You would mind if your girlfriend had an abortion for someone else and was deeply in love with someo

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I'm not a man, I'm a woman, but I also want to talk about how many people in this day and age have never been in love, who haven't loved someone deeply. But we were all too young then. Maybe something was wrong.

    But we are women, and we can't do anything about it, because only a woman will get pregnant, and a man won't be a man who will get another woman pregnant. And what punishment did he get, they didn't hurt anything. But our feelings are still too simple, we are not mature enough to accept the mistakes we have made in ignorance.

    If a man really loves you. If he is a sensible person, he will only know how to cherish the woman in front of him more, and if he didn't know about you before, it is better to bury it in the deepest part of his heart alone. After all, maybe he suddenly has some thoughts in the future, because of human temperament, sometimes it is difficult to figure out if it changes.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Of course you will! It means that she is brainless or brain-dead, you have to be careful!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No man would mind, I would, I'm a boy.

    But if I really love her, I think I'm okay with that.

    The post-80s and post-90s boys know all about this, so they will not be as taboo about abortion as the previous elders.

    Don't use this to sway love, if the boy in the future dislikes you because of this, you don't need to love him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    As most men will mind, but I think there are still many men who don't mind, such as me is one, I think that falling in love with a girl is to tolerate her before is all fault, after all, two people live a new life after being together, there is no need to live in the past. I believe that I can definitely find someone who you love and he loves you!! Don't trust those flowery men anymore, find an honest and pure man, it's best if I don't go out of the house in three ways, hehe Maybe that's why I don't have a girlfriend until now I'm not a nerd.

    I think I'm like. -_

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Very silly and naïve! Really?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think it's really hard to find a man I don't mind, at least I'll feel uncomfortable, it's better not to know!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is advisable that you keep this matter under wraps.

    Don't justify your own youthful ignorance.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If I knew that my girlfriend had had an abortion for someone else, I think in my heart in addition to shock, I would have some strange opinions about my girlfriend. I mind this kind of thing very much, and if I can't let go of it in a short time, I may choose to break up with my girlfriend peacefully. can accept that a girlfriend is living with an ex, but can't accept that the girlfriend is an ex, or even a person who is not in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, has had ** behavior.

    After young men and women have opened their minds, premarital cohabitation is also common. The most basic point of a man and a woman in love is to be honest with each other. It's better to miss a relationship than to hide something from the other person, which will leave endless troubles.

    According to my personal personality, the girl I know can become a lover, and she must also have a quiet personality and a life inspection type. Such a girl will be very careful and careful in her private life, and it is impossible for her to get pregnant out of wedlock. When such a thing spreads, it will have a great impact on the girl's reputation, and at the same time, the family will feel ashamed.

    In the process of getting along with my girlfriend, I will feel incredible after learning that my girlfriend has had ** behavior. At the same time, I also feel that the girl did not tell the truth, which is a sign of dishonesty, and I personally don't like this situation.

    Although he is not a very traditional person, he also has a bottom line, that is, he can't accept the behavior of the girl. Being able to do it for the sake of the ex** shows that the two should have reached the point where they could talk about marriage. With such a male existence, I think girls will never forget each other in their lives, and the inattention of the two in their lives will bury a thorn in my heart, which is not conducive to the two of them continuing to get along in the future.

    Faced with such a situation, I will choose to have a showdown with my girlfriend to clarify my thoughts and listen to her explanations at the same time.

    If the other party is not sincere enough, I think I will choose to end the relationship and end it peacefully.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    My heart must not accept it, under normal circumstances I would definitely break up with my girlfriend, even if I love her again, I can't forgive her for doing this, because it is too casual to do so.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I would be very mindful that I couldn't accept it, and my girlfriend was too unloving, which would affect her image.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I feel particularly disgusted because I think such a girlfriend is very unloving, and I feel very uncomfortable with her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The moment I knew, I was definitely unacceptable.

    But I will also treat it calmly and will not make any decisions impulsively.

    As long as you feel that your girlfriend is genuinely with you, then slowly accept this fact in the future.

    Because everyone has emotions from the past, don't worry about the past.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Everyone wants their girlfriend to be pure, and if the girlfriend has an abortion, most of the gods will mind and say they don't mind, it's lip service, not the truth.

    A woman who once loved, but broke up, nothing, if she had an abortion, it was different, and the probability of being acceptable was greatly reduced.

    Moreover, when many people are in love, whether they choose to tell their boyfriend the true situation before or choose to hide it is also a dilemma and a heart disease.

    First, I mind very much and break up because of it.

    Men are more generous and more likely to turn their minds than women, but they will still consider carefully when faced with some key questions or things that affect their mood for the rest of their lives.

    If two people are in love, but they are still in the beginning stage, or their relationship is average, and they know the fact that their girlfriend has had an abortion, 99% of them will break up.

    There are also people who love each other deeply, and they don't know the true situation of the matter before they get married, and then they get married, but after marriage, they inadvertently know the fact of "abortion", so there are many contradictions, quarrels, and finally break up, such a situation often happens.

    Second, I don't mind, as long as it feels right together.

    Say you don't mind, and continue to date with the girlfriend around you, there are also such men, but the proportion is not large. Men who think like this are either because they are more generous, or they are really in love with each other, but they haven't quickly fallen in love.

    There are also lovers who feel that each other's personalities and living habits are very compatible, they are not tired of getting along, and they naturally accept everything in the past, and truly let the past go with the wind.

    Third, weigh the degree of love, if it is true love, you can accept it.

    Such is wavering and tangled. Especially some lovers who have entered into love, with the escalation of their feelings, some past things, although they mind, are nothing compared to love.

    Such a thing may also be in the end, because of the fact of abortion, it becomes a cold relationship, leading to a breakup. Because on the road of feelings, no one can say how it will develop later.

    When a man falls in love with a woman, he says he doesn't mind her past and looks at what Doubi is, and many aspects are unacceptable. reluctantly accepted it, and it became a pimple in my heart, and later it was a bad shadow.

    So, as a woman, you really have to love yourself well, protect your instincts, and don't lose all your instincts. On the road of love, I hope that all women will give their best love to their future husbands.

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