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Everyone has grievances, if you meet people, it is easy to create the impression of negative energy bursting on yourself, which makes people unhappy, and over time, no one wants to listen to your grievances and complaints. Everyone has their own things to be busy, and it is not easy for friends to meet once, what they want most is to have a drink together and find happiness. No one really wants to spend time listening to your grievances, and instead of listening to you nag and complain here, it's better to sleep at home.
So you can talk appropriately, but you can't always talk to a friend whenever you encounter something. Everyone needs positive energy, and no one has an easier life than others. The life of an adult is not easy for everyone.
Many people have broken teeth and have to face the spring breeze. The ease you see, I don't know how many unknown hardships there are behind it. You are trapped in your life and feel wronged, and those who are busy with their livelihood like you, under the tired shell of rushing, there are many of these unspeakable grievances, and the grievances that can be said are not grievances.
So don't always tell others about your grievances, it's really not a good thing to talk too much about grievances. When I was a child, I would confide in my friends when I was wronged, and I felt that good friends should be like this. When I grew up, I felt that everyone had their own troubles and pressures, and gradually they would not talk about their unhappiness with others.
When I encounter a little trouble, I will find a solution by myself, and I will just share happy things with friends who are rarely seen, and talk about the past. If you really want to talk to a friend, it depends on whether you have made a real friend or a fake friend, if you are a friend who is together purely for profit and pleasure, I don't think this can be regarded as a real friend, only a fellow traveler or playmate. The standard of true friends includes being able to talk to each other, which is also the core value of making friends.
Of course, you can't complain about grievances all day long like Xianglin's sister-in-law, everyone has their own independent life, and no one wants to listen to your grievances all day long. Therefore, it is enough to confide in friends appropriately, and the main thing is to rely on yourself to find a solution. Stop complaining to the people around you because of a little thing.
No matter how much grievances and sorrows we have, we must still grit our teeth and persevere, because we clearly understand in our hearts that these difficult days will eventually pass, and if we stand up again, the sky will be bright. Just like the cold winter, there is always a warm spring breeze. No matter how painful the night is, as long as we wait, the dawn will surely appear.
We need to understand that life doesn't let us go because of our crying.
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Hello, I feel wronged, it depends on what grievances, if there is really no other object to confide in, it is possible to confide in my brother, because there should be nothing to talk about between brothers, some work is not smooth, or grievances to confide in my brother, it is also very good, and it also belongs to pouring out my grievances, so that I will feel better.
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Get something off one's chest. If I am wronged, I first go to my brother to confide in me. Because after talking to them, I will be greatly comforted in my heart, and the depression and troubles in my heart will disappear.
Emotions towards yourself will be relieved. In this way, it is easy to adjust your mentality. It hurts to have a long-term backlog in your heart.
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If I am wronged, I will first confide in my brother. Because the relatives listened to them comfort themselves, they also received great comfort in their hearts, so that the big Buddha in their hearts was depressed, and their troubles would disappear. It's also a struggle process for your own emotions.
In this way, it is easy to adjust your mentality. It has been accumulated in the heart for a long time and has been hurt by the heart.
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I think it depends on the situation when you are wronged, some of course you will celebrate, but some of you can't talk about it. So this kind of thing should be case-by-case.
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If they are wronged, they usually confide in their brothers. Because since the two people are good brothers, it means that the relationship between the two people is very good, and if you are wronged and talk to your brother, you can get the comfort and persuasion of your brother, and you can make yourself feel better.
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In fact, people will suffer all kinds of unsatisfactory work and life in society, and they will suffer a lot of grievances, some things can be said to others, some things will be hidden in the bottom of their hearts, and they will be revealed to others, even the closest people may only talk to him after a long time, so this matter is divided into situations.
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I am wronged and will not confide in my younger brother, because everyone as an elder or looking for a person to confide in is relatively close, or between husband and wife, or girlfriends, good boyfriends, these good buddies can talk to each other, at least find my brother to confide, and it is also a matter of course, don't cause any pressure on my brother.
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Of course he will, my brother is my good buddy, my own brother, I tell him everything. I was frustrated at work and fell out of love, and he told him that he would help me settle it, so I am very grateful to my brother.
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After being wronged, I will confide in my brother, but the words of the family rarely say these things, after all, it is the family, I don't want them to worry, but if it is my brother or best friend, I think it is okay to confide, so you can also relax your mentality, otherwise you will hold it in your heart, and it will hurt your body for a long time.
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One, I usually don't tell others about my bad emotions, or bring negative energy to others, if I have endured it for a long time, I may need to vent, and I may find good friends to bring negative energy, which is very bad. So sometimes it's very bad to release the negative energy brought by visiting someone else, so sometimes it's better to release it yourself to relieve your bad emotions.
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If you have grievances, you can confide in your brother, but it is very unbearable to hold it in your heart, and it will be better to find someone to spit it out unpleasantly.
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I will not be like a brother when I am wronged. There is no point in talking to them. I'll talk to my parents and wife. Only they can really help me.
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When I have been wronged, I usually don't talk to my brother, because my brother must be very busy and has his own life, and adults have grievances and should learn to take responsibility for themselves.
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If I am wronged, of course I will confide in my brother. Because I was wronged, I was actually very aggrieved in my heart. If so, don't confide in others.
It's stuffy in my heart, and I feel very sad. Confiding in others can defuse such grievances. It's also a good way to adjust.
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I think I can confide in them if I have been wronged, on the one hand, I can let them give me ideas, how to solve such a thing next time? I can find it in other ways, and I can come back as a place to complain to them, and it can also calm my excitement.
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In fact, everyone who is wronged is to complain to their relatives, these are generally chosen spouses, and the elder brother will not reveal to his brother that he will not tell her bitterness like his brother, which is also an instinctive reaction.
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When I have been wronged, I will confide in my brothers, so that I can be comforted by them, and I will relax after I speak out. This is the good thing about brothers, and they can share difficulties. There is happiness to share, and there is bitterness to share.
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I come: I will not confide in my brother if I am wronged, because I have been wronged, and confiding in my brother will cause my relatives to worry, so although I have been wronged, I will not confide in my brother or brother, which will increase the tension of my relatives, and I will worry about your affairs, so I will not confide in my brothers and sisters when I am wronged. Done, thank you for your question, hope, thank you!
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If you are wronged, of course you will tell others, but your brother depends on whether he is very close to him? If you don't get close, you won't talk to him.
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When you have been wronged, will you confide in your brother? No, I will slowly adjust my mood by myself, and I don't want to confide in them, because I am afraid that they will worry, cause them psychological pressure, and affect their work and life.
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Sometimes when you are wronged, will you confide in your brother?
I don't think many of them would do that.
If it's particularly good, it probably is!
After all, what grievances does a man have to be wronged.
Bear it yourself.
It's not too different from sisterhood.
When sisters have something, they will complain to each other.
This is not the case between brothers and sisters.
I think all men are like this, and they have grievances.
It's usually hidden in the heart.
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No, because I'm a relatively independent person, I don't want to trouble others in the face of many things, I don't want to tell them because I don't want them to worry about me, and I often report good news but not bad news.
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Confiding in your brothers will cause your relatives to worry, so even if you have been wronged, you will not confide in your brothers and sisters, which will increase the tension of your relatives and worry about your affairs, so you will not confide in your brothers and sisters if you are wronged.
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I have been wronged, and I really want others to tell it like their own brothers, they will tell it like their own family, and it will be better to feel better when they say it, otherwise it will be very uncomfortable to hold it in their hearts, so everyone will be more or less wronged in life and study, work, try not to hold it in their hearts, and tell them to the people around them, which is good for your health and mood.
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If you are wronged, you will endure it, and you will suppress the anger in your heart, and you will not confide in your brother, no matter how bitter and tired you are as a man, you must be strong and not become fragile.
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If you are wronged, you will definitely not only talk to your own brothers, because there are some things that really cannot be said or put in your own heart.
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Yes, but I recommend not.
I also often encounter this situation at work, where there is confusion and friction between colleagues. Telling my parents that I thought I could be comforted, but I didn't expect to be counted, or that you were making a big fuss, that this is not a big deal at all, and that I thought you should be able to bear it, so it made me even more depressed, and I couldn't comfort myself when I thought about why my parents treated me like this.
Sometimes I actually think about the reasons why things happened, whether I made mistakes, what I should do appropriately, and complaining to my parents is not to get the real truth. I'm just in a bad mood, I only have you, who else can I talk to, can I put aside the so-called truth, stand with me, just want you to comfort and comfort me, hug me, and scold them with me, saying that they are really bad, why are they bullying my baby child so much, after scolding, what should I do or what will I do.
In other words, in addition to the work you actually do and the value you create, the salary you earn also includes the grievances, unfair treatment, and various miscellaneous and oppressive jobs that you need to suffer. When a person integrates into society, the performance of maturity and calmness is to learn to adjust his mentality in the face of grievances, and after being sad, he will be positive, have a long memory, and find a solution, and this will not happen next time.
Know what you should care about and what you don't. Grievances, sadness, and complaints after being wronged are actually a waste of your time, so it's better to spend this time doing something that makes you happy to alleviate it, or use it to help yourself and be positive and optimistic.
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When people reach middle age, they are reluctant to tell their families when they encounter grievances and pressure, so they face it alone and take on their own responsibilities. I think it's better to find a breakthrough to release the pressure and let myself vent. But if you talk to your family about your grievances and pressures, you will feel more comfortable!
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When people encounter work pressure in middle age, they can confide in their families, they will feel better when they say it, they will reduce the pressure when they say it, and their family can share the pressure with you, and it is more suitable to say it than to choose to bear it yourself.
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When people reach middle age, they won't confide in their parents at home when they encounter many things, so why bother making their parents unhappy if they are unhappy, worry about it every day.
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It's okay to talk about it appropriately, but first think about whether confiding in them can you get stress relief? If you can, let's talk about it, but you still can't let your parents worry too much, after all, people are middle-aged, and their parents are older, so you still have to think about them. There will be a lot of grievances and pressures in life, so it is better to find a hobby or a good friend or other outlet to talk about and release.
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Family is the biggest motivation and support, if there is pressure, you can talk to your family, so that everyone can get through the difficulties together, and with their support, life will become more energetic, so don't carry it alone.
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When people encounter grievances and pressure at work in middle age, they can confide in their family members and get their understanding and support.
If you are wronged by someone else, of course tell your husband. If you get angry with your husband, talk to your friends.
You should be able to tell your parents that when you encounter a problem that you can't solve, communicating with your parents in a timely manner is very helpful to resolve the unhappiness in your heart, because your parents are the best people in the world for yourself, and they also have experience, and they will tell you how to deal with the current problems correctly.
I would choose to drink and order a lot of barbecue and a glass of soju by myself without the company of others. This is the best way to comfort yourself.
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No, because I think it will make the person I like turn aversion to me, and I won't be able to pursue the other person better.