My girlfriend and I are 11 years apart, I m 26 years old, I m worried and don t know if there is a f

Updated on society 2024-05-12
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Raise and remarry.

    It's easier said than done.

    You have to cultivate feelings at the same time.

    It is also necessary to cultivate his outlook on life and values.

    It is not easy to change when it is opened in this way.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Is she 11 years older than you or 11 years younger than you? Age is an issue, but the key is how you go on and whether you have confidence. As long as you love each other, no one can stop you, except for your own problems.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you are 26 and she is 37, then you are married.

    If you are 26 and she is 15, then you should let her live in love as soon as possible.

    Just ask, do you dare to face her parents?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Tie the knot? You're 26, so she's only 15??

    Haha, I'll see if you do it yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It should be your girlfriend who is 37 years old, love knows no age, as long as you love each other, it doesn't matter, this year to practice sister and brother love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Leave her alone, she's just a child, what would you think if you were in love with a 26-year-old woman when you were 15?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If it's 15 years old :

    Ridiculous 15-year-olds know love? Do you know love? Falling in love with a 15-year-old and saying you love him? Netizen, right? Slowly, right? I died laughing!

    15 years old is a funny age, he is growing up, he doesn't know what love is, what you should worry about is not when he grows up, not whether you can be together by then, you should ask you whether you will delay him!

    He says he loves you now, but does he actually know what love is? He doesn't understand! And you, you raise a child and a daughter-in-law, he is still a child, can you bear to destroy her?

    Now that you're 26, you should know the truth, and you should find someone your age to love! And not a child! Don't delay others and delay yourself!

    If it's 37 years old:

    Are you sure you and he can take responsibility for your own lives? Are you sure you love each other? If you can be responsible for the other party, what are you afraid of? Marriage and love are not impulses, they are willing to be united only when you love each other.

    If you love each other, then what are you afraid of? Control your emotions and don't let your slightest doubt ruin your feelings.

    Whether it's 15 or 37, think about how to deal with your parents.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You have to know what you want and what you need, and then think about it, the age gap is not the factor that determines all problems, the key is to look at you, whether a man is younger or older than the other party, he should look at the problem rationally, and men should be responsible, which is the most important thing. Can you live with her for the rest of your life? Can you be responsible for her for the rest of your life?

    Don't let love be a burden. Hope you understand.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Go with the flow, but don't give up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Uh, amazing, it's so far away, did you write it wrong, or did I read it wrong?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. Hello, even at the same age, girls will be more mature in thought and behavior than boys, not to mention that your girlfriend is two years older than you, so what your girlfriend said is not wrong.

    My girlfriend is two years older than me, she is 19, I am 17, she thinks it is wrong for the two of us to be together, because she feels that age, time, and people are all problems, because my mind is not as mature as hers, more naïve, my girlfriend is much better than me, she thinks I am naïve, immature, can't speak, anyway, I just think I'm not good enough, I haven't reached the way she wants in her heart, we've only been together for three months, I've been slowly changing, but I can't change so fast, She wants me to become mature all of a sudden, which is very powerful, and she also hopes that the other party can teach her what she doesn't know in her relationship.

    Hello, even at the same age, girls will be more mature than boys in terms of thinking and behavior, not to mention that your girlfriend is two years older than you, so what your girlfriend said is not wrong.

    You really need to change, or your girlfriend will be getting farther and farther away from you, and what she is saying to you now, which is that she is not mature enough to dislike you in Lushou, and she also wants you to lead her in thought and other aspects, and you will not change so quickly, you need to have a conversation with your girlfriend about this.

    Tell her about your distress and worries, and tell her that you will do your best to meet her requirements.

    And the specific promotion method is mainly in the body and mind, you need to do more sports, at least let your smiling appearance look like a limb, but also let your girlfriend have a sense of dependence.

    In addition, in Si Zen, you have to build yourself into a mature person, that is, an adult, an adult who can take charge of himself, and only when you can be alone, your girlfriend will look up to you more and more.

    But she now definitely felt that we had no results, and that it was wrong for us to be together, but we had only been together for three months.

    What has the other person done to you now, and has he done anything that makes you feel more and more distant from her?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You are only 17 years old, not yet the legal age of marriage, I think you don't know enough about marriage and love, although you have been together for three years, and you believe that each other is a person entrusted for life, that is just a good feeling, not really come together, the contradiction between each other can not be found, I think it is right to listen to your parents, they are always for your happiness, although age is not the boundary of marriage, but the gap is too big!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Actually, you're only 17 years old and don't know much about life yet. There will really be a lot of things for two people to live together, the age gap is too big, the perception of things is not the same, there will be big differences in the future, you don't have to think about it so much now, maybe your mind will change in a few years, if you still love her so much and want to be together, then as long as she has your child, your parents will not be able to say anything.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Are you embarrassed to ask such a question, what kind of love does a 17-year-old person who has not dried up talk about? Do you know what love is? Do you know what it means to be entrusted for life?

    You fall in love with a girl who is 11 years older than you, in fact, objectively speaking, you shouldn't be talked about, but now, you are still a minor, and you still hide from your parents that your friend is only five years older than you, can this paper wrap the fire? Someday your parents will know, so have you ever thought about how your parents felt? What are you talking about?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Since you think she is strong in all aspects, then you should have more contact with her, learn how she behaves, try to meet her requirements, pay tuition, and over time, you may become as strong as her. As for what she means to you, she may just want to show her strength and make you a fan of her, and he is reluctant to let you go with her and wants to get along with you. If you have love for him, give each other a chance.

    After all, you have been in a relationship for a few years, how can you say that you can let it go? Between the two, there is more understanding and tolerance. It can be seen that this girl has low self-esteem, but maybe it is because of her growth environment, which causes her to have such low self-esteem.

    You can enlighten her, open her heart, and in this way, she will be cheerful, and you will gain her heart, and you will be happy. What she said before was to reflect her lack of confidence and low self-esteem, but she really didn't understand what it was when she lowered her posture, sleeping position? Or if you don't understand, you can ask her directly and tell her, which will help you communicate.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    At your age, it's really not reliable to do this kind of thing, you're not at all sensible, how can you afford this girl's life, what ability do you have, this kind of thing is not only opposed by your parents, but also by your girlfriend's family, you just like her at the best time now, and when she passes this age, you have just grown up, and you will definitely change your mind at that time, don't hurt others, study hard first.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Do you know what true love is? It's not what you imagined, the two of them are together, and the beauty is called love, you are still a middle school student, when you reach the legal age to allow marriage, she is already in her 30s, you say such a marriage, can you two do it? When you are young, don't carry your premature marriage on your back, or focus on studying!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Age is not a problem, as long as the two people's personalities are suitable, and they firmly believe that each other is true love, they can choose to be together, never give up, and they will definitely be able to get their parents to agree, and their parents' disagreement is only temporary, as long as they fall in love, and wait until the age of marriage, they can talk about marriage.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The age difference between you is too big, you should still be at the age of studying in school, how can you afford to afford other people's lives, if you can't read well, the starting point for you to enter the society is much lower than others, how to give others happiness, women are the most beautiful at this age, so you are attracted, and when you grow up, she is also old, you are likely to change your mind, that is to harm others.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Let your parents know how good she is to you. The woman's superior conditions are known to the parents. In short, don't let your parents feel that you are at a loss, and the woman is taking advantage.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Friend I understand you very well, my family is also the kind of person who can't communicate with serious feudal thoughts, I also once had a crush on a woman who is 7 years older than me, and everyone around me says I'm heavy-tasted, but you haven't, she likes you, you like her, there is no age and gender distinction in feelings, as long as it's true love, you can't separate each other, brother, I suggest, hurry up and take the little red book, or she's pregnant, and introduce her to all relatives and friends, and the last way is to take her to elope to the ends of the earth.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You are only 17 years old, to put it bluntly, you still don't really understand what love is, and your understanding of love is still a little superficial.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's still a little too early, it's not even the legal age for marriage, if you really believe that it's each other, then accept the test of time, and when you reach the age where you can get married, if you are still so determined, I believe your parents can understand.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Although age is not the boundary of marriage, the difference is too big! Of course your parents won't agree, besides, you're only 17 years old this year, it's still early to get married, you're too mature, only 17 years old, you've been together for three years, I think the relationship between you is sister and brother love, not love, you're still young, you don't really understand what love is, I think you still listen to your parents! Parents will never hurt you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's not particularly good for girls to be too old, because girls are easy to get old, but boys mature very late, and the older they look, the better, different from girls, and you are just 17 years old, and you are still a lot away from getting married, so there is no need to say that you want to be together for the rest of your life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You shouldn't hide it from your parents, you should tell the truth no matter what.

    As for whether your parents agree or not, that's a matter for later, depending on your own efforts, but you must not hide the truth from your parents.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When you get married, the other party is already there, this, do you think it will delay this girl's youth?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Hello, people come over and tell you that if you find someone older than yourself, you basically lose, because you can't play with them, and they don't take feelings seriously when they experience more, wake up.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You are still young, and you have been together so early, this is not love, it will not last long. IMHO.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You're only seventeen years old, not yet the legal age for marriage, and you can determine what love is, it's a responsibility, and your girlfriend is eleven years older than you, and it's a sure thing that your parents don't agree.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You're a little bit too bad, your girlfriend is about to be a round older than you, I think since your parents are against it, there must be reasons why they came over, there are no parents who don't want their children to live a happy life with the person they like in the future, they must have their own reasons for opposition, ask them what the reason is, and then understand for yourself, and think about whether what they say makes sense.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You're only seventeen years old, you're too young, if you like it, you will continue to shoot and drag on for a few years until you get married at the legal age.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You have to understand the thoughts of her family if you don t get married, then it's better to break up as soon as possible dao woman is over 30 BUT IT'S REALLY HARDER TO FIND A BOYFRIEND VERSION SO.

    The right woman's family is also anxious.

    With that in mind, think about it yourself.

    My hint to you is that if you die poor all your life, even if you find a wife who is 5 years younger than you, outsiders will look down on you like that.

    And when two people get married, it is to think about how to do a good job in a family, so that the family can live well, the children can live well, and the elderly can live well.

    You're still thinking about these boring age questions, not about how to organize and manage a family, and you can see that you are not mentally prepared to get married.

    Women need to be able to manage money and run a family, while men need to be assertive and be able to support the principle of a family in the face of major events.

    Look farther, don't be stupid, my female classmate married a boy who was 5 years younger than her, and filmed for about two years, when the man was 18 and the woman was 23, and now the man is 20 and the woman is 26??? Work hard to make money, don't think about these useless things.

    Of course, things are seen on two sides, women over 30, they age faster than men, if you really can't accept it, one day you find that your wife is aging so ugly, then don't delay others, 29-year-old women, can't afford to hurt, if you really have no intention, let love a way out.

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