How do you feel about people who never live for themselves?

The stage of a person's life that really lives for himself is: 0 to 2 years old. At this stage, as long as there is a need, it will be satisfied, and if you can't get it, you will cry and make trouble, until you get it, and you never have to consider the feelings of other people.

From the time when the brain begins to develop and has some intelligence, it is not simply for itself to live. At least by this time I have learned to read words and emotions and give up my own ideas in order to cater to the feelings of others. Before falling in love, we already knew that we had to fight for our parents, for the class, for the school, and for the motherland, and it was for these that we began to sacrifice ourselves and work hard.

Needless to say, from the day you fell in love, you lived for your lover, and you were willing to give up everything for her. When you enter the society, you begin to live for your career, for your career, for a salary increase, for a promotion, for money, for your boss, for your leader, for your project, for your colleagues, for your customers, but you can't live for yourself. After becoming a family, I live for my lover, my children, my parents, my parents-in-law, and my in-laws.

Instead of pleasing yourself, why not please yourself and appreciate and praise your unique self. Life is like a white horse, do you cherish every minute and every second that God has given you, do you really deceive yourself and think that it is good to be young? Is only youth worth savoring?

So what are you now? "Pleasing oneself" is nothing more than pleasing a man, but what can a man give you? A vow for a moment or a commitment for life?

Everything changes over time, especially the human heart. Why not choose to please your more reliable self? Bloom yourself from the inside out, appreciate yourself.

Entrust yourself to yourself and color your life. Instead of humbly envious of other women all the time, I have the confidence and courage to say that I prefer my current self at any time.

Not before, but now I just know how to love myself and live for myself. At that time, I was the main family of my family. Never spend money indiscriminately for yourself, wronged yourself to fulfill the days of others passed in a flash, looking back on the past, what was left for yourself was only the gradual increase in age and pain.

Now I finally know that to cherish myself and live for myself is to live up to life. It was all wrong before! I'm never going to hurt myself a little bit more.

All these changes have made me happy, from the appearance to the heart, learn to enjoy a more refined life, have a good mood every day, and learn to be a happy person. When I changed my concept, I was gradually able to experience another feeling in life: I felt that my heart was much warmer, as if the sun was brighter than before, and only when we learned to love ourselves could our family love you more.

For women, love cannot override their own pursuits, dreams, and beliefs. No one can deny the beauty of love and the joy she once brought to people's hearts. Women especially need the nourishment of love, and when you are young, you can even give up everything for the one who made a lifelong commitment to you, including youth and dreams, and you just want to be with this person who was affectionate to you at that time.

At first, this man will be moved by everything you have done for him, and slowly turn into gratitude, and finally feel that everything is taken for granted. Women, don't just try a man's good for you, you must insist on your own pursuits and dreams at any stage of life, people's hearts are unpredictable, if one day he is not good to you, the reality is that he may soon be bad to you, and then you will at least have your pursuits and dreams to support you.

I didn't have it before, I felt like I had a chaotic life, I only thought about my family, I loved someone, I never thought about my feelings, I once didn't eat breakfast, I had low blood sugar, I fainted three times, I even broke my glasses, I was reluctant to spend a little money on myself, I rarely bought clothes, and I didn't do what I liked. Now I take every day seriously, I take everything seriously, even if it's something as small as crossing the street, even if there are no cars on the road, I have to wait for the green light to come on. I also think about my own feelings in everything.

Now I have good body management and sports have become a part of my life. Now I have a light diet, and I don't eat any drinks or snacks. After all, health is very important.

Now I give myself at least half a day a month to be alone, shopping alone, and in a daze. Now I buy myself a gift for my birthday, and I'm so much happier. Family is important, and you are also important.

Ordinary rural family, when the family had a little money in the past, the parents were very thrifty, the food and clothing were very ordinary, and it could even be said that it was shabby, and then my father fell ill when he was in junior high school, and spent a lot of money, and he was really inferior. Later, when he entered the society, he was confused by the bright lights of the city. Not practical enough to lead to almost thirty nothing, not enough to integrate into life, living a day is my previous state, no one said happy birthday to you on your birthday, I was still working on the construction site that day, it was raining lightly.

I used to live seriously on my own. I was born in 1970. Before the age of 10, I don't want to eat enough, because the rice is too unpalatable, and every day I am sorghum noodle wotou and sorghum noodle porridge.

Occasionally eating millet porridge in winter is also a clear soup that can illuminate people's shadows, especially if there are sweet potatoes or carrots in it, skewered rice, and the nest head that pulls the throat, it is really difficult to swallow. At noon, it was elm bark noodles made of sticking agent and sorghum noodles steamed noodles, and there were no vegetables, plus salt and garlic juice, I really didn't want to eat them. Either mixed with some rice bran, or mixed with a few times of water wild vegetables and leaves, in order to attract children, adults will also use cornmeal to cover a little decoration, such a nest every day, really unbearable.

I was wearing a coarse cloth coat, so my brother couldn't wear it, so I wore it.

Now thirty years old, I want to live for myself. Before I got married, my salary was almost given to my parents, and after I got married, my salary was almost given to my children and family. And I, sloppy all day long, forced myself to clean up as if I was forty years old.

To live for ourselves, we need to change our mindset: first of all, we must live well for ourselves.

As a life, the most important mission of human beings is to reproduce. Specifically, in a person's life, it is to give birth to children and filial piety to parents. Marx said that man is the sum total of various social relations.

In this society, we have various identities, both as children and later as parents. On the one hand, we study in order to better master survival skills, so that we can live a better life in the future, better raise children, be filial to our parents, and complete the most important mission of life. In this parent-child and family, we do not complete the task with us, but enjoy the beauty of this family happiness and enjoy the happiness of the family.

However, in this life, we are not only children, we are parents, we are ourselves. After work, you can go out for a big meal and feel the deliciousness of the food, and on the weekend, you can go fishing, go hiking, go to the movies, and do what you like. These are all lived for ourselves.

And when we like an art, learn a skill, and practice our skills while feeling art, we also pass on this form of expression of human civilization in the process.

Therefore, we do not necessarily have to have a clear purpose to do everything, and many times our lives are not as clear as black and white, take children out to camp on the weekend, we can not only feel the joy of parent-child activities in the process, but also the education of children, but also feel the beauty of nature in happy activities, and teach children the experience and knowledge summarized by their predecessors in play, which is also regarded as inheriting civilization.

If you have such thoughts, it means that you usually care too much about what others think of you, but there is no need to do so. We can never be the person that everyone likes, we only have one way to do ourselves seriously. When we live our most wonderful life, we want everyone to see our own characteristics.

That's how you can be yourself, and that's how you can be confident. Always remember that we all live for ourselves, and the most important thing is to let ourselves live a happy and free life.

Only a very small number of people can live for themselves, and these people will also be disapproved by those around them. Because to live only for yourself means that you will definitely make choices that are not in line with the world. And this society still requires the same as others to be free from reproach from others.

This one is not entirely true. It may seem like you're doing things for someone else, but you're benefiting from it. You make your life more colorful.