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I will choose"career"Love is by no means a sigh of longboarding under the moon before the flower, and it is never a romance of walking on a forest path. Love is to move forward hand in hand on the road of common ideals and common causes. Love is only strong if it is built on a career There is a good adage, "Life with love is happy, but life for love is dangerous".
If love is a flower, then it can only be open and dazzling when it is rooted in the fertile soil of the cause. If you value love above all else, it will not only destroy love, but also easily bury your life and career. In front of career and love, you can only choose one, which one will you choose?
I believe that the two can have both of them and make a little sacrifice in one aspect to balance the two, which is the performance of a successful person. None of these is an incomplete success and an incomplete life.
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The ancients: Start a family! Why is starting a family in front?
I don't know which ancient person said, I think that love and career should be the first career to succeed, after all, if you get married first, the pressure after marriage is even greater, consider many factors, and there is no stable career before that, how to support a family, not to mention falling in love, girls nowadays are really realistic, either you have to have the ability, or you have to be handsome, or you have to have a personality, shame,!! You said that there are a lot of requirements @So, what's it!! Hehe.
However, the choice of starting a business first is a suitable choice for those who leave their parents to go alone, and those who have not yet left or will not leave their parents, I think it is better to choose to start a family first, because, after you become a family, you don't have so much pressure, part of the pressure and even more pressure Your parents have borne it for you, and then you can easily find a good job and make money to support your family. To put it bluntly, that is, the person who chooses love first is the person who has a sustenance behind. That is, there is the support of parents behind them, and the person who chooses a career first is that there is no one behind or you don't want to rely on anyone, this kind of person is better to start a business first and then start a family!! The pros and cons can be imagined!
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Love is also quite precious, and I personally think that career and love can be chosen together, because career is also important! Love (of course, the kind of love that is not polluted by society) is also precious!! If your love is so vulnerable, then choose a career, because now the society can't support yourself without a career, if your love is the kind of society can't pollute, then try to choose two of them, you can !!
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True love doesn't have a choice! It's not true love Love mainly depends on how you treat it, plain love is true, when you fall in love with someone, don't care about the romance of love and many ways of love, this everyone's way of loving is different, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, you will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because you do not protect true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, you will think that it will not last long To love someone, you have to trust each other, to love someone, to understand each other, to love someone, to be tolerant, to love someone, to be broad-minded, to love someone, to respect each other's thoughts and opinions, to support a person, not to block them, to love someone, to face them, when they can't accompany you, don't complain, to say to them with a smile, I'm very happy, to love someone, to hide their inner fragility and grievances, don't let them know Love someone, too much love, maybe some people can't do it The important point is that love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him, when you fall in love, you must make him happy, as long as he is happy and happy, it is the most important thing...
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I will choose love Career can come, but love is lost for a lifetime.
Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them. When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you. There is no reason to like someone, and the unrepentant effort is considered worthwhile, as long as you can be with the person you love. >>>More
If the career is gone, you can continue to work hard and continue to work hard in the future! Only alive, as long as you are willing to work hard, there will definitely be another piece of heaven waiting for you in the future! But if you don't have a home, you'll never get it back!
This question should be said to be different from person to person, everyone's feelings and life requirements are different, but I think in today's social form, it should be said that career is more important, hehe, because without a career, you can't get the so-called love, whether it is a woman or a man, women should also have a baby before marriage, career-oriented, of course, after marriage, especially after having a baby, because of the influence of many market customs, many people must turn their focus to the family; For men, it should be more career-oriented, without career, he can't be said to be a good man, and without career, he can't take on the responsibility of the family, so all in all, it should be career-oriented in today's society.
Your hesitation, proving that you are not yet sure that you are fully giving love, the answer is simple. It's friendship.
Choosing love is actually very simple Friendship is actually not reliable Because in today's society, there are more hypocrisy and interests between friends, so friendship is not to be trusted, don't lose your friends one day, there is no love, love is your destination, is your happiness, is your dependence, no matter what the situation, lovers love each other, is the worst thing in life, the wind of true love is eternal, but the current friendship is not long-lasting.