What should I do if I have some physical defects and others keep laughing at me?

Life will have some effect on your mood, but I still hope you don't take it to heart. It is precisely because we have some physical defects that we must make our hearts stronger, so that we can resist some ridicule from the outside world.

As we grow older, we will find that we are very different from others. Some different places make us proud, and some different places make us feel inferior. When I walked in the society for many years, I realized that no matter how ordinary life is, it will shine with the light of humanity, such as your sincerity.

It's just that these rays of light may not be seen by the world, nor may they be appreciated by yourself. So, in college, what you need to learn is not only those courses, but more importantly, learn to accept and recognize yourself, see your own light, appreciate them, they are something you should be proud of. As Jane Leely said, loving oneself is an ability.

Learn this ability, and the place where you feel inferior will still exist, but when others despise you, you will tolerate yourself. When you tolerate yourself, you don't get hurt a lot.

It's not right to laugh at them, they think how healthy they are, it's because they laugh at others, so they're not a healthy person. You can say this to them. Besides, you try to convince them of you when you get along.

This way they will respect you more and will not see you as a flawed person. Give it a try!

When I was in college, I didn't want to participate in the school sports meeting as a fat man, and I wasn't even interested in sightseeing. But my roommate in the same dormitory didn't know which tendon in his brain was pumping and suggested that we quote 4 400 in a dormitory, I agreed, and I asked a good friend in high school who was particularly good at running how to run. On the day of the race, I happily went to report to the check-in office, but was stopped by our counselor, who asked me very sternly about the lower bunk (the president of the student union of our department, the teacher's favor) How do you take her to run, change people for people.

I was embarrassed to go down and said, "We have a dorm and say okay." So I spoke, staring at the instructor Today I'm done. After saying that, I went to check it out myself.

However, the fat man is not physically strong, he started like a missile, ran to the last 100 meters and felt that his arms and legs were not his own, and when he was about to reach the finish line, he desperately gave the stick to the next person, and then fell down at the finish line. In the end, we finished fourth. Later, my roommates said that I was very good, I started to run very fast, and I didn't fall behind, hahaha, whether it was comfort or not, thank them.

After that day, I really didn't mind people saying I was fat. Before, others said that they would not turn their faces or act unhappy and sad, but they felt uncomfortable.

People who are not as good as me laugh at me, and I will not care about it, because this ridicule has no nourishment. People who are my equivalent laugh at me, and I will stay away because I don't want to cause the smoke of strife. People who are far better than me laugh at me, and I will be wary and introspective, taking this opportunity to improve myself.

I would take this ridicule as a nutrient absorption to improve myself.

It used to be inferiority to the point that it was not good, and I didn't dare to look up when talking to people, I didn't dare to look at each other, unless I was a relative and a girlfriend, otherwise three meters away was a safe distance for me not to be nervous (especially the opposite sex), although now the inferiority complex still exists, but it's much better, I used to care about it, some people's unintentional curiosity will hurt me, or someone on the street looks at me and whispers to the people around me, I think I'm talking about me, but now the nerves are getting thicker and thicker, even if I wonder if they are talking about me, I will secretly reply, If you like to discuss, you can discuss, anyway, I won't be short of meat.

I think I also need to learn to be strong and not care too much about what other people think.

I'm a junior now, and I also have low self-esteem: I don't think I'm good-looking, and I'm still short (164, I still studied in the Northeast in college...) I like to play basketball, but I don't play very well; The family is poor and has applied for a student loan; Speaking with a strong southern accent; Not very daring to speak in front of the public either!

I chased a high school classmate and was rejected, and I was sad for a long time. I fell in love with a girl again some time ago, and I guess it's no fun.

I think you shouldn't be able to live in the eyes of others, no matter what others say, as long as you adjust your mentality, it doesn't matter, because the facts have already happened

Do you know a little girl who is still in school, every summer, everyone else wears a skirt, short sleeves, shorts, and I should wear a long dress for fear of being ridiculed for the long-haired monster, no matter how hot it is, eh.

1.First of all, it is necessary to help him change his negative thinking and make him understand that his physical defects are not bad luck, but a special gift that can give him unique abilities and give him the confidence to change his destiny.

2.Secondly, let him know that he has the ability to change his destiny, let him understand that his efforts and wisdom can change the future, do not be limited by reality, and have the courage to pursue his dreams.

3.Finally, give him more support to know that he is not alone, that he has friends and family with him, and that he will be able to get out of the situation and achieve his dreams.

If your friend feels inferior because of a physical disability, here are some ways you can help him get rid of his inferiority complex:

Encourage him to know himself: Tell him that physical impairments do not affect his intrinsic worth and abilities. Encourage him to recognize his strengths and strengths and focus on developing and improving his strengths.

Walk with him through difficult times: Accompany him through difficult times, listen to him speak from his heart, and provide him with comfort and support.

Help him discover new interests: Help him discover new interests and hobbies and encourage him to get involved in them as a way to boost his self-confidence.

Seek counseling with him: If his low self-esteem cannot be resolved on his own, he can be advised to seek professional counseling.

Be aware that questions about low self-esteem can be complex, so the best approach is to seek help from a professional. Let your friends know that he is not alone and that there are many people who can help him.

People with physical defects are generally more introverted, full of distress and sorrow, and often feel inferior. Some of them are shy and reserved in group situations or in front of unfamiliar people because of their limited mobility and narrow range of communication, and they dare not take the initiative to socialize with normal people. These heavy mental burdens will make their spiritual needs more urgent and important than their material needs.

They especially crave genuine friendship, respect, trust, and affection, but when they are ridiculed, coldly treated, or treated unfairly by others, they are also more likely to trigger bad emotions such as anger and depression.

Therefore, when we associate with such people, we should pay attention to the little things that are easily overlooked. Sometimes, for you, it is just a big sentence blurted out, but for them, it means a huge blow and humiliation. And if you avoid saying such things, they will feel your sincerity and thoughtfulness, and they will be touched by you, and they will treat you as their best friend.

Other people will also have an impression of you being polite, well-spoken, and understanding.

When Zijun was in college, she had a classmate who had a serious inferiority complex and thought she wasn't beautiful enough. No boy likes it. Because of this, every time she knows a girl, she always mercilessly points out the shortcomings of the girl's appearance in order to achieve her own psychological balance.

The girl who was told by her was immediately like being pricked by a needle, and the others were also embarrassed and didn't know how to play a round.

The same goes for boys. Once, she fell in love with a boy, and the boy also had a great affection for her, and everyone hoped that love would change her. But as a result, before love could transform her, she destroyed love.

The boy had a little beard, and she said, "Haven't you fully evolved?" "The boy had sweaty feet, and his sneakers always stinked, and when she found out, she yelled in front of many people

Ah! You've got Hong Kong feet! Similar words always popped up without warning and regardless of the occasion, and the boy was too embarrassed to deal with it.

In desperation, he had no choice but to leave her with "the sea of bitterness is boundless, and turning back is the shore".

In fact, this girl has many advantages, and her heart is not bad, but because she likes to laugh at other people's physical defects, she has become the most unpopular one at the party, because everyone is afraid that she will say something embarrassing to them. Moreover, although she does have some beauty, she is still the only one in the class who does not have a boyfriend after four years of college.

This girl cares a lot about the minutiae of other people's lives, even the slightest fault or flaw of others, and points them out in harsh words. I wonder if she ever thought about what the mood of the person she satirized would be? Will those people still see her as a friend after being hurt?

No one is perfect. "If you are too demanding in your pursuit of perfection and too demanding, you will miss out on a lot of good things! The narrowness of the mind will eventually make oneself unable to see the sun, and make oneself without friends.

People with physical defects are generally more introverted, full of distress and sorrow, and often feel inferior and disappointed. Some of them are shy and restrained in group occasions or in front of unfamiliar people because of their limited mobility and narrow range of communication, and they dare not take the initiative to interact with normal people, and there is a sense of estrangement. These heavy burdens imposed on them by the spirit will make them look at spiritual needs more than material needs, and they especially crave sincere friendship, respect, trust, and equality, and when they are ridiculed, coldly treated, or distrusted, or treated unfairly by others, they are more likely to cause grievances, grievances, or other emotions.

Compared with normal people, people with physical defects will encounter more and greater difficulties, such as difficulties in study, work, life, and so on. Physiological defects limit their activities, career choices, work and learning. Therefore, they need care, help, support and encouragement from others more than normal people, so that they can see the value of life and feel the warmth of society.