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If you can't get it back, give up.

A poet once said: Memory is the only bag on the road of life. Some people are still crying because they have spilled milk, some people are still sighing because they have lost the sun, and some people are still restless because a leaf has fallen.

Walking through yesterday's wind and rain, it is inevitable that there will be some dust and bad luck on the body, and some sour memories will be left in the heart, which cannot be completely erased. We need to summarize yesterday's mistakes, but we can't dwell on the mistakes and unhappiness of the past, we can recover what can be recovered, what cannot be recovered, the only thing we can do is to give up as soon as possible!

Blindly dwelling in the grief of loss not only cannot be recovered, but makes oneself more sad; Blindly reminiscing about grief will only magnify grief and cause oneself to suffer even more grief. Yu Dan said, "When we encounter some kind of bad influence, the best we can do is to calm ourselves down, accept it, and then say forget."

In this way, you will be able to come out of the shadows as soon as possible and live calmly with a better attitude.

Former British Prime Minister Lloyd George had a habit of closing the door behind him casually ———. He was asked why. George said, "I've been closing the door behind me all my life.

You know, it's a must-do. When you close the door, leave everything from the past behind, whether it's a good achievement or a frustrating mistake, and then you can start again. It was with this spirit that George stepped step by step to success and stepped into the position of Prime Minister of the United Kingdom.

I've been shutting the door behind me all my life! What a classic phrase! If you always carry the heavy nostalgic burden of mistakes or mistakes, and feel sad about the passing years, it will only waste the good time in front of you, and it will be tantamount to giving up the present and the future.

If you regret the past, you can only lose the present; If you lose the present, there will be no future!

The cost of passively dwelling on annoyance and remorse in the face of mistakes is too great. Remorse and reflection are only a short summary of yesterday, and we exchange frozen time for long-term condemnation. As the saying goes, "Those who regret missing the first train will miss the next one."

This is one of the most vicious squandering of life. Sadness can no longer make up for past mistakes, and pain can no longer erase that long-term loss. In the face of the irretrievable and incomplete "tank", what you can do is to give up and move forward bravely without looking back, like a tank seller.

Let go of the irretrievable so that you can concentrate and continue to create tomorrow. No matter what we lose, no matter what kind of suffering we go through, let us slowly forget, those things are often just a small episode in life. We should look up to our future.

The concept of fate is to move forward rather than retreat, whether it is good or bad, it must be light. We must learn to forget all the mistakes and mistakes of the past and keep moving forward. That's because we need to look to the future.

Bloom the flower of morality.

Morality is the most beautiful flower, the most holy heart, it makes people have a clear conscience and an open mind. Trust is the warmest sunshine and the most sincere communication. It's less suspicious and more committed.

Sometimes morality is a form of love, and sometimes trust is a form of support. They are all a virtue, a kind of wealth, and more importantly, a kind of wisdom.

We sow a virtue and reap a trust; Sow a trust, make a harvest a sincerity; Nowadays, virtue has been placed in an important place in people's hearts, and they talk to virtue all the time, and they must not be regarded as trivial. Everyone's gestures convey a wealth of information.

There is more than one malignant food safety incident, why has there been no sign of convergence so far, but it has happened again and again? In a commentary, I wrote that society has lost the ability to purify, grow, and repair itself when it comes to food safety. The mistakes of one enterprise do not become the lessons of another.

The failure of one function has not become a wake-up call for another. The punishment for one act of not respecting morality and not abiding by the law does not become a moral law constraint for another act. On the issue of food safety, the ideological values of civilization and culture have lost the power to guide society forward, and the power to lead people from barbarism, ignorance, and jungle to civilization, nobility, and modernity.

The question I want to ask further here is, why has our morality lost this power? Why is there a lack of trust in our society?

The Chinese nation is a nation with a strong sense of honor and disgrace. In our society, the boundaries between right and wrong, good and evil, beauty and ugliness cannot be confused. Otherwise, there will be no social harmony, no economic development, no national spirit, and no strong country.

The incidents of tainted milk powder, clenbuterol, gutter oil, and dyed steamed buns have made us aware of the crisis of morality and trust. Comrade Jintao's "Eight Honors and Eight Shames" clearly pointed out that we should remember what we should uphold, oppose, advocate, and resist, and should become the value orientation and code of conduct that every citizen should have.

There are a lot of very good elements in Chinese culture, and that's why we're proud of it. But if there are "shortcomings", it will be difficult for us to become "a truly strong country, a respected country". Therefore, the construction of moral culture in the period of social transition should not only fill in the "cornerstone" of "respect for life", but also make the self-respect and mutual weight of life become the subconscious through the enrichment of connotation and the popularization of concepts; It is also necessary to lay a solid line of defense for conduct, so that "sense of right and wrong", "sense of shame", and "conscience" become the moral laws that everyone abides by in their hearts.

In this way, only when the roots of morality are rooted in people's hearts can the sun of trust shine on the earth.

The charm of language.

Language is a tool, a tool for communication, through language, we may have misunderstandings, such as the Feng woman in the material, the sea of fire, but also through language, achieve good things, eliminate misunderstandings, become a bridge of communication.

a) Dad is so bad, he lied to me again, he obviously promised me, how can he break the appointment again, Dad is a big villain, is work more important than me? I'm his only daughter, isn't he too busy to say a word to me? I've been working all day, I haven't seen you for a week, I haven't spoken to you for almost a month, Dad, have you forgotten?

Today is my birthday, and you promised me to spend my 16th birthday with me.

It's almost 11:30, Dad, have you really forgotten, my 16th birthday is about to pass, Dad, I hate you a little, you don't care about me at all, you leave me at home all day, ignore it. It's 11:50, "Ding......"Huh,**,I picked up the microphone with a trembling hand," my dear daughter, happy 16th birthday, I'm sorry, Dad wanted to rush back, but the airport was closed due to heavy snow, and just now** couldn't get through due to ......the weatherYour anxious and kind voice came from the microphone, and tears welled up in your eyes......

2) What, what does she mean, I've been friends for so long, how can she misunderstand me like this. She was angry, I can understand it, after all, the college entrance examination is coming, and that information is so important, but how can she slander me in front of my classmates, saying that I was jealous of her and stole her information. Could this be a friend for many years?

In front of the house, a thin figure shivered in the cold wind. Isn't that Qian? I'm slowing down, why is she here to scold me again?

She turned her head, found me, and ran over quickly, she opened her mouth, and stopped talking, and after a while, she said: "Xue, I'm sorry, it's me who is not good, I shouldn't be like this, I'm reviewing and being confused, so I misunderstood you like this, I don't deserve to be your friend .......""The tears that I have endured for a long time have finally fallen, and the winter wind is warm, you know?

Postscript) The charm of language is invincible, no matter how much, the daughter weeps because of her father's words, the friend is moved by her friend's words, and the wife is moved by her husband's words, language becomes a bridge for them to communicate, and misunderstandings are eliminated.

The point is to express the point of view of being open to the opinions of others.

Man has 2 ears and a mouth, which proves that man should listen to twice as much as he says.

Go someone else's way and leave others with no way out.

Growing sour and sweet.

We are in adolescence, like an apple that is not yet fully ripe, half of which is red and the other half is green. Of course, it doesn't taste as sweet as red apples, but rather sweet with a hint of acidity. The same is true of our lives, there are both sour and sweet.

At this age, we like to accept new things, which are often referred to as fashionable things. Of course, I'm no exception. When I get home from vacation, I go to the study, turn on the computer, and start surfing the Internet.

The network is already indispensable to us. Not to mention watching movies, browsing the news, or reading materials, even discussing study problems with classmates can be solved online. You don't have to go out, you don't have to spend money to fight, it's really a double win.

Among so many peers, there is also a large group of people who are not only avid on the Internet, but also loyal fans of popular magazines. Sometimes it's okay, so I go buy a magazine. The boys discuss new sports or which brand has a new sneaker.

And the girls chatted about gossip news between celebrities or dressed up.

Usually in school, we are all so happy and happy. It's just that with more study, life has become more fulfilling. I love learning and I enjoy learning.

It's just that sometimes, like on the eve of an exam, not only does the teacher assign more homework than usual, but even I will do some extracurricular questions, so the pressure is inevitably a little greater. That's probably the only thing I hate about studying.

And whenever I'm stressed, I think of the warmth of my home away from school. Home is like a pillar of my support, constantly encouraging me and giving me confidence. Because there are fathers, mothers and younger brothers at home.

Every time I come home from school. They would all pick me up at the station. Along the way, I would tell them about the interesting things that happened during the week, and my brother would tell me about what happened in his kindergarten.

When I got home, I led my younger brother out of the car, my father helped me get the box, and my mother opened the door for everyone, which was this bland scene, and in the eyes of others, this was the most complete happiness. Because in this beautiful picture, everyone's face is filled with the brightest smile. This laugh is a laugh from the heart.

I know very well that I have a happy and happy family, with a pair of parents who love me and love me, and a lively and lovely younger brother. But sometimes I don't know what's wrong, and I get annoyed for no reason. Sometimes my mother talks to me and I say:

Got it, got it. "Dealing with the past hastily; My brother came to me to play with him, and I said, "Don't bother my sister, I'm tired now!"

I threw him aside. Afterwards, I really regretted that I was in a hurry. Maybe it's because I'm in adolescence and still growing.

Fortunately, the beautiful women were also very understanding of me and guided me correctly.

Growing up is a process of learning from others and presenting yourself. There are a lot of things that happen to us growing up. These things have given me the joy of success and the pain of failure:

It made me have the joy of meeting and the loss ......of separationIt is precisely because we have experienced these ups and downs that we can be regarded as truly growing.