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Anonymous users2024-02-12There's nothing to worry about.
You have to start with yourself.
Think about what you don't do enough.
Start from your own inadequacy.
Try to be "gentle" yourself.
Like smiling or something......）
Second, you need to talk to your classmates or colleagues a lot.
Blend in with their circle and talk about them and talk about yourself.
Third, attend more gatherings between colleagues or family members.
Meetups will teach you how to get along with your colleagues and friends.
This is my small opinion. Thank you.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Just remember the two words "pay" at any time. Think more about others, think about others, you don't need to take the initiative to make friends, others will take the initiative to come to you to make friends.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Tolerance, understanding, in short, think more about others, there will be rewards if you pay.
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Anonymous users2024-02-091. Lack of self-awareness and some bad cognition.
When there is interpersonal conflict, some people will put their emotions on arguing about who is right and who is wrong, and the problem will be intensified, but if you can be aware, constantly know yourself, improve yourself, find possible problems from yourself, and take the initiative to improve it. Then, self-knowledge and interpersonal skills will continue to improve. In the process of interpersonal communication, it is necessary to understand others, start from the perspective of others, learn to empathize with others, and be considerate of others.
That is, to improve self-awareness and improve bad cognition.
2. Unable to master interpersonal skills and strong personal psychological quality.
Learn from your classmates who have strong interpersonal skills and observe how others interact with others. They all do what you like and how you should do it. Learn to praise others, praise is not hypocrisy, but fact-based appreciation, knowing that no one likes to be blamed, and praise may become a motivation for growth, and it will win good relationships.
In interpersonal communication, respect, sincerity, and understanding each other from the perspective of others are the foundation of interpersonal communication, and learning to respect others, treat others with a sincere attitude and put ourselves in the shoes of others requires us to learn hard.
3. Inability to control one's emotions.
When you have a conflict with others, learn not to deal with things with emotions. When we have emotions, the words we say may be irrational and not what we want to express, so it is important to learn to control our emotions and deal with the present moment rationally, and we need to practice it in our daily life.
Interpersonal communication is also a compulsory course for college students, and after entering the society in the future, we will experience more severe polishing, so we should master good interpersonal skills during college.
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