilities to others. Your happiness should be how you want to be happy, how you want to be a person, not how others want to be a person, how to treat you, don't like to leave, the end of the world?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In general, you have not adapted to this society, you have not integrated yourself into the collective, and you have not empathized. Everyone is independent, yet interdependent, and everyone wants to be recognized by others. If you are always waiting for others to know you, but you don't take the initiative to get to know others, then you are indifferent.

    There is a sense of distance. If it's a person next to you, who always ignores you, he always wants you to ignore him. Do you think you'd be willing to associate with this kind of person?

    There are some personal principles that can be appropriately relaxed as long as they do not violate the law and discipline. Because you are always living in a crowd, in society. One of the things that people need very much is communication.

    In fact, you are still quite lacking in self-confidence, and you are afraid of not being accepted. In fact, everyone has a group that suits them, there are always people who like you, and there are always people who don't like you. Normal, try to calm your mind a little bit.

    Do what you should do, no matter what others think, if you don't do what you shouldn't do, there will be no problems.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It feels similar to you, and what you need is a sense of approval from others! If you feel that your own speaking skills are better than others, does that mean that you are always in a bad situation when arguing with others? Does the way you speak win the disgust of others?

    These are all issues that you need to pay attention to. You think your conditions are better than others, so do you understand the specific situation of others? You may have made a mistake in your judgment.

    Sometimes you have to find the reason in yourself, don't you? You should also be good at controlling your emotions at work, otherwise it will be easy to get into trouble with your colleagues, and then you will have to find a new job.

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