How can you change your ability to read words and colors?

The eyes are the window of people's souls, and people's expressions also have joys, angers, sorrows, and joys. You can analyze it, if sometimes she speaks and does things, if someone else shows unhappy expressions and words, then she (he) is really angry. Of course, the expressions are also very deceiving, such as when you go to grab a girl's hand.

She may be angry, but you have to observe for yourself, some of them are really angry. But some of them pretend to be angry, but they are happy in their hearts. If you want to do this, then carefully observe the changes in other people's expressions, especially the eyes.

You can read the psychology of the other person directly. Let's take our time.

Attentiveness is essential, and we should pay more attention to accumulating experience in this area.

Observe words and looks", a literal understanding can tell you what to do, pay attention to what he says, look at his face, expression, and have the courage to look into the other person's eyes when talking in ordinary times, so that you will see a lot.

Think more about it in your conversation, and think about every word of the other person. This was when it first started. Slowly, that is, to be well-informed1, you will be measured.

Careful and bold. Enough ideas!

Sincerity is an essential part of life.

Heads-up"All.

It's best if you don't talk at first, wait for someone else to speak first, and take your time.

It's still good to read more books, but if you don't believe it, try it!

You may have little experience in society. Time will tell.

Talk less! If you talk too much, it won't carry any weight

1. Do more things and talk less

Trouble comes from the mouth, and many people just can't control their mouths, which will cause a lot of unnecessary trouble. The meaning of observing words and colors is to let you look at the behavior of others more, and when others express their opinions, do more**.

The more you talk, the more you can see a person's personality traits. From their words, you can see his attitude and so on. When you're fine, you just have to keep your head down and show yourself with your results.

People who talk a lot often expose a lot of their shortcomings, and the more silent you are, the more you will explode.

2. Make friends with sincerity

You have to have the mindset that no matter what others do to you, as long as you don't treat others with a clear conscience. People's hearts are the most important, and when you make friends now, what you value is sincerity. Discerning through the heart, time is the precipitation of everything.

When you get in touch with him, you can feel if he really treats you. The details of life, the details of your relationship, these are the basis for your discernment.

3. Observe carefully

Most people's true inner activities are revealed in their speech and demeanor, consciously or unconsciously. Therefore, if you want to see a person clearly, then learn a little more about psychology, and then carefully observe in the process of interacting with people, there will definitely be unexpected effects. Some people are simpler in heart and more simple and straightforward in character.

Such a person will say something in his speech, and he does not bother to hide it. Even the smile looks genuine. When talking to someone, the glasses will look directly at the person, and the sincerity can be seen in the eyes.

Others may have a more complex heart and are good at hiding their true thoughts. There are some people who do it on purpose, and they are more scheming, in order to achieve their desired goals.

When talking to others, this type of person will have more wandering eyes, and there may be more small movements on the hands or body. That's a knee-jerk cover-up. Therefore, as long as you observe carefully and practice a lot, you can observe words and emotions in life, roughly judge what kind of psychological state the other party is, and respond more appropriately.

4. Empathy

When you don't know how to read words and emotions and figure out the minds of others, the best solution is to put yourself in their shoes. Because it is much easier to know yourself than it is to know others. So when you don't know if you are going to do harm to others.

If you are in someone else's position, you want them to be able to treat you and communicate with you.

If you are the other person, what kind of emotion will you feel when you say such a thing? Usually, you can practice this way of empathy, whether it is right or wrong, and analyze and guess more in your own mind. After you guess the thoughts of others many times, your ability to read words and colors will be greatly improved, and your self-confidence in communicating with others will also be greatly enhanced.

5. Expand your social circle

You have to dare to go out and make friends with people, get to know a little more people, and you will have the opportunity to distinguish others. Otherwise, if you don't have any friends, how can you know people.

1. Don't talk on your own.

When communicating with anyone, you should not blindly express your own thoughts, or talk about your own nagging or complaining. When you are communicating with anyone, talking to yourself is a big taboo, which will not only make your words become a pile of "garbage", but also make the other party have endless disgust with you as a person. Even if you hope to achieve something about yourself through your narrative, your speech should be in moderation, not verbose, and not dismissive.

02Observe the other person's eye contact.

Of course, people's eyes can be disguised, such as pretending to be affectionate and sincere, but the time of this disguise will be very short, once the time of disguise is short, the words coming out of the eyes are more sincere than the words coming out of the mouth. Therefore, when communicating with others or observing people, remember to observe the message conveyed by the other person's eyes, and many times, you will see a different "world" in the eyes of others.

03 The other party suddenly made some small movements.

Observing words and colors, it is not only the expressions that are observed, but also the actions. No matter how deep a person is, he will use words to cover his heart, or disguise his eyes very incomprehensibly, but there will always be some small actions that allow you to see the true state of his heart. For example, when you communicate with the other party, the other party suddenly starts to tap on the desktop with his hand, or keeps looking at the watch, then you have to quickly end your topic, or change your topic, which is the most important ability to observe words and colors.

04Pay attention to the other person's emotions.

When we communicate with others, if we keep our heads down and only care about expressing our thoughts, such people are called people who have no eyes and cannot see their faces. If you want to learn to read words and colors, you must express your thoughts and look at the subtle changes in the other person's expression. For example, a frown, a yawn, a slight squint, etc., are very revealing.

Either the other party values you very much, or the other party has doubts and dislikes you, etc. Therefore, when communicating, you must pay attention to the other person's expression and subtle emotions.

Maintain your true colors, learn to be silent and respond, this is called the soldier to block, the water to cover is, it seems to be the most secondary method, but it is also the most practical way, especially for honest people, if you can't see through, we will pretend to be confused, anyway, I won't do it if you damage my interests, you have a thousand plans, I have old ideas, this stupid method is suitable for those who really can't change themselves, honest people for a lifetime, this is called stupid people have stupid blessings.

This is called preconceived, in fact, people need this process to interact with each other, at the beginning, the only way to not let yourself be passive is to talk about your own property first, things first to do your own, we show sincerity, so that others feel that you are wholeheartedly making friends, rather than playing with the eyes of the heart, in this way, it will give others an invisible pressure on their hearts, if you develop this habit, other people's reactions can quickly observe their character and conduct.

To observe words and colors is to observe the words and expressions of others, and then figure out the minds of others. Everyone's thoughts and thoughts will be unconsciously revealed on their faces, and everyone will have their own essence, which will be reflected in the tone of speech and voice, and through this method, you can make a rough judgment on a person very quickly and help you gain insight into people's hearts.

Learn to observe words and colors, in order to do what they like.

People with high emotional intelligence generally look at words and emotions and know the true intentions of others. And honest people are simple-hearted and easily deceived. Guiguzi proposed ten mantras to teach you to easily see through the other party's heart.

Observation. Those who are rude-hearted and rude-hearted will have a deep voice.

A person with a rough heart, his voice is often heavy, loose, and loose. Such a person cannot be entrusted with great things.

Those who are cautious in their hearts will have their voices and knots.

A person with a detailed and cautious heart, his voice tends to be gentle and rhythmic, and it sounds very organized. This kind of person often speaks only after deep thought in his heart.

Those who are angry and despicable have a rough voice.

A person who is very disdainful and angry, his voice is often very rough. If you are not educated, you must be careful when interacting with this kind of person, and do not provoke it.

Those who are soft-hearted have a warm voice.

A person with a very tolerant and gentle heart, his voice is often as warm as jade, and it sounds very comfortable. This kind of person treats people gently and makes people feel like a spring breeze.

Look. Sincerity and wisdom must have the color of understanding.

Wise and intelligent people often have a clear and frank look on their faces. Because the brain spins fast, it reacts quickly.

Sincerity and benevolence must have a gentle color.

People who are benevolent and generous often have a gentle and loving look on their faces. The face is born from the heart, and the mercy is kind.

Sincerity and courage must have the color of perseverance.

Brave and fearless people often have an uplifting, arrogant and conceited look on their faces. Confident and fearless, with an empty eye.

Honesty and loyalty, there must be considerable color.

Loyal and reliable people often have an intriguing look on their faces, are resolute and resolute, and do not look back when they recognize a thing.

Sincerity will have a difficult color.

A person of noble temperament and otherworldliness often has a look on his face that cannot be defiled or approached at will. It can be viewed from a distance and not blasphemed!

Honesty must be credible.

People who have integrity and maintain discipline often have a convincing and trustworthy look on their faces. It's worth entrusting.

Step 1: Adjust your mindset and increase your vigilance. If you want to learn to observe words and colors, you must first cultivate your own character to be steady, your heart sinks, whatever others say is born from your heart, every sentence must have a reason just the difference between big and small, we only need to do the following thinking to slowly cultivate ourselves:

1. Why did he say this to me?

2. What angle or position does he stand on in this sentence?

3. The background of this sentence.

Fourth, what is the personality of this person and how to answer appropriately. Thinking like this can cultivate our observation of words and feelings, but before thinking like this, we also need two changes in mentality, keep the mentality calm, and improve the vigilant mentality, which refers to the vigilant mentality is not sensitive to everything, and it is a kind of resistance and prevention psychology to some strange, hostile or ** social figures.

<><1. People who often show off everything about themselves in front of you, who are condescending and put on a high posture, actually look down on you from the bottom of their hearts, and always think that they are better than you. You don't need to socialize with this kind of person, just nod your head.

2. There are a lot of words, the speed of speech is very fast, there is generally no city government, and the height of thought is not high.

3. The words of this kind of person are false, and it proves that you are not familiar with this person, or you are familiar with it on the surface, but there is a gap in your heart. Because a true confidant will not be repentant, and the group will always praise each other.

4. People with sweet mouths, especially those who are so sweet and greasy. People who call everyone very close, like to call others some words or overlap words, this kind of person is generally exquisite, very good at planning for himself, and very hypocritical, be careful.

5. There is nothing wrong with being born from the heart. People who look **, have eyes that bulge outward, and look uncomfortable at a glance are really bad. People who are kind and good-looking, and who are gentle-looking, are also better.

6. As soon as they sit down, they like to ask questions around the bush, this kind of person is generally very bad-hearted, the purpose of their questions is nothing more than to hear the complaints of others, and then they pretend to comfort themselves, and finally have fun in their hearts. When you encounter such a person, you have to keep your mouth shut and say nothing.

7. Everything must be led by yourself, everything must prevail, and people who regard themselves as leaders are very strong people. It is difficult for such a man to achieve anything in his career, and it is difficult for such a woman to be happy in his family.

8. He said that he had a lot of friends, and they were all very powerful, but in fact, such a person did not have a true friend.

9. Those who are selfish and do not know how to be grateful have no friends. When I go back to my hometown for the New Year, I don't have a friend who takes the initiative to make an appointment, this kind of person will definitely not be a person, and it is exquisite egoism.

10. When a person does something, such as buying something for his family, he wants everyone in the family to know about it.

This kind of person is very inferior, and everyone knows that this kind of person is very inferior and wants to be recognized by others too much, so he will never be confident.

11. A person who wants to show off everything in the circle of friends has a strong sense of vanity, is a very decent person, and loves face very much. But she has never woken up, life is not for herself, but for others to see, others feel naïve, only she doesn't feel it.

12. Scheming people speak very officially, and they also like to speak in an official tone. People who don't have scheming speak very straight and have something to say.

13. People who compliment you, be especially careful, this kind of person either wants to harm you or wants to take advantage of you.