I was abused by my husband after I lost my job, and I don t want to live anymore, what should I do?

You are not even afraid of death, what are you afraid of? If you can't get by, you can get a divorce, and you can find a women's federation to sue him for domestic violence, and use the law to protect your rights and interests. You can die for a hundred But you have thought about your children, your family, giving birth to you and raising your parents, it is very cruel for a white-haired person to send a black-haired person, cherish your life.

You must not compromise on this oneThis kind of person will not change for the better. You must hurry up and solve it. The longer you drag, the more it will hurt you. So you must get out of him quickly.

Didn't you ask the court why it didn't grant a divorce? Domestic violence also needs evidence! You need to call the police after being subjected to domestic violence!

When the time comes, the police will be able to judge him by presenting evidence! And you, what unit still cares about divorce? Is it useful for you to react to your husband's unit leader to divorce?

Don't understand what you're thinking?

In this case, of course, the police were called to prosecute him.

Collect the evidence first, then call the police!

Girl, then it's good to get a divorce.

You have been separated from your ex-husband for more than 20 years, and you now call your former husband your ex-husband, which can show that you have already found your other half, and illegal cohabitation, what else do you have to be embarrassed about, what else do you want to do, it's not that you want to divorce now, but you have the idea of divorce not long after you left, but now you feel ripe, he has cancer and domestic violence against you, you left, he may have known that cancer couldn't accept it for a while, and he left instead, It can be seen that you can't share the hardships, and your tone and actions have long indicated that you want to divorce.

Go back and see if you can find him like this. How do you live such a marriage? I don't understand it, do you?

If you go to the police station and find out, if you die, there will be a death registration.

You can go to the local police station to check, and then go to sue for divorce

Go back and see him! As the saying goes, a husband and wife are 100 days a day, and there is no defense when you go back to see. Anyway, he also had cancer, maybe he was already dead, and if he didn't die, there was no way to look at it.

Anyway, you've made up your mind to get a divorce, and it's a matter of time before you have to settle it, after all, if you have to start your life all over again.

You can go to court to file for divorce and it will take care of it for you.

He's got cancer, you're leaving! What domestic violence.

You have been separated for so long and you haven't divorced yet, you can sue him before, and you can sue him for domestic violence, but he may be in a bad mood when he is sick! But since you've been away for so long, you should be able to get a divorce, and if you were seriously ill, you probably won't be there now! You should also let go of the past for so long, if you are no longer a widow, you can choose to get married, if you are still alive, you can only negotiate to solve the problem.

If you don't have the ability to earn money from work, then choose to call the police, domestic violence is a crime. If you are already financially independent, leave home and live on your own.

It seems that he will not be able to live independently for a while. Then we have to work harder and strive to stand on our own feet as soon as possible, even if we can rent a house outside by ourselves. Think about the good life you can create for yourself through your own efforts, what you can do and what you want to do can be realized, give yourself a little more hope, and the future will definitely be beautiful.

The parents at home don't understand themselves and don't want to communicate, and they still commit domestic violence from time to time, they don't want to live anymore, and they have great hopes for life, and they are all going to die?

Try to stay away from them, and treat them as if you don't have parents.

Don't. Come to my house. I'll take good care of you.

The sooner a man who can commit domestic violence leaves him, the better, otherwise you will feel very nowhere in the rest of your life, because his character determines his life, and it is impossible to change it.

For this kind of man, if you want to divorce him, he will definitely not agree, and will use all kinds of means to threaten and intimidate you, you have to collect evidence, use legal means to protect your rights, good luck!

According to this routine, there is a high possibility of awarding it to the mother, and the man can also be asked to pay child support by the way.

Living with children can be a bit difficult for a single mother at first, but as long as the child is by her side, it is the greatest motivation and happiness, and when you survive that difficult time, you will find that all the hardships are worth it.

So the advice to you is to observe and think carefully first, is this family still worth continuing?

Can you give your children a positive education in a single-parent family?

If you can continue, you can continue, if not, you can only bring your parents to help you take care of the children, and then you work hard to fight for your career, so that you can give you and your children and your family a better life and future.

If you really want to get a divorce.

You can take pictures of the scars left by your husband's domestic violence as evidence.

Go to the police station to report the crime.

Then apply for a divorce from the court.

As for the children, if you want to stay, you can ask the man to pay monthly alimony.

Or award the child to the man, and you pay child support.

If you leave the child to their family, you will pay child support on time, or you can keep the child and let him pay the child support on a monthly basis, but if you want the child to have evidence, you need to have evidence of his domestic violence.

If you have to ask who is wrong in this matter, in fact, he tells you with facts that if you continue to ask like this, he will block you, in other words, your friends will not be able to do it. Now do you understand? Originally, he was wrong, but you had to find out, and it turned out that you were wrong.

Therefore, there needs to be a degree of honesty between friends, especially when it comes to intimate questions, and he can choose to tell you exactly as he is, or he can refuse to answer ......Of course, you can also choose not to ask, knowing that some of the answers are against your will, but you prefer to listen, which is one of the main reasons why you make mistakes. So, remember, the past is gone, why care who he was with in the past? As long as he stays with you at this moment, you have to hold him firmly!

Finally, I wish you peace and happiness!

You and him may be right, but sometimes you feel like you're already a couple. Therefore, you must confess. Note that this "must" is not a necessity, in fact, whether it is a marriage relationship or a couple relationship, as long as the most private things are involved, you should still consider the other party's feelings before saying it, or whether it will hurt your relationship?

Our lives are simple and complex. But no matter what, you need to manage it yourself.

Since you are together, you shouldn't ask your boyfriend like this, give him some private space, you can't talk about jokes when you weren't together before, but now you can't, otherwise it will affect your relationship and cause unhappiness for both parties, don't take it to heart no matter what happened in the past, as long as you don't do it like this after you're together.

In fact, he was tricking you before, and you told the truth about the routine, but he didn't say anything himself. Although modern society does not require women to start from the beginning. But some selfish, old-fashioned and conservative people still want their women to be a blank slate.

He lied to you, and he didn't. It's better to separate. I have seen that there are men who are married and commit domestic violence against women because it is not the first time for a woman.

This kind of scheming person leaves as soon as possible, girl, be obedient, otherwise it will be miserable in the future, even if it is not domestic violence, cold violence is enough.

I started confessing because I had a crush on you. Once a man defends the girl he likes, it means that he doesn't really love you, but just plays with you.

Some things are still hard to be confused. You're just too serious, and your boyfriend feels a little embarrassed. So you're not wrong. It's just a different philosophy.

Even if you fall in love, why are you still entangled in the past, live in the present, as long as two people love each other, understand each other, and cherish each other, it's okay, you are too serious.

You don't have to be too specific to understand these things, too much I feel bad when I go, and I am not happy with you, but in this case, the main thing is to adjust the mentality, don't care too much, as long as you like the other party, it's OK.

Since you are already a boyfriend, you must learn to tolerate and trust each other, don't pursue the past, especially don't dig into each other's privacy.

Don't talk about those sensitive topics, the past is the past, you have to learn to grow to learn to tolerate, don't dwell on those meaningless pasts, if you can't accept other people's past, don't be together, if you are together, cherish the present, manage the present, and make more preparations for the future.

Do I think it's necessary to be so serious about this?

If the two of them think it is appropriate, they will get along together, and if it is not suitable, they will break up or not be together. Don't take it seriously, it's not good for anyone.

If you love, give trust and security, and make your own choice.

If you don't want to say it, don't say it.

There's not much to say about that.