How to change the past, how to change the past?

Maybe everyone will tell you silly children when they see this story, leave it to time to settle down. Yes, it can only be left to time, during which you don't need to divert your attention to other things or even other girls, because you have turned one girl's many disappointments into despair, so how can you bear to let another girl be a substitute? True forgetting doesn't take much effort.

In fact, in fact, this relationship has already been precipitated, and it is only you who are unwilling, but it doesn't matter, take your time, the past will not come back after all, you should work hard to change the places that disappointed the people who loved you in this one's love life. Prepare for the arrival of your future partner. You have to remember that you don't have any reason not to work hard and not to struggle!

Bless her silently, if she doesn't want you to show up again, then don't contact her, try not to do anything that disturbs her, just treat it as the last thing you do for her, and simply throw away all the things about the past that can arouse your heartache, and face every minute from now on. Don't say you can't do it, this sentence is just an excuse that you don't want to do and don't want to forget, when you try to erase the pain, in fact, you have already started to live in a new world! Come on! Satisfied.

It can't be changed. Can only forget.

Many of us have experienced that past events are condensed into images in our minds, some of which give us strength, love and warmth. Some images make us feel lonely, guilty, and sad.

Are these images influencing us?

No, it's the feelings that these images call us to feel that affect us. Ours"True"It's not so much the external reality as the inner world"Psychological real"- We live in a world that is constructed by our own minds.

Therefore, when it comes to changing the past, it is not about actually taking a time machine back in time.

to change the moment when the event occurred. To change the past is to change in our minds the feelings brought to us by the images condensed by the past.

When the inner feeling is changed, the past is also changed, because it no longer affects us in the way it was, but in a new and more nourishing way in our lives.

How did this change in inner perspective happen? It's mysterious, it came suddenly, and there's no way to explain how it happened. But as long as there is a real will, it will come.

When I was a child, my life was carefree, at most I made mistakes and was preached and scolded by adults, so overall it was a very good time. I think in the eyes of many people, this is a good memory.

But I don't want to go all over again the path I've already taken. Maybe I can go back to my childhood and change some things that I thought I didn't do perfectly, or some wrong decisions and impulsive behaviors that I once made, so that my life will be better later than the life I first experienced. But I want to keep these imperfect experiences, all of which are my choices, just mine, so whatever kind of person I am now, what kind of life I am living is unique, and I make a decision according to my own wishes.

That's why I want to continue to insist on going through my life at once and reminisce about it in my twilight years.

As we get older, our parents, grandparents are getting older, we can't spend more time chatting with them, we want to get to know them, but we don't know how to get to know them from the beginning. If you can give me this opportunity, I really want to see their lives.

But there are no ifs in life, we can only keep moving forward. What you want to do, what you want to become, you have to rely on your own efforts to get it, don't expect someone to help you replace your pay, don't regret the decisions you made before, since you made it yourself, you have to bear it. We all have to be brave enough to face the future in order to truly find ourselves.

With the passage of time, we grew up, understood more about life, understood more truths, and then stopped Huizhen and gave me a chance to go back to my childhood, I have a lot of things to say to that little self.

Take advantage of a naïve, timid, and dependent mentality, and make a few more good friends. Because in the future, Jian Ru, both physically and mentally, will become more and more autonomous and independent, and in the face of danger or new things, you will get used to relying on yourself and not asking for others. And as a child, you were still the one who occasionally wanted to be naïve and weak.

This is actually a valuable ability.

The second, intimate and practical life guidance:

Let's exercise every day from that time. Let your body get used to the feeling of sweating and breathing, because in the future, when you read books you don't like, take stiff tests, and numbly do something that you are not interested in, your body will bear with you. You may gain weight or become sub-healthy, making you lose your liking for yourself in life and in the mirror.

If you get used to exercise early on, perhaps in the rush and confusion of day after day, it will make you decide one of the few things that a person can decide on their own - your body, and help you build the habit of self-confidence and self-discipline in the simplest way.

The third, some funny jokes:

Back in the past, I want to tell you that when you like a girl as a child, don't spray her with a toy water gun, don't pull her hair, don't say that her clothes are ugly, and don't complain about her to the teacher behind your back.

The rules of change in the general past tense are dismantled.

1) It is common to add -ed after the verb.

Such as: play—played, offer—offered, weigh—weighed, destroy- destroyed, sign—signed

2) After a verb ending with the letter e, add only -d.

Such as: like—liked, provide—provided, hate — hated, date—early grinding hail dated.

3) After a verb ending with "consonant letter + y", change y to i and add ed.

Such as: supply—supplied, fly—flied, study— studied

4) After a verb that ends in a stressed closed syllable with a single short vowel and ends with only one consonant letter, double write the last consonant letter and add -ed.

Such as: plan—planned, refer—referred, regret—regretted, ban—banned