Did you create your own troubles or did someone else create them?

I think most of them are self-inflicted troubles, because the troubles brought to you by others are temporary, and you forget them after that, and the troubles you give yourself will always linger.

You should look at the problem in two ways, but the most important thing is your own state of mind and pursuit. No one can live a smooth life, it's just a matter of how to look at the troubles they encounter. Do your job and good luck.

Troubles, in fact, depend more on one's own perception of things. Different people will have different attitudes and opinions about the same thing, and your perception of things will determine whether you will be troubled by it. Therefore, it is most important to change your cognition, reduce your worries, and be happy!

Hello, the annoyance you mentioned is a negative emotion. The reasons for this are not only caused by their own factors, but also caused by external factors such as others, but in general, this will be different due to individual differences. Therefore, if you feel that you cannot solve the problems you have mentioned on your own, then I suggest that you actively seek professional psychological counseling services in emotional management and control that I provide you at this time, so that you can more effectively eliminate the psychological factors that cause your troubles, so that you can return to your normal life and mental state as soon as possible.

We often have all kinds of troubles, from life or work, from ourselves or others. We want to avoid human troubles.

Of course, this does not mean that we do not help our friends when they are in difficulty, and we must lend a helping hand in time if we can. And it's beyond your ability, even if you try your best, you can't do it, so don't have to go to help. Helping what shouldn't be helped, not helping.

In one story, the hostess of a family with ordinary living conditions, seeing that everyone around her has a new house of her own, encourages her husband to borrow money from relatives to buy a new house. Relatives are also reluctant to borrow too much money from him, each of them has money for the time being, if they don't borrow it, they can't get by; If you borrow the manuscript, there may be a conflict between the ideal and the reality.

In fact, I think that you can borrow this money if you want to, and don't feel sorry for your relatives, and be true to your heart. You may be wondering, isn't not borrowing money a sign of selfishness? This money was lent to him to buy a house, which was nothing more than to meet his own material needs.

Others don't have the money to borrow from you, and it is generous for you to borrow, but how can you realize your dreams? For the sake of kinship, should you lend out the savings you have saved over the years?

Relatives borrowing money from you to buy your own house is equivalent to creating a kind of trouble for you, but this kind of trouble should not be a trouble for yourself. The trouble created by others is the trouble of others.

Don't let the trouble caused by others become your own trouble, this is actually the principle of solving the problem with a liquid nucleus.