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Hehe, believe her, if he loves you, you believe him, hehe.
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Wow. It looks like you're going to become a master of spiritual love.
Fall in love only by consciousness, and there is no action to be desired.
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Yes. Maintain a daily exchange with content. It doesn't matter if you're on WeChat, you have to communicate every day, not a hello of morning and good night, but a good chat about what's going on today, how you feel, and what your mood is.
Tell each other more about your happiness and sadness, and don't be afraid of trouble and interruptions.
It's okay to quarrel, don't have a cold war. It is inevitable to fall in love and quarrel, but long-distance relationships can't be cold wars, there are not many opportunities for communication, once the cold war starts, if you don't contact for too long, the relationship will be the same as a direct breakup, and a fake breakup will become a real breakup. Use a sense of ritual to advertise that you are not single.
Use couple avatars, background pictures of the circle of friends, wear couple jewelry, etc., and promote their non-single status in all aspects.
Long-distance relationships have a weak sense of existence for lovers, so on the one hand, they feel the state of love through a sense of ritual, and on the other hand, it is also to give their partners a sense of security.
See you every once in a while. The meeting can be agreed upon or a surprise without a greeting, but it must be included in the schedule. After that, I collected the train and plane tickets for the departure, and reminded myself that I could still meet even though I was separated by two places.
Speak the question. When encountering contradictions, let the problem be exposed as soon as possible, speak out, and don't sulk. In a long-distance relationship, a person sulks in life, and most of the other party doesn't know, and cranky thinking will only make him get into the horns, and then want to make the problem disappear by ending the relationship.
In fact, many times, as long as you talk about the problem, you have already taken a big step towards solving it. Progress together. There must be a reason for you to be separated from each other, maybe in order to pursue your dreams, you have to endure such a time of separation and hard work.
Don't forget that the separation now is for the sake of getting together better in the future, and becoming better independently of each other, just to come together and have a better future.
Do the same thing and let the feelings be in sync. Being away from each other is just separating the two places, but you can still do the same thing and share your feelings with each other. Watching the same movie, listening to the same song, reading the same book, and then discussing and communicating about it later is a great way to create a shared experience.
Keep track and follow the status of your respective social networks. Sharing life through major social platforms has become the daily life of modern people, and many people will neglect to pay attention to the social interaction of lovers because of the intimate identity of lovers.
But for long-distance relationships, keeping an eye on and commenting, and tracking dynamics is not only a window to understand each other's status, but also a way to communicate and interact, and it should be involved. Trust each other. Long-distance relationships can easily lead to distrust and misunderstandings, many times even if it is a trivial matter, because of the long-distance relationship, the problem will be magnified, so we should pay attention to accumulating trust, give each other enough trust, and make yourself credible enough to eliminate all the possibility of being misunderstood.
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There were. Suggestion.
1.Both parties must agree on a time to have the opportunity to meet offline.
2.It is necessary to have a certain amount of communication every day to share the daily life of oneself (so that both parties can understand some of the status of each other's life, work or study).
Communicate more. 4.Even if you don't, you can be in the same place. Keep sending gifts to each other on holidays and send each other a little surprise.
5.Try to avoid unnecessary arguments.
Digest your emotions more and face your partner with a better emotional stability.
6.Both sides should give each other a sense of security, promises and guarantees.
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She is in Henan, I am in Beijing, we met when she came to work for a summer vacation, she went back for a month, we have a long-distance relationship, I will go to see her every month, every time I want to leave, I can't stand it, I will work hard to give her a stable home!
It's okay to be separated for a while, and you can experience the kind of happiness that you see after lovesickness, which is beyond the happiness experienced by everyday lovers; But after a long time, when you are accustomed to this kind of happiness, you can only have one feeling, you feel tired, so you will separate! Therefore, cherish this fate, and the two of them will work hard in the same city, otherwise end the relationship as soon as possible. Dreams are sometimes inevitably knocked down by reality.
I had such an experience, I was really distressed, I was obviously well-intentioned but did bad things, others thought that I didn't have a good heart, and as a result, I misunderstood me, and I was very sad at the time.