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Because love is very deep, it is true love, I hope he (she) can be happy, so let go, show no care or happiness in front of him, but you don't want him to know that you are very sad, so that he has no sorry and unbearable for you, love others again, maybe you also want to forget, want to show him, you have changed because of him, I am now in a situation with you, but I have become more lonely, often alone to walk those roads that have been walked.
I'm not qualified to comfort you, because I'm just like you
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You're not crazy, because you're too strong, and if you're too strong, it hurts, and I like sunflowers because they're strong. Always growing towards the sun, I won't bow my head easily, but I have to bear too much, I'm still in school, because I'm not sensible, I can't always tell the difference between being strong and being strong, I know, I'm definitely not going to experience as much as you, but, really, being too strong will turn into being strong, and it will hurt me more.
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Sometimes the necessary disguise is so good! Explain that you are a good girl. This is done so as not to cause sadness and anxiety to the people around you.
You're hurt, it's inevitable. Therefore, you need to face it with a good attitude, so that you can become your true self. A happy and fulfilling life awaits you, so don't worry too much.
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Let me talk about my own opinion: in fact, people don't want to deliberately disguise, they all want to live a true self, breathe freely, but the cruel reality of life has to force people to put on a disguise, put on a mask, to achieve their own various goals, there are too many examples of this in life, but whether intentional or unintentional, are all to adapt to life, maybe one day, when people no longer need to disguise, the world will become more transparent.
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That's because they are not people close to you, so they will take off their disguise in front of friends and family, and talk to family and friends more if they feel uncomfortable.
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Sometimes for self-preservation, sometimes for dignity.
Still others are there to achieve the goal.
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You can also find a close friend without pretending.
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People with bad character generally like to be greedy and cheap. Gentlemen love money and take it in a good way, people with good character know this truth very well, they put character in the first place in doing things, if there is immoral ill-gotten gains, they will not take it privately. People with bad character are different, they put their interests first, and they can abandon morality just for a little profit.
This is terrible, because they have no moral constraints, no bottom line, and can do crazy things for the sake of profit. When you are around such people, you must keep your distance and be vigilant.
People with bad character generally have no sense of gratitude. The grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by a spring, a person with good character is good to him, he knows how to repay you, make your contribution meaningful and affectionate, and work with them deeply, and each other will get better and better. But a person with a bad character is like a wolf, and if you give him kindness and feed him a piece of meat, he will want to bite off your hand and even eat you.
Such people are selfish, they will not be grateful for your kindness to him, they only care if you can be better to him, whether you can give him more of what you have for free, and they are a greedy white-eyed wolf.
People with bad character generally don't believe in their words. Words must be done and deeds must be fruitful, people with good character say whatever they say, but as long as they promise something, you don't have to worry at all, they will definitely give you a satisfactory result. But people with bad character, they like to be big, when you tell him, he gives you full of promises, swearing, but once you want the result, they do everything possible to shirk it, find all kinds of reasons and excuses.
In the end, not only did they delay your affairs, but they also said that you owe him character, which is really hateful.
People with bad character are generally good at camouflage. Gentlemen are frank and open, people with good character are doing right, what they are like in their hearts, what they show is what they are, and everything can be put on the table, which makes people feel very relieved. But people with bad character, they always wear a mask, and on the surface they call you brothers, but they stick knives in their backs.
This kind of person, unless you have suffered a loss, you can't see their face clearly, it is really terrifying.
Life is short, and we must not associate ourselves with people with bad character, even if they have a lot of money. You must know that nothing is more valuable than kindness, sincerity, integrity and morality, and choose to have a deep friendship with people with good character, and life will be beautiful and meaningful.
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The reason why details can't deceive people is because details can usually show a person's habits, even if this person is good at disguise, some of his habits will be inadvertently exposed.
A person who has love in his heart, his attitude towards the weak must be sympathetic and merciful, and even if he cannot help, he will not hurt the weak, because his character does not allow him to do so. On the contrary, people with bad character will always take pleasure in hurting the weak. People with good character, most of them have gratitude, after others have helped him, he will also have a sense of gratitude to that person, can not forget, and people with bad character will often "cross the river and tear down the bridge", when he needs the help of others, he can show his most humble side, and once others have no use value in his eyes, he will turn a blind eye to the former benefactor, as if a stranger.
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The personality that is good at disguise, the biggest feeling is that it is different from the outside, and after getting along for a long time, you will find the other side of it, and it is even difficult to find the other side of him.
The disguise of INFJINFJ can be said to be a kind of nature, an instinct, that is, it is unconsciously revealed in daily life, and it is not controlled, and few INFJs will directly show their true faces. INFJ is lonely and distant from people in the depths of his heart, but he usually shows his closeness to people when he comes into contact with people, and it can be said that his enthusiasm is real, and his coldness is also true.
In the eyes of many S personalities, INFJ speaks straightforwardly and has no scheming. The N personality will evaluate the INFJ as "cheerful" and has an extraordinary conversation. But in the final analysis, INFJs are still not good at socializing, they can only last for a while, and they can't do it like ENFP and ENTP to wander around various occasions, and all kinds of socializing will make INFJs collapse.
INFJ knew that he could not really integrate into the secular society like ENFJ, but hoped that he would not be so out of place like other IN, so he made many efforts, "disguise" was the limit of what they could do, and over time, "disguise" became a kind of character imprint of INFJ.
When dealing with INFJs, you don't have to worry about being deceived, and there is an essential difference between this kind of character disguise and deception. INFJ's disguise is just to make himself look like other personalities, or a mirror reaction, so that he can better fit into the circle, not to deceive others.
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