What are the elderly who help their children with babies bear?

I think they are all bearing the dissatisfaction of their children, as well as the responsibility and pressure of raising children, as well as the multiple physical and mental tortures, in fact, at this age, they can enjoy their lives as shopkeepers;

But because I feel sorry for my children, I am willing to suffer the white eyes and incomprehension of my children here, which is actually unfair to the elderly, so I think that as a child, I should let my parents take care of my children.

A related **** about the day of the old man with the child has aroused the attention and heated discussions of netizens, many people began to wipe their tears after seeing this, and the old man will feel empathy after reading it;

Children will feel guilty after reading it, many times we think that it is a matter of course for the elderly to help us take care of our children, but in fact, it is not, the elderly to help our children is not an obligation or responsibility, but because of distress for children;

Ninety percent of the elderly will feel aggrieved when they help their sons take care of their children, because they do the most things at home, but they are stared at and complained by their children, and the old people are doing a free nanny when they help their sons take care of their children, so I think in fact, the elderly should not help their children take care of their children.

In addition to taking on all the housework at home, I also need to bear all kinds of pressure to take care of my children, worrying that I will not be able to give an explanation to my children after the child's accident, so I am terrified every day;

This is the norm for the elderly to help their children take care of their children, when they are not good, they will be complained by their children, and when they do not do well, they will be blamed by their children, many times they are so busy that they have no time to rest, but because of a love and responsibility, they have to persevere.

Therefore, I think that as a child, you should be more considerate of your parents, and don't be a shopkeeper, because the child is your own, so you have to take this responsibility, and don't push everything to your parents;

As a parent, I think we should learn to let go, and at this time we should enjoy our own life, after working hard for most of my life, do I still have to continue to live with such pressure? Therefore, we should still look at it and live for ourselves, and children have their own blessings.

I think they're bearing the pain of the body, and they're also bearing the pressure of life, so I think the old people are taking on a lot of things, so I think the old people are very sad.

If there is a little problem with the child, the old man takes the risk of being blamed; Undertake the cultivation of grandchildren, go to primary school pick-up; There is no time and space of your own.

Bear the responsibilities that should be borne by the children, because the children are born to the children, and it is also their responsibility to take care of the children.

These elderly people need to take into account the feelings of their children, and they also have to treat their grandchildren according to their children's requirements, and they also have to take care of their grandchildren's daily situations.

These old people are under a lot of pressure, and they are usually very hard, raising children is already hard, and they are also bearing a lot of psychological pressure, but also to take care of the children's food and clothing, and also to pick up and drop off the children, but also to protect the children, to avoid accidents or dangers for children.

In fact, such old people have been busy all their lives, they have no time to rest, after taking their sons and grandchildren, they have no time for their own independence, I think the biggest responsibility for them is freedom.

Personally, I think that the elderly who help their children take care of their babies have taken on a great responsibility, after all, the health and safety of children need to be borne by these elderly people.

These elderly people have less time to belong to themselves, and they have to take care of their grandchildren in addition to taking care of their emotions.

Bear the abuse of children. Because when the children come home from work, they will get emotional and scold their parents when they see the children injured.

It bears a very big responsibility, because children are more difficult to manage nowadays, and there is a large generation gap between the old and the young, and it is very likely that there will be conflicts with their children.

Generally, no. The child's grandparents and maternal grandparents are not legally obligated to raise and guardian their grandchildren.

Parents have a legal obligation to take custody and upbringing of their children.

Unless the parents are deceased, or the parents are unable to support the child, the child's grandparents or maternal grandparents can be the child's guardian and guardian. The conditions for grandparents to raise grandchildren and grandchildren are:

1. The grandchild is not yet a minor.

The grandchildren and grandchildren who are dependents must be young and unattached. If you are an adult, of course, there is no question of being raised.

Minors here should be understood as minors who are incapable of living. If you have the ability to live independently, of course, you can't let others support you anymore. For example, minors who have reached the age of 16 but are under the age of 18 and are able to live on their own labor income** and at the same time have the ability to live independently, this provision should no longer apply.

2. The grandchild's parents are dead or unable to support them.

"Father is dead and mother is dead" or "parents are unable to support them" means that both parents are deceased, or neither parent is able to support them, or one parent dies and the other parent is unable to support them. If one of the parents is still alive and has the ability to support them, of course, they cannot be raised by their grandparents.

3. Grandparents can afford it.

Affordability here includes financial conditions and guardianship capacity, and this provision does not apply to grandparents who are old and have no financial foundation.

Legal basis. Civil Code

Article 26: Parents have the obligation to raise, educate, and protect their minor children.

Adult children have an obligation to their parents to support, support and protect them.

Article 1,000 False Fiction Article 67: Where parents do not perform their obligation to support them, minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand that their parents pay child support.

Parents who fail to fulfill their obligation to support their adult children, or who lack the ability to work or who have difficulties in living, have the right to demand maintenance from their adult children.

Article 1074:Grandparents who can afford it have an obligation to support their minor grandchildren whose parents have died or whose parents are unable to support them.

Grandchildren who can afford it have the obligation to support their grandparents who have died or whose children are unable to support them.

In recent years, there has been a marked increase in the number of young people "economically gnawing at the elderly" and "housework at the elderly", and it is understandable for the elderly to help their children do housework and take care of their children within their ability out of consideration of family affection, but this is by no means their obligation.

So, are the elderly obligated to raise their grandchildren? Whether the elderly have the right to claim "grandchild fees".

Some people think that it is a "convention" for grandparents or maternal grandparents to raise their grandchildren, not to mention that family members also have the obligation to help each other, so it is appropriate for the elderly to bring their grandchildren at their own expense.

Another view is that grandparents or maternal grandfathers do not have a legal obligation to support their own grandchildren, and grandparents take care of children for their children, and the nature of such behavior is no different from hiring a nanny, and a labor contract relationship is formed between them and their children, and the children should pay the corresponding labor fees.

The third view is that parents have the obligation to raise and educate their children, and since grandparents or maternal grandparents raise their grandchildren on behalf of their children in accordance with the provisions of the Contract Law, they should pay the corresponding expenses to the elderly.

According to the laws of our country, parents are the legal guardians of their children and have the obligation to raise and educate their children. Therefore, in judicial practice, we have the right to require the beneficiary to reimburse the necessary expenses paid by the beneficiaries in accordance with the provisions of the General Provisions of the Civil Law on management without cause, that is, if there is no legal or agreed obligation to manage or provide services in order to avoid the loss of the interests of others.

However, at the same time, we should make it clear that since there is no written or oral labor contract between the elderly and their children, and there is no contractual relationship between the two parties, the "grandchild fee" claimed by the elderly refers to the expenses actually spent by the elderly on behalf of his children, and is not the labor fee obtained by the elderly through litigation.

After analysis, do you understand? Finally, in today's society governed by the rule of law, we must not let habits overshadow the law, and every family member should find out their own position and clarify their obligations and responsibilities.