How do I deal with this painful choice!! Words of thirst for gold!! ）

There is a saying that a long pain is better than a short pain. You should have a good talk, two people really live together without feelings, it is a hurt for you and her.

It depends on your wife's personality, whether you can cut through the mess quickly!

Life is like a chess game, but life is not as good as a chess game, because you make mistakes again and again, and you can never turn back.

No children resolutely divorced.

You have been wrong again and again ... Still thinking about it? It's not fair to you and your current lover.

It is a very happy thing to have a choice, and the most painful thing is to have no choice, and there is no so-called right or wrong in the future, it is just a process. Just have peace of mind.

Hello, the question you asked is unclear and cannot be answered. We can talk.

Choosing is not painful, losing is the most painful.

If you always have to lose one, is there such a painful choice? Gaining something always means losing some, life is like this, you will face more choices in the future, it may be more painful than now, why are you depressed and depressed here for this?

You can still try it with a coin, maybe it won't be so painful.

Dude, why not change your mind, to say something ugly, born the day you are destined to die one day, birth, old age, sickness and death is human nature, is not, since you are so filial, I believe your parents can feel it, but you have done a little too much, parents are not healthy and happy to live, their greatest wish and motivation to live is you, you have to surprise them, make them proud and proud, let them feel that they have not raised you in vain, good men are ambitious! Do your own thing! Don't always dwell on unnecessary things, which will implicate your future or even your marriage! Come on!

You think highly of yourself, and there is no perfect person.

When the time comes, you will not be able to have both, you will naturally allocate a part of your heart to your daughter-in-law and children, and there are pros and cons in one place or another, which is beyond your imagination.

There is a law: the mother saves first, and the daughter-in-law comes later.

Sometimes the two places are a symbol of civilization, distance produces beauty, and it is better to be separated than to be together. In the future, transportation will be developed, and people with cars will not feel comfortable not driving for a day. Twin city love and twin city life will become the trend of civilization.

You're thinking too much, and you're obviously overwhelming yourself physically and mentally; If you have time, you can relax, exercise, rest and listen, listen to news analysis, etc., which is definitely much better than thinking about perfection in a mess.

He is really a good boy of filial piety, Zhuangzi said: "Righteousness and profit cannot be both, and those who sacrifice profit and take righteousness are also." "You can also entertain filial piety, and those who give up entertainment and take filial piety are also, the future is not possible, just live in the present, don't worry too much, good luck!

Why do you always think that if you miss the one in front of you, you are sure that you will not have love again, you are only 25 years old, it is too early to summarize. There's a lot of things I haven't seen before. If you don't say that the outside world is big, at least now you won't know what you'll be like next year, or at least you won't know who you'll be living with in the future.

Who can be so sure? It's too arbitrary to veto the road you haven't traveled yet.

Family is always the most important, but I'm not saying that you don't have her now. There's always one of you to give up, but it doesn't have to be you. If you are not willing to give up your family, or are afraid to go out into the world alone.

Then obediently return to your own life, no matter how much you think, it is superfluous.

These are personal thoughts, and the decision is yours. The most important thing is to think about what kind of road is suitable for you. Good luck.

As long as you really love her, go to her, why care about anything else, as long as you work hard, you can find a job no matter what. A few words for you: perseverance, confidence, perseverance. Think about it calmly.

Choose your parents' job! I'm a woman, not a man.

Women can still have good when they are gone, pain is temporary, love is unreliable, if you choose love, it will not be worth it if there is nothing left in the end.

If you ask this question, it means that you don't have the confidence and courage to go alone, and even if you decide to go out, it will be difficult to succeed. Then the answer comes out, leaving her will be heartbroken temporarily, but not for long. With her, it is easy to be hurt physically and mentally in the future. Take your pick.

Choose this answer, your career will be successful, and you will be able to hold a beauty! Bless the world!

If business is your dream all along, then I suggest that you first enter politics for a few years before choosing to do business, which requires you to have enough energy and patience.

Politics is a reality, and doing business is an attempt and a challenge.

Hey, it's all good, it's not bad to choose one with your eyes closed, which is a difficult word like us who have no power or money...

Politics: Rights are a good thing.

Deputy Department Level... Obvious second generation official. I'm a poor second generation who doesn't understand so much...

I think it depends on your own personality, if you are suitable for business, you can do business, and if you are suitable for politics, you will enter politics. In fact, your current situation is not a problem to do business and politics, you don't need to go into business or politics in order to fight for something like many other people, for you, it's okay to try the water completely for interest.

At present, if you have a strong desire to engage in business, I think you can try it, give yourself a 3 or 5 years, set a goal, about what level to achieve, and then discuss it with your parents, analyze the pros and cons, business as you said, according to your family background, there is still a strong relationship advantage, if you feel that you are not as suitable for business as you imagined, then find a way to enter politics, I believe it is not difficult for you.

Do what you want to do when you are young, energetic and enthusiastic, or wait for 10 or 20 years to be worn into old fritters and then regret it, and it is not easy to start over.