I have been wronged by my boyfriend, should I tell my parents about it?

When you enter marriage, it is no longer like a single life, it is necessary to face a husband, mother, children. Women should not only pay and be rational, but also establish peace and Xi'an, so the family will be more harmonious. In marriage, the most taboo is to tell outsiders at home.

You don't know if you're saying that, what the other person thinks, or even turning things into another story, often hurting, is a family and yourself.

Feelings can create a crisis, and the marriage will fall into a desperate situation. Whether it is a marriage or a person, it is necessary in this way, this principle and truth!

Women are different from men, women are more sensitive and have enteritis.

Change is good, when they encounter big things, they will be chaotic and they can't make ideas. Moreover, the woman is still hidden in her heart, and once the family or something happens, I want to find someone to share it with, but ignore the inch.

There are words that you can talk to someone else, but there are words that you can't say no even if you write again!

In fact, the contradiction between this part of the mother-in-law is actually "transparent thinking". Even if you live with your own personal parents, it usually has contradictions, but a family is still a family, and soon, things have passed, but the contradictions of the mother-in-law are not so simple.

1. Don't say too much to your parents, about your husband and wife.

Parents say that the most painful child, as well as the most incredible to see you receive some grievances.

So you must not let it happen to your parents, because the parents will instinctively prefer you and blame the son-in-law, which will lead to a lot of stress on the lover, there will be a lot.

It's bedside bed tail and simple stuff. Once the parents are involved, the parents on the other side will also involve it, and the simple questions will be complicated, becoming the knot of the two families, how the last husband and wife can do it, it is better to close the door. Two people get settled!

2. Privacy between husband and wife is the most smug statement.

This is a very private topic between two people. It is also the one who is the most adherent of this kind of thing, and the person is paying attention to the evaluation of it. Whether you do it or not, men don't want outsiders to mix.

In a family, people and people are most in need, it is tolerance and understanding, even if you can't see the members of the family, you have to learn to shut up, you can't go out, showing your inner dissatisfaction will only make your relationship worse!

These things are often in trouble in marriage, and when they are dissatisfied, I can find a way to find myself, not to say, this will only be low, it is also easy to cause unnecessary controversy, find the most appropriate way, find trouble!

No, you can solve this matter completely on your own, if you tell your parents, then the relationship between you will really come to an end, if you don't want to break up, then don't tell your parents.

I don't think you should tell your parents about it, they will only have a worse and worse impression of your boyfriend.

No, you should find a way to solve this matter on your own, and don't let this matter be known to anyone, not even the kindest people.

What should I do if my boyfriend is wronged because of my parents? Break up with your boyfriend. Find out why your boyfriend and family are fighting.

If it's because of your boyfriend's problem, guide him and him to find out the reason for his quarrel with his family, and then slowly guide him to let him know that it's because of himself. Always remember not to communicate with him when he has a bad temper, wait until he is emotionally stable and calm down, and then talk to your boyfriend patiently. A mature person will use a more rational and effective way to resolve disputes, not just quarrels.

If you cry in front of your parents, it can make people think that you are immature, at least because you don't have enough emotional intelligence...If you cry in front of you after leaving, you are actually looking for someone to confide in his grievances and sorrows. At this time, what he needs is to behave like a baby by your side, with someone to comfort him, and he doesn't really want someone to talk to.

It will be more effective to accept his emotions first, let him release them, and then communicate with each other. You've been in front of your boyfriend, first ask why you're arguing. As a squad leader, you can definitely see the reason for their quarrel.

But you don't have to deny yourself first. You first agree that your boyfriend's idea is correct, and when his psychological state is relieved to a certain extent, you can admit that his parents, in my opinion, are good for him, but this approach is wrong. But don't worry too much.

Older people, they just like to behave in their heads.

We young people, Shura, have a global mindset, so we are afraid of anything. What's more, it's not easy for mom and dad to raise such a big child, so let's let it pass. In the end, you will be touched by love and sanity and apologize to your boyfriend.

There was an overnight hatred and I firmly believe that our relationship will get better and better. The first thing to do at this time is not to ask him what happened, but to be by his side silently, to calm his emotions, to give him comfort and encouragement. At this time, you can't keep talking in their ears, or you'll make them do it.

The already annoying mood becomes more irritable, we can hold him quietly, this silent encouragement is more suitable for his current mood, and wait until the boyfriend's mood gradually calms down.

I think the reason why your boyfriend will tell his parents about your time together is probably because he cherishes this relationship. And as you said, you are both the kind of people who don't fall in love easily, so you will be very serious when you talk about hail and fall in love.

And then being able to tell your parents about yourself and his affairs is really a very difficult thing to guess, and there is a feeling of treating you as a daughter-in-law. So cherish it!

In reality, some people don't tell their parents after falling in love, because they are not sure about love, so they choose not to say it. This can also show from the side that your boyfriend is sure of this love, and Sui Yanzhao still hopes to marry you home.

It should be normal for your boyfriend to tell his parents about you and ask his parents to help him on the counselor.

You need to have a communication with your parents about this. Here are some suggestions that might help:

1.Listen to them: It's important to make your own decisions, but it's also important to listen to your parents' thoughts and concerns.

They may think that marriage is a tradition and a responsibility that must be fulfilled, but you can try to get them to understand you better by asking them questions and listening to their ideas.

2.Explain why: If you decide not to get married, try to explain your reasons.

You can say that you are more focused on your career, comfortable and independent, or you have had a bad experience with your marriage, etc. Letting your parents know what you think and why you make decisions may make them understand you better.

3.Try to reach a compromise: If your parents have been insisting that marriage is a must, you can try to reach a compromise with them.

For example, you can promise to see as many friends as possible, or in the future consider becoming a family friend with children or a godson, godson, goddaughter, etc.

4.Seek professional help: If your parents are very stubborn and can't understand your thoughts, you can try seeking professional help.

Some agencies offer advice on how to deal with parental objections, and sometimes the views of professional agencies can make your parents more understanding of your decision.

Ultimately, you need to remember that this is a very important decision in your life, and while your family and people around you may disagree, you need to trust your decision and try to find ways to reach consensus with others.

Summary. This incident was originally caused by your quarrel, and now both parties are not very calm, so it is recommended that you wait for this matter to be dealt with, and then calmly think about how to deal with the future. The most important thing for you now is to heal the nose injury and not leave a bad sequelae, what do you think?

Hello, can you tell us about the specific situation? This is more conducive to helping you, I am a national second-level psychological counselor, I am willing to be your listener, I hope to help you!

I don't know, we quarreled at noon, he couldn't do it, I was injured in the afternoon with a broken nose and more than a dozen stitches on my forehead, and when I was stitching, he called my mother ** and told my mother that I was injured, and I touched it myself, I was with him at his construction site, and the people who saw the construction site said that I was injured myself.

How did you cause your specific injuries?

Fainting face down in the toilet became like this.

But he didn't believe it, he just said that I ran into it when I took the earbuds, blamed me for not admitting it, and I didn't bother to fight with him, and the injury had to be dealt with as soon as possible. Through such things, you can actually see the other party's personality clearly, and if you can't give you love and help in such a situation, do you think you can count on it in the future? On the other hand, it's worth it to get hurt, so you don't have to get hurt again in the future, don't you think?

When he saw someone, he said that I touched my earbuds, and I was wrong to clean up the toilet before I came out and told him that I was injured, and I fell and fainted in the toilet, but he just said that I was touching my own things, and who told my mother the same thing, is he dissociating himself?

His behavior is already obvious, that is, he is afraid that others will say that he hurt you!

That means it's time for us to say goodbye.

His current behavior, which I analyzed with you, is like this, and he will definitely avoid similar things in the future, and even avoid responsibility. How is his current relationship with you? How concerned did he show about it? It's up to you to judge.

He saw that I was injured and took me to the hospital, scolding and scolding his brother along the way about me, I didn't say a word, the cost of him out, said that when I had a broken nose, he asked me if I did a nose, I said it was true, I heard that the nose fracture was going to be hospitalized and showed very impatience, last night when he returned to the residence he couldn't eat anything but porridge, no porridge I could only swallow dry rice, he didn't say a word, like this kind of separation of the relationship can you still want, in the morning called me up early to run, buy vegetables back and let me help pick up the vegetables and call me to wash the vegetables, Tetanus shots this morning, I said hit him in the morning, he said I didn't speak in the afternoon, he said he was busy in the morning, go in the afternoon, and then he said wait, I said he didn't care about me, I still don't speak, I'll go back and see if he did anything for me to eat.

This incident was originally caused by your quarrel, and now both parties are not very calm, so it is recommended that you wait for this matter to be dealt with, and then calmly think about how to deal with the future. The most important thing for you now is to heal the nose injury and not leave a bad sequelae, what do you think?

Did your family make him ugly? The reason? If he loves you very much, I don't think he will feel that it is a grievance, and you don't need to explain too much, you just have to love him as always, aqui te amo.

Your boyfriend went to your house and suffered a lot of grievances, of course, to comfort her.

I think it's right for you to love him. Why did he go to your house to be angry, I think you said your boyfriend too lowly, and you also made him angry, it is estimated that if you want to improve his status, you need your love with him, and if you really love him, you have to put him in your heart, the most important position.

I think if it's his parents' fault that you have been wronged, I think you should explain the situation to your boyfriend, but it's still not good to be angry and angry!

I think, don't have a seizure, if you are wronged, you can tell your boyfriend.

You shouldn't have a seizure because it's not your boyfriend's fault, you can talk to him and let him talk to his parents, but don't get angry with him.

If the elders have any misunderstanding about you, it's good to explain it clearly, but if it's deliberately making things difficult for you, don't care, you and your boyfriend will live with you, not with his parents.

You can say to your boyfriend privately that you two have a good talk.

You shouldn't have a seizure in front of your boyfriend's parents, and wait until you're in private to get angry with your boyfriend.

No, learn to tolerate and don't make things difficult for your boyfriend.

I don't think you should have a seizure, it will make it difficult for your boyfriend.

No, you can tell your boyfriend and let him figure it out.

It's best to endure it in front of your elders. When you are two people in private, you can express your feelings to your heart's content, and only let him understand your feelings and understand the truth of the matter first, so as not to be too passive.

In the days when both men and women are together, they will always encounter such and such problems, of course, including parents, when you have problems before, your boyfriend suddenly pointed the finger at your parents when you quarreled, no matter what, he is not qualified to blame as a junior, especially in front of you, it should not be blamed, if he really treats you like this, seriously, your boyfriend is really not good, you can completely reconsider whether to be with him, Blaming each other's parents is a sign of lack of quality, and it is easy to see that he is not very good at heart and has no education at all.

As the saying goes, sin is not as good as parents, and it is not as bad as wife and children. No matter what happens to the two of you, if you are angry and feel uncomfortable again, you can't blame each other's parents, this is irresponsible and disrespectful to each other. Think about it this way, when a person is angry, he actually loses his mind, and begins to criticize anything indiscriminately, the six relatives don't recognize it, and he doesn't care about anyone or anything, such a man, do you think you can continue to walk with him?

If one day, he gets angry, is it possible to scold and beat you together? It's so disrespectful to your elders, let alone others.

Even if our parents do something wrong, we, as juniors, as their children, can only persuade, not blame, this has nothing to do with right or wrong, this is the respect and respect that juniors should have. Therefore, your boyfriend, as a normal person, even if your parents really do something wrong, should give you advice instead of blaming the elders, which I have never encountered and never thought about. Now he can do this, and his children will do the same in the future, without the corresponding respect between people, there is no way to maintain the normal order of this society, and there will be no care and love between people.