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Anonymous users2024-02-12When it comes to children's education, hygiene and health issues, most of the elderly come from rural areas, and it is very unsafe to take care of their children in their original way.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11The elderly who help their children take care of their babies are suffering hardship, grievances, and complaints from their children. When I was young, I was exhausted for my children, and when I was old, I still had an unfinished heart, although the children grew up, but the children's children were still young.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10I think it is not easy to help my children bring the elderly to bear the incomprehension of parents, as well as some differences in educational concepts, and also bear the personal safety of children. is a thankless act.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09First of all, it will bear a series of risks to the child's health, and the child needs to be held responsible for any problems or injuries in the process, so this behavior should be minimized.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08These elderly people are at high risk of getting sick because they are already very old, and having these children increases the risk.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Usually, the child's safety problem, if it bumps into it, it is easy to be complained by the child's parents, if the child is sick and hospitalized, the elderly will also be very hard, and there is a fear that the child will be lost, the old man will not use the current method to seek help.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06In life, it is a moral responsibility for children to take care of their parents. And for parents, it is also a moral responsibility to help their children with their children. In this interrelated relationship of responsibility, children should respect the wishes of the elderly as much as possible, while also taking into account the actual situation of the elderly.
If the elderly are in good physical condition, have a stable psychological state, and can accept work with children, then the children can provide a certain degree of living and material support for the elderly, but generally do not need to pay additional fees. However, if the elderly are in poor physical condition or need to pay special attention to rest and diet, etc., and need to bear additional responsibilities and risks, then it is necessary to pay some additional fees to show respect and gratitude to the elderly. From a legal point of view, at present, there is no clear provision in China that children need to pay for the elderly and children.
However, if there is a written agreement between the child and the elderly, or an oral agreement is reached in the presence of witnesses such as relatives, neighbors, lawyers, etc., then such an agreement has certain legal force. At the same time, when signing the agreement, the children need to take into account the actual situation and ability of the elderly, ensure that the elderly can be competent to take care of the work of the children, and avoid false situations in the agreement. If an elderly person can afford to take care of a child, and the child refuses to pay the expenses, it can lead to disputes between the parties and even lead to an escalation of family conflicts.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05It is not the obligation of the elderly to take care of children. However, as a family member, if the children need the help of the elderly, it is best to help take care of the children if the elderly's health condition allows. After all, now Xinsong has to go to work, and he can't take care of the children by himself.
Of course, if the old man can't help, there's nothing to disturb. Because helping is love, not helping is duty.
Unacceptable.
Probably because of the difference in thinking between the two generations. When they reach a certain age, parents will be anxious about the problem of their children starting a family, and as children, we often feel that it is too early, not in a hurry, and can take it slowly. So some anxious parents began to ask for their children's marriage, usually all kinds of pimping, hoping that you will definitely marry tomorrow the day after tomorrow. >>>More
My grandfather was a dad who would use his off-duty time to go fishing in the mountains to nourish the hungry children, and go to the pork shop to buy bones that others didn't want to go home and boil bone oil to increase the nutrition of the children. However, while paying attention to material and physique, he is a father with a flawed personality who exerts unnecessary psychological pressure on his family for a long time. When the child is young, he likes to beat with sticks, and when he grows up, he often scolds. >>>More
In the end, they also have to let their children support themselves, because children have an obligation to support their parents, and this is what they have to do.
To sum up, in one sentence, that is, can not let go, the characteristics of Chinese mothers with children is to protect the child too well, they always feel that the child is too small, should be protected in all kinds of ways, so three layers of the outside, like an iron warrior to wrap the child in the mother's love, the child grows all the way she also works all the way, I think this way of taking the child is not bad, but you protect it too well, it is likely to limit the growth of the child. >>>More
Mothers will help their educated daughters with their children, after all, my mother will help my sister with the children.