I don t have a good self, why, I feel that I am useless

For a true scholar, one should not choose his academic views according to the person, that is, I should not think that I like the person, or that the person has power, status, and fame so that I can affirm his academic views, otherwise, I should deny his academic views. The only basis for agreeing to an academic opinion should be whether it is valuable or not. Valuable academic opinions, regardless of the person who put them forward, should be recognized.

Mr. Wang Xijie said: "Different academic views should be respected and tolerated. You can't blindly exclude them.

Criticizing academic treatises with different viewpoints must be done after understanding the views of others. We should not intentionally or unconsciously distort or even fabricate other people's academic views as targets for attack. This can only expose oneself as a non-scholar.

Can some people who don't understand or don't understand well or even haven't even read other people's treatises, but have only heard one or two concepts, and because they don't like them, they express "great disgust with this view"?

Some people, seeing only the arguments of other people's articles, immediately reject them. Of course, some arguments are wrong at a glance, such as "I love the truth, I especially love my teacher", and I abandon the truth and love the teacher, which is an erroneous view that does not need to be argued. However, some viewpoints must be judged by their arguments, not only to see whether the reasons used in their arguments are true and sufficient, and whether such viewpoints can be deduced from these reasons, but also to see whether their argumentation methods are scientific and effective.

If so, you can't arbitrarily dismiss someone else's point of view; If not, it is not possible to simply dismiss the view, because sometimes the point of view itself is correct, but the argumenter has not found a real and sufficient reason or method of argument to support the view. For example, if someone argues that "in order for man to live, he must have the conditions to live", and perhaps his reasons and methods of argumentation fail to support this view, but can you say that this view itself is wrong?

Therefore, the value of different academic views cannot be determined by irrational factors such as personal emotion, subjectivity, hegemony, power, status, and school.

It is foolish to think that a true scholar should be inclusive, and all valuable academic views, no matter what first-class school it is, and no matter who proposes it, should be inclusive.

Then find out why.

Of course, I am the best. ，

God just loves to joke, but his jokes are what ordinary people dare not make.

It's not all smooth sailing for everyone, and if you give up on yourself just because of such a difficulty, then you are really a failure.

How can you see the rainbow without wind and rain, now you are in trouble, if you look like this, it will definitely make people look down on you, you have to come on, make a comeback, everyone must be impressed, big sister (or big Jane which brother)! I'm only a primary school student, and I've been through a lot, failing the exam, and I'll say to myself, "Come on!" Look at me with those who look down on me!

Let them be defeated under my pomegranate skirt.

I've really been through this, and now the people in my class who look down on me have to give me three points.

Besides, there are more people who are worse than you! Edison went through a lot of hardships to invent the electric light, and if he had given up because of a little setback, we would all be in the dark now.

In the face of failure, we all have to be brave, if you are brave to fail, you are the winner, you also made a joke with God, win the day, that is the real ability, if you fall, you must stand up bravely.

Who in the world is smooth sailing?

Failure is not terrible, I am afraid that I can't face failure!

The first day of the person who prepares for hunger is set by heaven, and the second day is set by himself.

It doesn't matter if you're a big brother or a big sister. I hope you can get back on your feet, as for language communication skills, communicate with others more on the Internet, such as looking for me, you are very welcome, on my blog, talk to me more, help you improve your language skills, I can speak! or a book to improve language communication skills.

People have their lowest times! It's normal, you just don't have a goal, you don't have a direction! So when you feel that you are useless, it means that you have nothing to do, or the first person who says that you can't do anything well.

Then you should think about what you like, what you can do within your ability, only the things you like, or the things you are doing, can you do well, so that there will be no useless sense of loss.

How long have you felt this way.

Don't be discouraged, 99% of the people in this world are useless, they just eat and wait for death, and live happily.

After all, there are very few people who can change the world.

If someone needs you to argue about, you are useful, such as your loved ones!

I was born to have it, and I believe I can. There are always lows in life. It will definitely pass.

You can change it, you lack a sense of self-confidence, right?

A kind of unself-confidence. Lack of self-confidence can lead to negative regressive thoughts, such as fear of interpersonal relationships.

This is the case for many people in society now, including me.

First of all, you have to develop self-confidence and tell yourself in the mirror every day: I can do it! I'm amazing! I'm the best!

This is how Li Yang, a madman who is crazy about English, shouts out a mouthful of authentic English, and the premise is to carry out self-hypnosis first.

Secondly, we should exercise more, exercise to increase positive energy, the more discouraged and lost people are, the easier it is to fall into silence and unintentional activities. So be sure to exercise more, let yourself sweat enough, feel deep breathing, and experience the existence of personal life.

In the end, it doesn't matter if you are really not confident, just when we are prepared for the worst, then we can do our best to do it. As long as there is no worse state than expected, it is a good sign. Then little by little the requirements are raised, little by little more hard to improve.

Society is not easy to mix, it is not a good thing to be too optimistic, and too negative will also affect yourself. There are no truly perfect successful people in this world, everyone relies on their own efforts to achieve their goals. Don't always compare yourself with others, you have to see your own shining point, you always have something that others can't replace, which is enough to prove your uniqueness.

Having said all this, it is nothing more than to advise you to be confident. The cultivation of self-confidence depends on the individual, only when there is a sense of achievement, will you be more sure of yourself, you must work hard, you can.

At best.

In the face of society, there are many people who have gone bankrupt and gone bankrupt when they go to work, but there are still so many people who have no job, no career, and no self-motivation, you just have no confidence, afraid that things will not be done well, and that they will fail.

Go out for a walk more and run into walls more often, it will help you face the society, and at worst.

No one can do things overnight, and you know that you can't do anything well without hard work.

Edison invented the electric light and experimented more than 50,000 times.

It's not the first time you can invent it.

So don't be afraid of being frustrated, being frustrated can make you grow better, and it is recommended to set yourself a small goal that can be completed in the short term.

It will be very rewarding to make up your mind to yourself.

At that time, you can also say to your friends that my youth is as powerful.

It's just that the donor hasn't let go yet, and everyone only has one life, maybe the time was wasted before, but it's not too late to repent.

Confident ≠ Thaksin.

Self-confidence is your own belief, you can and you can, you say you are not confident, but I think the reason why you are not confident is more because you feel that others do not believe in you, others think you are useless, you are in the comparison with others to find that you are not as good as others, so you feel unconfident.

Have you ever wondered why you have low self-esteem? Because you always compare your own weaknesses to other people's strengths, you see others riding bikes and think that you can't, so you don't feel confident. You see someone else playing basketball, and you don't know it, so you're not confident. You see that others are good at picking up girls, but you don't have a girlfriend, you feel very frustrated and defeated, you feel that you are a useless person and useless.

Self-confidence is not because we know everything, but because we find ourselves capable of what others won't? Don't tell me you don't. You also said that your own appearance is the capital of your self-confidence.

Why do you always compare your own weaknesses with the strengths of others? Everyone has their own characteristics, and what you have to do now is not to be inferior, but to make up for your weaknesses and strive to play to your strengths and make up for your weaknesses at the same time. The reason why you don't act is because you always give yourself some negative thoughts, I am impatient, I am slow to learn anything, I am not willing to learn.

From now on, you have to tell yourself that I can learn what others do. When others learn for a month, I study for two months, and three months until I learn. The past is not equal to the future, and just because you failed in the past does not mean that you will fail in the future.

But if you just sigh here and don't act aggressively, then I can say that you will definitely fail in the future!

Don't talk about yourself, few people are born talented, and they all have to rely on their own efforts to climb to the top step by step.

Let's set a small goal for ourselves! Plan your life. When you have completed your first goal, you will feel very confident, take your time step by step, and believe that as long as you are willing to work hard and not give up, your life will be as full and wonderful!

Sometimes, be confident, you are the best, there is no problem to come out for a walk, take a look, the vitality of flowers and plants is so tenacious.

You can run freight, buy a car, and be your own boss.

You are thirty-one years old, why haven't you lived at all, what others think of you, what does it have to do with you, whether the shoes fit or not, you have to take the first step if you want to change, everyone is a person for the first time, who can do better than whom.

Find a small thing to support yourself first, don't increase the burden on your family, and then set a small goal, earn it 100,000 yuan, and then do a small business according to your own strengths, be serious, and the second half of your life is enough!

A person please don't see yourself as useless, you have to rely on your own efforts to do everything, you must have enough confidence, no. It is useless to see yourself, stand, don't take it as difficult to admit anything, as long as you muster up the courage, nothing is difficult, the preface says that there is nothing difficult in the world, as long as you are willing to go to Fan.

It doesn't matter what others think, the most important thing is that you must first look up to yourself, self-esteem, self-love, self-improvement, build confidence in yourself, set a goal, overcome difficulties, and move forward bravely. Believe in yourself, there is nothing difficult in the world, as long as you are willing to climb. Come on!

Learn a good skill in a down-to-earth manner, and don't want to be ambitious. The age is not young, do what you can, strengthen contact with the society, accumulate comprehensive knowledge, the new era needs new innovation, step by step, I believe that everything will be fine.

First of all, you have a pessimistic attitude and blame yourself, which increases the pressure and troubles on yourself, and the road ahead of you is sunny, don't compare, just be happy.

Can buddy be confident, if you don't have self-confidence, you can't do anything, it's over when you encounter difficulties, which entrepreneur is a success, not all of them grow up after failure, what are you worse than others, bad may be tenacious, personality is innate, it is difficult to change, but you reject the society because of low self-esteem, to put it bluntly, you have not exercised, you can choose a job for your own shortcomings, build confidence, you have to believe, others can do the same for you, nothing great,

You have to believe that I am born to be useful, it is impossible for a person to be useless, maybe it is just that you have not found a suitable or favorite job now, and there may be other problems. But this should not be a reason for you to lose confidence in yourself, you still have to be confident in yourself, optimistic, and also approach life with an optimistic attitude

To be confident, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, you have to plan a plan, which line to do, choose a goal, you have to work hard to do, and so on, your self-confidence will get better and better.

That's because you don't have a goal, give yourself a small goal every day, and then complete it, and over time you will slowly regain your self-confidence, self-confidence is very important for a person, and then you have to think about what you can do, take your time, do nothing in a hurry, have confidence in yourself, full of positive energy, full of positive energy, full of positive energy, full of positive energy, full of positive energy, everyone has a period of burnout, during this time, you really don't want to do anything at all, feel that you are particularly useless, I don't know anything, I can't do anything, everything is interesting, but after this time, it's fine.

Recognize yourself and adjust yourself. You can't become fat in one go, be pragmatic, live a down-to-earth life, find a job and work hard to do it.

Believe in yourself, be kind to yourself, find a job you like, and climb up little by little. Don't think that you're useless or something, you can get everything by working your own.

Be optimistic, you have your unique side, but you don't find it yourself, you only see the bad side of yourself, so you will say that you are very useless.