How to refute If you think so, then you can t help it ?

A smart woman knows how to capture a man's heart, and she will not let herself be wronged in love. So, when a man says, "If you want to think like this, I can't help it", how will a smart woman respond? "If it were you, wouldn't you think so?

Some men, when they have disputes with women, always look indifferent, as if no matter how angry a woman is, it has nothing to do with him, and he doesn't bother to care about women. But at this time, if the woman replies to him positively, he will definitely be more emotional, and the conflict between the two will deepen. Therefore, a wise woman will choose a more tactful way to refute men.

At this time, if you were to do it another way, you would ask him to see how he would react? If he understands what you mean, he will reflect on himself.

I didn't think about anything, I just cared about you! "If you know that he is impatient at this time, then you should not deliberately hit the muzzle of the gun, you can be tactful, or even say that you care about him, so that you will have such thoughts, then this will ease your relationship. In many cases, you don't have to tear your face when both of you are emotionally unstable, you should wait for him to calm down before arguing with him, which may be more appropriate.

A smart woman will not contradict a man head-on, because she knows that impulsiveness will only make the contradiction between the two deeper.

I remember there was an opinion that boys care about the events themselves, and girls care about how you feel about me. Many times this sentence is used because the boy feels that since it happened, it has passed. Maybe I was wrong, I apologized, the situation was explained, and I said what to do next time, but you're still in a mood, then I have nothing to say, anyway, if I continue to talk about it, I'll repeat the previous words.

So you can do whatever you want. However, after analyzing the situation, the explanation of these problems guarantees that the girls may not want to listen, and their emotions will naturally not improve. Boys and girls think differently about problems.

Nature's purposes and practices are also different. Without a solution, someone will naturally need to compromise. If you don't want to compromise, you can only understand the other party more, and some questions can't be asked, and many things are the result of thinking too much.

In fact, speaking is an art, and the way a woman speaks and behaves is also an art. If a woman speaks properly, she will put herself in an advantageous position, and if she does not, she may put herself in an awkward position. In love, you have to learn to refute men, insist on yourself, when a man says to you, "If you want to think so, I can't help it", you can't wronged yourself and accept a fact that you don't want to believe.

But you can't directly contradict a man, sometimes in a different way, a tactful but tough way, let him know that what he said hurt you.

If you want to continue to convince the other person, then prove it with actions. Because the other party threw out these two sentences, which means that I don't want to talk to you anymore. But if you don't want to tell the other party, then give back to the other party.

A: I can't help it if you say that. B:

That's how to say it. A: That's what I said.

B: If you want to say that, I can't help it.

Then I think most of the men who say such things are really tired in their hearts, and they can't get the forgiveness and understanding they deserve because they explain too much, so they give up, please believe me, at that moment, his heart is broken. And in a sense, at that moment, what he was thinking about was not how to coax you, but how to distinguish between high and low with you in terms of reason, but found that girls were not reasonable at all. This made the man very frustrated, so he probably could only say "If you think so, then I can't help it".

So what should I do? "When a man says this, it is impossible for you to make him have a better attitude, and now he may have become irrational. So, if you want the problem between you to be resolved, then you can ask him what you think.

How? Perhaps your temporary weakness will turn the tide of the problem between you, so you should pay more attention to the way you speak. A smart woman will not fight with the other party when he is in a bad mood, but knows how to solve the problem in a different way.

Ex-boyfriends also often say that he later became ex-boyfriends. And now I will no longer let unwarranted speculation, give my boyfriend enough understanding and trust, live my own life, and maintain a mentality of "I can live well without you, but I still want to be with you very much", not to suffer from gains and losses, and it is too late for my boyfriend to cherish it.

If I meet someone saying this to me in my life, I will probably express it in the following ways:

1.It's not that I want to think like this, it's what you do, what you say, everything you do can only make me think like this, and I can't think otherwise.

2.I don't want to think like that, but stupid, from your performance, I can only think like this, I really don't have anything else to think about, it's no wonder to me.

3.What do you want me to think? Tell me about it, let me hear it! That's what you're doing, Iwaga can only think like this, I can't think of anything else.

4.You made me think that, and if you didn't do something like that, how could I think that? Whoever it is? To do something like that, I can only think like this, and I can't have a second thought.

A: I can't help it if you think so.

B: Then you tell me what to think, if you don't say it, if you don't explain, I'm worried about you, so naturally I'll think about it, and if someone else comes to me, what does he do, it's my business.

1. I don't think so, so what do I think.

Second, normal people will think so.

3. If you ask like that, I can't help it.

When you say this, you mean that you have other opinions, so let's be honest!

<> "High EQ replied to "If you want to think so, I can't help it".

When the other party says: You think so, I can't help it.

The straight daughter replied: If you want to say that, I don't care. If you can't help it, you can figure it out. Qingru didn't say it, so I accepted this line.

High EQ replied:

Since you can't help it, then follow my way! So what do I think, you have a way? If you can't do it, you can divide it, there is always someone who has a way.

Yes, you're right, it's good if you're happy. When I look at you as a human being, please pretend to be a little bit more like. The solution is the product of brain oak mess, you don't have it.

Mental method. When it's time to be scared, you still have to be scared, blindly flattering, and you can only be disrespectful to you. The purpose of the rebuke is to maintain the postural balance of the relationship between the two sides.

When you find out that he wants to raise his posture and suppress you, the higher he pulls up, the harder you should scold, and finally pull him back to the same posture. The premise of a happy relationship between the two is the balance of the posture of both parties.