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The thing you're most worried about right now is your studies! Because of the pressure of schoolwork, you think a lot more than usual. Looking back on the past, thinking of my parents, and thinking of my future is still confused.
That's why I'm so frustrated! However, you also have to see your strengths, see where your strengths are, and regain confidence little by little. For a girl who studies computer science, it is good to go to graduate school, and you will have an advantage in employment than those who have graduated from the same major with a bachelor's degree.
This is something you must recognize by now. For your family, if your life is good, they will be relieved, they do not ask their children to do anything, as long as you are good. So you don't have to worry about how to treat them in the future to be the best reward for them.
Call home often, and after you have a job and can be independent, work hard to provide them with a better life. Surround them.
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I also just finished reading the triple gate, everyone's life will not be smooth sailing, but it will not always be smooth, the time will naturally change, it is best to learn to find what interests you, and be optimistic.
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As long as you get the idea, it's never too late.
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Everyone gets lost sometimes.
I just finished the college entrance examination, and my score is not very satisfactory.
I don't know what to volunteer for that day.
Don't know what to do.
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The brain and the annoyance are the same shape, but the difference is mainly between the heart and the moon. The heart is hidden in the belly, and the moon is in the eyes. So annoyance is not a kind of mental illness, hidden in the stomach, naturally related to the heart, isn't it, ask yourself, what's wrong with you.
Maybe life has no appetite, maybe it's too hard, or maybe it's a lot more things in life, or maybe you don't know anything?
Same day, same time, same run, same life, same life choices. Surprise with a little excitement, a new beginning, will always be such a beginning, isn't it, or you also exist like this, maybe life always starts with pursuit, and the starting point will always start with joy.
We chase as hard as we can, and we always run forward. I don't want to stop, I don't want to be the end of the ending, forward, forward, eagerness with a kind of urgency, forgetting time, forgetting life, forgetting everything, isn't it very light, but also very pleasant, the final ending, don't forget that this is just the beginning.
Later, I can't remember how long it was, how long it was, whether you also forgot that there were many, many companions running with you, so they all existed like you, and how many ups and downs you have gone through in the long years of time, whether it was distress or pain, no one will know.
Your choice, your run to another city. And in another city, you have the same speed, the same smile, the same life, the same friends, but you have less of a natural heart, too many mistakes to worry about life.
Eventually, life becomes troubled, is it a reproach, or is it still a kind of self-motivation, or is it a kind of decadence? All kinds of life, all kinds of busyness, all kinds of activities, have also become slaves of life, and growth is not a kind of enjoyment, but also an extra layer of trouble.
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How is it possible for a person to live without troubles and frustrations? There is no such thing as "perfection" in this world, just like everyone has their own shortcomings and strengths, and there are two sides to everything. It is precisely because we have experienced a lot of setbacks that we know how to better face life, face life, and it is precisely because of these troubles and setbacks that our lives have filled our lives, making our lives more colorful, since we have chosen the distance, it is necessary to go through ups and downs, when we encounter troubles and setbacks, we must not give up, we must be brave to face it, overcome it, overcome it.
The world is impermanent and indefinite, but we will always have all kinds of illusions and attachments to these impermanent things and indefinite things, and it is difficult to really understand them in the present, so that some beautiful things are very easy to leave deep memories in our hearts and make us linger. And the unsatisfactory of the present produces annoyance and pain. In life, there are as many worries as there are; There will be as much joy as there is tolerance.
What I want to express most is often what I want to say and rest. Forget the friends who have no fate, forget the feelings that you have invested in but cannot be harvested, forget the troubles of flowers blooming and falling, forget the sighs of the fleeting sunset, and forget all the things you don't want to remember. Life should be sublimated into a quiet and detached spirit, know how to give up, learn to forget, and reap happiness.
Everyone will have troubles, unhappy, depressed, and tired, and people's lives cannot always be wonderful. Our lives do not stop because of troubles, and people do not become unable to live because of problems. It's hard to live because society is very unfair, It's helpless to live because life is like this, No one's life is smooth sailing, and you have to be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart.
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Hello! Why do people have so many troubles?
I think the first thing is yourself, people will evolve as they grow, and when they reach the point where they can control their own tastes, there will be a lot of things that are not satisfactory.
That's when troubles followed.
Frustration will only be encountered when you have not yet reached that ability, it is normal for people to encounter setbacks in their lives, if people are smooth sailing, then life will not be so colorful.
We all know that we will be sad after being frustrated by some kind of emotion, but I will give you a word, sadness is due, but you must learn to regulate yourself, people's lives are not a few moments, 10 years and 8 years will pass in a blink of an eye, you should spend every day happily if you can live, don't let the negative taste dilute the years.
People should live when they are happy or sad, so living happily will make you know how to experience life better.
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All of us face more or less the same troubles and frustrations.
The key is to see how aggressively you have to deal with them.
Withdrawing all the time.
Keep working hard to solve your troubles.
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Hello, this may be a kind of true expression of your helplessness about life's troubles, many people have experienced different things, but there are such and such troubles, troubles are inevitable in life, but you have to learn how to resolve, alleviate, face, recognize that troubles are the most important, don't expect others to relieve you of troubles, don't run away from troubles, don't be knocked down by the current difficulties, can't sit still, we have many ways to solve difficulties and troubles, know that it's difficult, but you have to act, Also, don't expect too much from life, so that you don't feel less disappointed in the people or things around you and have unnecessary worries. Oh, theoretically, everything depends on your own efforts, and there are usually less desires, less comparisons, and a balance of mentalityBe content and happy.
When you encounter something that doesn't go your way, you might as well find someone who has believed in it to vent, listen to other people's opinions, and maybe you can get some useful inspiration. It is recommended not to stay at home and surf the Internet during the day, put your worries aside, ask your friends to go outside for a walk and play, breathe in the fresh air, feel the atmosphere outside, and I believe that you will feel different when you come back. I hope my answer is helpful and enlightening to you, and I wish you a happy and happy (*
Open your heart and be original.
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1.It's only been more than a month since you've known each other, and you should be happy if people have a good impression of you, if you can tell you that you love you in a month, it's love at first sight, and the odds are very rare and unreliable.
2.In fact, the boy is right to take the initiative, this point should be insisted on, the other party has not taken the initiative because at the beginning, the other party still has a wait-and-see attitude, you shouldn't contact her every day, right?
3.Feelings cannot be cultivated, but slowly understand each other's personalities, to see if they are suitable for being together, and it takes time to understand their personalities.
4.I don't know how many times you've been out in just over a month? Shouldn't it be much, right? It's normal for you to consume, boys can't care too much about these, otherwise they will give the impression of being stingy, if people are not satisfied, then can you still date?
5.After all, I just met, I don't have to worry about meeting my parents, there is no point in seeing you now, and it's not too late to see you when the relationship is really confirmed.
6.It's better to meet more of your situation, and gradually get acquainted with each other, and get along more comfortably, and the situation will be better. Now it's easier to get cranky because you don't know each other.
7.Regarding the question of walking for ten minutes, the other party shouted that he was tired, You Kuanyu, did the other party wear high heels, what place did you go to walk, did you go to a dating place? Did you explain it to her in advance?
Every time I go out and shout that I am tired, do I ask her if she likes to skate, some girls separate sports and dating, and don't like to slip away for too long when dating. Since the other party shouted that he was tired, did you stop and rest in time, you must learn to take into account the feelings of girls, after all, girls' physical strength is still worse than that of boys, and you must learn to understand.
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To be honest, I'm afraid of such a problem, but I sympathize with you, say something of my own thoughts, love may be very important to you, but it's not all of yours, life is just a few decades, you're wasting your life, calm down and think about whether you really care about him, there are a lot of details, if you really have fate or worthy of your love, try again and try your best to cherish, if you feel very entangled, let it go, there is a loss, there is a gain, a brave breakup is good for you and him, in short, you must calm down, Don't let yourself fall into this entangled complex, don't do anything stupid, face life confidently and you will be rewarded with what you deserve, believe in yourself, and don't let others see jokes. Hope it helps. Good luck.
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